Would you go back and marry/commit to the same person?

never been married but there was one i wish i did and still wish i had forever guaranteed but life is amazing and theres a vast amount of beautiful woman so really cant say hundred percent
 
Thinking back on the people I dated before and the people that I have met since I probably made the right choice 43 years ago.
It's very good but not perfect if there is such a thing.
I agree with some others I don't think one person can fulfill everything one wants in life.
 
My ex-wife and I were each other's firsts. We had some great exciting times. After 30 years we separated, got back together for a year (after 6 months apart). Then of course eventually got divorced.
She remarried. I didn't.
I still care for her and
 
If I was in the same room as Hitler and Stalin with some of the people I dated and I had three bullets, I'd shoot the exes twice. Or myself.

Some of them were lovely and compatible, but I won't go back to them except to treat them casually like they did me. They were okay but had wandering eyes and might have been sluts or players, and I feel some of them did hurt me often enough. I don't care about them now except remembering how we had sex. If I was horny enough I'd let them fuck me and then walk out.
 
my ex was a drop dead gorgeous blue eyed blonde with an awesome body. sucking my dick made her drip big time. her pussy was delicious and we loved each other for 21+ years, so much that i asked her to marry me 3 times. she said yes each time. not sure if i would again...maybe, but it's all mute point now. after we divorced unfortunately she became bipolar and died at the age of 51.
 
my ex was a drop dead gorgeous blue eyed blonde with an awesome body. sucking my dick made her drip big time. her pussy was delicious and we loved each other for 21+ years, so much that i asked her to marry me 3 times. she said yes each time. not sure if i would again...maybe, but it's all mute point now. after we divorced unfortunately she became bipolar and died at the age of 51.
I am so sorry to hear that. Hope you have found some peace. Sounds like you were head over heels in love with her. May she rest in peace. 🫂
 
i was and maybe i still am. she was my wife, i'd have done anything for her. i don't think she ever knew how much she meant to me.
 
I absolutely most definitely would fully and wholeheartedly commit to my spiritual twin brother again.
In fact, I would not "wait" 4 years before openly saying what internally I've been convinced of for the final 3 of those.
 
My wife and I were having a conversation about some common friends. Slowly the conversation turned to our marriage and we asked each other if, turning back time, we would pick each other again knowing what we know about each other now.
My answer was a yes (not just because I didn't want to end up in the doghouse...lol). Overall:
  1. Things have happened that I did not expect: sexless marriage, a toning down of her social side and some other minor things
  2. Some things have remained the same: shared values on life in general, mutual love and respect , her love for animals rubbing off on me
I have never believed in the "one, true soulmate" concept and even if there is one, I don't have the patience. I found a girl I liked, we vibes on many things and put a ring on her.

What about you? Knowing everything you know now about your partner would you change your decision if time was turned back?
Knowing what I know now about life, about myself and my spouse, no. I wouldn’t trade my son or grandkids for the world though, so there’s that.
 
My wife and I were having a conversation about some common friends. Slowly the conversation turned to our marriage and we asked each other if, turning back time, we would pick each other again knowing what we know about each other now.
My answer was a yes (not just because I didn't want to end up in the doghouse...lol). Overall:
  1. Things have happened that I did not expect: sexless marriage, a toning down of her social side and some other minor things
  2. Some things have remained the same: shared values on life in general, mutual love and respect , her love for animals rubbing off on me
I have never believed in the "one, true soulmate" concept and even if there is one, I don't have the patience. I found a girl I liked, we vibes on many things and put a ring on her.

What about you? Knowing everything you know now about your partner would you change your decision if time was turned back?
Would I yes I would still together going on 41 years, however if I did with the knowledge I had today I am sure there would be tweaks I would love to make (not to her but to myself) to make some times less harder on her! We never had the luck of having children which was for many reasons both hers and mine but mine came about in my 30's when she wanted kids and I at the time didn't but if I could go back I would have loved to give her the children she wanted.
 
Just shy of 50 years of marriage, with a year off for bad behavior!
Had a couple spectacular short term relationships that could have been.
But 3 kids later, lots of dissatisfaction and regret, we probably did the right thing by staying together for the kids.
They have families, all is well in the universe. Time has healed all. We find away to rock on!
 
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