Now I get the problem with certain feminists and the Friendzone.

[LJ_Reloaded]

Why the fuck didn't I see it before?

The reason why some women HATE the term Friendzone and think that it doesn’t exist is fucking simple as hell.

The women that hate the term Friendzone have never been smitten over some dude. Period. This is aside from the additional fact that they’ve never had the experience of going the extra mile to try to court him, and then been told “I just want us to be friends” after all of that. Courting a guy is an alien experience for these particular women, for one, and rejection is even more alien to them.

People who rage at the idea of the “Friendzone” have never been head over heels in love and have never seen it end in “let’s just be friends”. And any woman who despises that word Friendzone sure as hell has never had a hard time dating men.

Think about that.

The minute, the second that a woman finds herself on the line of scrimmage dealing with her potential soulmate telling her he loves her only like a sister, is the moment she learns what the Friendzone is all about and she has her come-to-Jesus moment. She may not admit it, but she knows that she is in the fiery lake of agony known as the Friendzone.

 

[Lancecastor]

Was she cute?

 

[richard_daily]

Why the fuck didn't I see it before?

The reason why some women HATE the term Friendzone and think that it doesn’t exist is fucking simple as hell.

The women that hate the term Friendzone have never been smitten over some dude. Period. This is aside from the additional fact that they’ve never had the experience of going the extra mile to try to court him, and then been told “I just want us to be friends” after all of that. Courting a guy is an alien experience for these particular women, for one, and rejection is even more alien to them.

People who rage at the idea of the “Friendzone” have never been head over heels in love and have never seen it end in “let’s just be friends”. And any woman who despises that word Friendzone sure as hell has never had a hard time dating men.

Think about that.

The minute, the second that a woman finds herself on the line of scrimmage dealing with her potential soulmate telling her he loves her only like a sister, is the moment she learns what the Friendzone is all about and she has her come-to-Jesus moment. She may not admit it, but she knows that she is in the fiery lake of agony known as the Friendzone.

The ONLY one around here "raging about the friendzone" (why are you capitalizing it?) is you.

 

[badbabysitter]

Why the fuck didn't I see it before?

The reason why some women HATE the term Friendzone and think that it doesn’t exist is fucking simple as hell.

The women that hate the term Friendzone have never been smitten over some dude.

I have.


Period.[/QUOTE]

Nope.

This is aside from the additional fact that they’ve never had the experience of going the extra mile to try to court him, and then been told “I just want us to be friends” after all of that.

I have

Courting a guy is an alien experience for these particular women, for one, and rejection is even more alien to them.

Nopers

People who rage at the idea of the “Friendzone” have never been head over heels in love and have never seen it end in “let’s just be friends”.

Nope, I have

And any woman who despises that word Friendzone sure as hell has never had a hard time dating men.

Or they think it's angsty teenage bullshit..like I do

Think about that.[/QUOTE]


You haven't

The minute, the second that a woman finds herself on the line of scrimmage dealing with her potential soulmate telling her he loves her only like a sister, is the moment she learns what the Friendzone is all about and she has her come-to-Jesus moment. She may not admit it, but she knows that she is in the fiery lake of agony known as the Friendzone.

Or teenage angst people carry over into their adult years being incapable of emotional growth..

PS

you're the only one on this site raging about friendzone

what does that say about you?

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

you're the only one on this site raging about friendzone

what does that say about you?

It says absolutely nothing. Literotica is not the world at large. The world at large knows "let's just be friends" does happen, a LOT - unlike you.

And you're absolutely full of shit if you say you just simply "got over" a guy you were smitten with and got rejected by.

 

[subdued_passion]

Hi LJ!

You're right, Literotica is not the world.

Can you please give us a link to wherever these feminists are raging about the friendzone?

I for one am curious because I never realised it was such a burning issue.





(Side note- I've noticed everyone refers to you as LT, is it LT or LJ?)

 

[Aphro]

And you're absolutely full of shit if you say you just simply "got over" a guy you were smitten with and got rejected by.

Nope. Shit happens, move on.

There were guys I liked who didn't like me back. I really did try chasing this one guy years ago, and while he seemed interested at first, we never got together, and eventually I got the hint. I was disappointed at the time, but it sure as hell didn't define my life.

There were also guys who liked me, and I was not interested in, or, I went on a couple of dates and knew it wasn't going to work out. Oh well, I sure hope they didn't sit pining in their rooms after!

Life is like that, sometimes you make a connection, sometimes you don't.

 

[bronzeage]

The ONLY one around here "raging about the friendzone" (why are you capitalizing it?) is you.

When LT gets friendzoned, it means he can't call her, or get closer than 100 yards to her home or workplace.

 

[BotanyBoy]

It says absolutely nothing.

Dude your weekly "friendzone" thread screams volumes about you....

Literotica is not the world at large. The world at large knows "let's just be friends" does happen, a LOT - unlike you.

"Let's just be friends" does happen.....a LOT....but adults get over and sniff elsewhere.

And you're absolutely full of shit if you say you just simply "got over" a guy you were smitten with and got rejected by.

No...she's not...she's an adult....that's what adults do...they accept the loss, feel the sting, and move on....

It only sounds crazy to you b/c your so emotionally broken you can't.

When LT gets friendzoned, it means he can't call her, or get closer than 100 yards to her home or workplace.

LMFAO.

 

[Liar]

The women that hate the term Friendzone have never been smitten over some dude. Period. This is aside from the additional fact that they’ve never had the experience of going the extra mile to try to court him, and then been told “I just want us to be friends” after all of that. Courting a guy is an alien experience for these particular women, for one, and rejection is even more alien to them.

