In The Closet ?

[mwm45]

How Many Guys or Gals are Married or in a relationship and They are unaware that You are Bisexual ?

As for Me, I am Bi-sexual, have only acted on it with another guy like twice though, but wife does know that I like Anal Toys and sometimes takes part. but she would never go along with Me being with another man or woman for that matter.

Tell Your story.

 

[bi golly]

I have been married twice and each time told my wife, before I married her, that I was attracted to men and had not done anything about it. My second wife got into some kinkier play, but she shut it down after we married.

Still haven't done much about that attraction.

 

[evanwired]

never mind

 

[kbstories]

My bi-sexuality has been my secret since I was a kid. I have kinda grown to appreciate having my own little kink that I don't share. This being said, it might also be fun if a persons spouse knew. I don't think my spouse would be able to understand or deal with it.

 

[SilkyDave]

would love it if she knew and she was more adventurous but i love her anyway

 

[OxonCornish]

Secrets

During my first marriage, I always knew I was attracted to cock but loved Pussy and my wife to much to do anything about it.
She said she wanted to have a threesome for her birthday and I got very excited by this and we started talking about what would happen.
It turns out that she was completely against me having anything to do with the other guys cock and I was very disappointed by this.
When my marriage broke up, I started to play the field and made contact with several guys and experienced all sorts of things, some of which I've written about on here ;-)
Now I'm in another relationship with a woman I love very much but yet again she's not interested in letting me explore my bisexual side.
This time, I have a couple of friends who are very discreet and we meet up occasionally to have fun and we keep it safe and quiet.
Life is too short to cut yourself off from the things that you enjoy but you have to make sure everybody is safe and nobody gets hurt. Unless you're into that lol

 

[fifelass]

I had my first bi experience when I was 19 , had a few before meeting my ex husband but then put it on hold. He was a complete homo phobe, couldn't even watch two girls kissing on telly without throwing up. So after nearly 20 yr of being with him he still didn;t know I was bi. Since separating from him 3 years ago I have once again been tasting the delights of pussy. Delicious.

 

[poisonedLust]

you know you guys would be surprised how open minded some women can be.I love the idea of my man sleeping with a guy but hes totally straight. some of my friends are into it too it just has to be brung up slowly..like having her play with ur ass and soon she'll be wanting to fuck it...and have someone else fuck you. .lol

 

[jackstud]

 

[Somehowyou]

I had my first bi experience when I was 19 , had a few before meeting my ex husband but then put it on hold. He was a complete homo phobe, couldn't even watch two girls kissing on telly without throwing up. So after nearly 20 yr of being with him he still didn;t know I was bi. Since separating from him 3 years ago I have once again been tasting the delights of pussy. Delicious.

Good for you! Nothing makes my Dick stand up more than two girls kissing! Enjoy.

 

[Phydeax69]

My wife has no clue, in fact she isn't into anything even remotely related to porn, and for a while after she found out I was having an online (only) affair with another woman, she had me put software on my computer that blocked anything questionable, and let her know where I was surfing...but you know, you do what you do for love...anyway....

I was more 'bi' back before I got married, (mainly high school and college days) but mostly dated women up until we got serious and got married. I've only had one physical encounter since we got married, and that was after chatting with someone online (the old AOL chat rooms) and we realized that we lived about 5miles apart...unfortunately that really didn't develop into anything long standing....There are approximately about 10 people that know my "secret" and of course those are the people I've had encounters with over the years.


But...I think if she knew my secrets, she'd be devastated and I'd be on the outside looking in. I know some people will say that I'm wasting away in an unhappy relationship etc...but you know, it works for me, I AM happy, and if I have to keep that part of my life at bay, so be it. The positives outweigh the negatives, so....

 

[BidudeinWi]

I have been bisexual since my early teens. I love my wife and sex with her is great. I do like man-sex and she would NOT understand. Rarely get the opportunity but on occasion, it is incredible.

 

[jshawk52]

I'm the same, bidude. No way she would understand. I've hinted around that I'm attracted to men, but she never responds. She does know I like ass-play and the taste of sperm.

 

[SilkyDave]

same here j, she just shuts it down when the subject comes up, too bad really, i think she would enjoy being ravaged by 2 guys then watching the 2 guys do the same to each other.....my sexual appetite is obvioulsy frustrated beyond words but it is what it is i guess

 

[eddie03]

Am in the closet to most people but my wife knows and is very excepting of it. She has told me that if the right person was to come along (safe, discret, and trustworthy) then I am allowed to have an affair. She has no interest in joining in though unless it was the right couple. Over the years there have been some close calls and I regret not taking the next step more than a couple times.

I doubt it will ever happen, but if it does then that would be great. If it doesn't I still can't complain as my wife is a beautiful lover. I know that sometimes fantasy can be greater than reality anyway. But either way I win so I am content.