Wife with another lover and you've agreed to it: Would she want you there? Next room? Away?

My wife prefer no. 1 but she wouldn’t mind me watching her in the same room.
 
My wife and I have an understanding worked out over the years of her playing around. First few dates with a new guy she goes solo. Then when she’s comfortable with him she suggests he comes to our house. Most will.
Once he’s fucking her in our bed I usually get to watch.
 
My wife knows she could, and reserves the right, but has never had serious interest in it.

I'm going to ask her this question but I'm also curious what other women would want or what guys think their wives would want.

Here is the question:

She's going to have sex with another guy. She doesn't want the guys playing with each other, it's all about her. Does she want:

1. To be alone with the guy

2. Have you in another room, listening

3. Have you in the same room, watching

4. Have you in the same room and on the bed, helping them, in either a supportive role or full participation


I'm going to guess my wife's answer. I think it will be a "it depends". #1 wouldn't happen unless she knew the guy extremely well. I doubt she'd want #2 or #3 because she'd find that distracting and a little cruel to me. I think she'll say #4.
OMG…Im such a voyeur, I’d love to watch…be in the room and a romantic…so love touching and playing, PM me, k?
 
My wife knows she could, and reserves the right, but has never had serious interest in it.

I'm going to ask her this question but I'm also curious what other women would want or what guys think their wives would want.

Here is the question:

She's going to have sex with another guy. She doesn't want the guys playing with each other, it's all about her. Does she want:

1. To be alone with the guy

2. Have you in another room, listening

3. Have you in the same room, watching

4. Have you in the same room and on the bed, helping them, in either a supportive role or full participation


I'm going to guess my wife's answer. I think it will be a "it depends". #1 wouldn't happen unless she knew the guy extremely well. I doubt she'd want #2 or #3 because she'd find that distracting and a little cruel to me. I think she'll say #4.
I would predict she would say 1 or 2 I tried to get her to agree to a three. Some. I started out with her calling up phone chat while i went to sleep . Once in a while I would wake up while she was trying to be quiet in the loft. She would get mad if I surprised her. I didn't get the results I wanted as I haven't seen her in 5 years I still love her .
 
My wife and I only play in the same room. Usually it’s a threesome, some guys don’t want me in bed with them but she insists if anything is going to happen I will be there at least standing naked next to the bed watching.

Quite often when he watches me clean her up and get sloppy seconds he ends up watching and jerking. That tends to be when my wife reminds him that I am bi and could give him another blowjob.

Love it when he gives in and gets his first blowjob from a guy.😋
 
I've had an instance where hubby was told to sit in a chair & watch us have each other, everytime he came close, she would send him back 2 his chair ..... eventually he could have a closr look, but not touch. Poor bugga since she was freakin on fire. Guess he's gonna b a good boy after that lesson 😏
 
My wife has done #1, 3 and 4.
If it's a guy she knows but I don't, or I barely know, then she wants to fuck him alone.
If it's a guy we both know well, or I know well, then either she fucks him and I watch or I join in and we both fuck her.
I should also add if it's a guy that isn't comfortable with me watching or participating, like my coworker was, then my wife fucks him alone.
 
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In our discussions, my wife says #1.

She doesn't want me watching, a little self conscious. She would come back to me with a pussy full of cum or her big boobs sticky from a load and fill me in on the details. Alas, it hasn't happened yet.
 
Only on a few occasions has my husband not been in the same room when I was getting fucked by another man, but he was in another bedroom in those instances, having sex with another woman who was the guys wife. When only another man is involved we both prefer it if he is in the same room. There is never anything degrading or derogatory towards my guy from either me or my partner said or suggested to him. Only the pleasure of watching me getting screwed by another man. It's like a big triangle of both mental and physical pleasure for us all. Sometimes he will even instruct both of us on what to do to each other. "Fuck her harder", I have heard him say to my lover who was giving it to me doggy style.

And as I write this he is laying naked next to me, rubbing my ass while I am laying her typing. He literally just whispered, "I love watching you get laid."
 
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