If the tropes are true, (Are they? I dunno. But you base your argument on tropes, so do I.) women who are smitten over some dude who is not smitten back, are more likely to be pumped and dumped than friendzoned. Which would you prefer?

 

[Liar]

(Side note- I've noticed everyone refers to you as LT, is it LT or LJ?)

Some people here change names like others change panties.

Personally, I have changed niether in ten years.

 

[bronzeage]

(Side note- I've noticed everyone refers to you as LT, is it LT or LJ?)

Before LT began his rapid descent into madness, his user name was LovingTongue. He still liked women in those days. All this came to an end when he created a thread in which he claimed to be a friend using LT's account to announce LT had died on a trans-Atlantic flight after choking on a peanut. The purpose of the flight was to bring home an adopted baby girl. This scenario placed LT's newly widowed wife, holding her new baby, while she sat beside her slowly cooling husband.

LT thought this was very funny and could not understand the hostility he received when he returned under the name LeJackelope. That name didn't last long because he started trolling some poor guy and kept posting the man's personal info, lifted from a resume page. After repeated warnings, Laurel busted his account. He returned as LJreloaded.


The wife and kids used to play a prominent place in his posts, but we don't hear much about them anymore.

 

[unregistered]

 

[NatashaluvBoris]

If the tropes are true, (Are they? I dunno. But you base your argument on tropes, so do I.) women who are smitten over some dude who is not smitten back, are more likely to be pumped and dumped than friendzoned. Which would you prefer?

When I don't whore myself out to a guy I'd rather be friends with I'm a frigid bitch. But if I do the equivalent of the pump and dump I'm a whore.

I LOVE BEING A GIRL!

 

[bronzeage]

And he shoots dogs.

He still posts about dogs, but the wife and kids are long gone. Now it's dogs, coyotes, and dating woes of the middle aged bachelor.

 

[subdued_passion]

Some people here change names like others change panties.

Personally, I have changed niether in ten years.

Before LT began his rapid descent into madness, his user name was LovingTongue. He still liked women in those days. All this came to an end when he created a thread in which he claimed to be a friend using LT's account to announce LT had died on a trans-Atlantic flight after choking on a peanut. The purpose of the flight was to bring home an adopted baby girl. This scenario placed LT's newly widowed wife, holding her new baby, while she sat beside her slowly cooling husband.

LT thought this was very funny and could not understand the hostility he received when he returned under the name LeJackelope. That name didn't last long because he started trolling some poor guy and kept posting the man's personal info, lifted from a resume page. After repeated warnings, Laurel busted his account. He returned as LJreloaded.


The wife and kids used to play a prominent place in his posts, but we don't hear much about them anymore.

Wow! Thanks for the info.


The LJ I've seen on Lit has been some one overly passionate about men's rights. I find it hard to believe that someone could fake (or would want to fake) that kind of dedication.

My only complain with him is that he keeps trying to make it seem like he's all for equal rights but he really does little to hide his bias.

 

[unregistered]

 

[bronzeage]

Wow! Thanks for the info.


The LJ I've seen on Lit has been some one overly passionate about men's rights. I find it hard to believe that someone could fake (or would want to fake) that kind of dedication.

My only complain with him is that he keeps trying to make it seem like he's all for equal rights but he really does little to hide his bias.

LT was once a sensible person and one of the calmer voices on the GB, but something happened. He used to post about his wife and kids a lot, but they disappeared from his threads and "men's rights" became his new obsession.

Whooooooaaaaaaaa.


When did his million dollar insurance mogul go away?

And the Simm kids too?


Holy shit, Batman.

It doesn't take Hercule Poirot to figure out what happened.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Hi LJ!

You're right, Literotica is not the world.

Can you please give us a link to wherever these feminists are raging about the friendzone?

I for one am curious because I never realised it was such a burning issue.





(Side note- I've noticed everyone refers to you as LT, is it LT or LJ?)

Google "feminists friendzone" and you will come up with a BILLION articles like this:

http://feministsatlarge.wordpress.com/2013/01/30/the-friendzone-is-a-sexist-myth/

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Dude your weekly "friendzone" thread screams volumes about you....



"Let's just be friends" does happen.....a LOT....but adults get over and sniff elsewhere.



No...she's not...she's an adult....that's what adults do...they accept the loss, feel the sting, and move on....

If you weren't hiding under your self sufficient no union labor anywhere rock, you'd realize that 'unrequited love' is one of the biggest subjects of ADULT romance drama - in the literary world and real life.

 

[BotanyBoy]

ADULT romance drama in the literary world and real life.

BAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA

And even in the books THEY GET THE FUCK OVER IT!!!

I'm sorry LJ.......you're just a sad sad little man who can't get laid.

 

[subdued_passion]

Google "feminists friendzone" and you will come up with a BILLION articles like this:

http://feministsatlarge.wordpress.com/2013/01/30/the-friendzone-is-a-sexist-myth/

"The idea that every “Nice Guy” is owed sex or a romantic relationship by his female friends is ridiculous. "

^^^Taken from the blog you linked, it's the crux of that article.

So are you disagreeing with her?

And if I take it in the context of your OP, you believe that she is offering tips on dealing with rejection in an adult manner because she is the kind of feminist who has never experienced unrequited love.

 

[Liar]

What I don't get is what someone who complains about being stuck in some girl's "friend zone" actually want. A pity poke?

 

[bronzeage]

What I don't get is what someone who complains about being stuck in some girl's "friend zone" actually want. A pity poke?

They want everyone to stand around her in a circle and call her a cold hearted bitch who doesn't know a good thing when she sees it.

 

[doctor_insanus]

I've been friendzoned. It hurts.

Then I get over it.