College friend erotic experience: Still think about it. What do you think?

Are you still swinging? Would love to hear about the first time your wife saw/encouraged/helped you suck a cock.
Yes, have been off and on for over 20 years now.

Posted about that before:
First real experience(aside from youthful truth or dare type stuff) was a foursome at a swinger's club. A woman asked to join my wife and I who were getting busy in a room. After saying yes, she practically dove right in between my wife's legs and started eating her out. A short while later her husband asked to join. He started playing with my wife while his blew me. She started fingering me with the blowjob right away. I gave her a sly smile and said I bet she's good with a strap-on. Then we fucked each other's wives.

In the time between rounds we got to a little chatting and he mentioned that they were adventurous and open to most anything. As things started to heat up I was eating out his wife until she came...then I did it. Just leaned over and took his cock in my mouth and started sucking. I murmured with a mouth full of cock that it was my first time and he said the same. His wife got behind me and started fingering me again but with her hands low at her hips and essentially fucking me with them by thrusting her hips. Eventually he said he wanted to fuck my wife again and I reluctantly released his cock from my mouth as his wife went down on me.
 
Hello my friends.

I identify as a straight male, but somewhere along the sex spectrum not directly aligned with straight because I find the thought of certain experiences with another male to be erotic. As a side note, I also find it erotic and exciting to think about being with a feminine trans, boobs and penis. I apologize in advance because I am not sure of the correct or appropriate description and do not want to offend anyone.

I'm curious as to your thoughts on an experience I had many many years ago with my best friend in college and I continue to find the memory of it extremely erotic. My friend and I are still very close. In college, for a few months after going out with our girlfriends, we'd come back to either his apartment or mine drunk of course and would pleasure each other. He started it off by telling ne one night he wanted to JO together. I was so nervous it took me a few minutes to get hard. He took the lead and helped me get there. That lead to us jacking either other off and then to rubbing our hard cocks together until we came on each other. It was incredible. We graduated to sucking each other off before the fun stopped for good. I still think about rubbing oil on his cock and stroking him until he got hard and came. Also, what it was like to suck him off which was also incredibly erotic. We both are married, with kids and have stayed friends over the years. As far as I know he hasn't had another experience like this and neither have I. Now on the other side, I love a women's body and sex with my wife is fantastic. I also think about being able to play with a hard cock and maybe sucking as well. I am not interested in kissing or anal with a man. Over the years I have had lots of wonderful gay male friends and one actually kissed me when we were drunk one night. So, I've tried that and it was not as good as when I kiss women. Not interested in kissing more guys. I have always been into working out, and body building so I am attracted to muscular men and muscular woman. My wife is a D1 Athlete, tall and muscular. To this point, I find it arousing to think about playing with, and exploring a man's body that's in really great shape. Giving him a massage and happy ending. So, the question for those taking the time to read this is, do you think I'm Bi, or how would you describe me?

As a side note, unfortunately I am not able to share this story or my desire to explore this with my wife. She's not down with it, though she loves the thought of being with another woman and me.. Huh? Now that's not fare...LOL.

Thanks for your thoughts.
I prettt much believe we are all a little bisexual. If the taboo agains homosexuality didn’t exist, we would all be a lot more open. It was a normal practice in ancient times.
 
Hello my friends.

I identify as a straight male, but somewhere along the sex spectrum not directly aligned with straight because I find the thought of certain experiences with another male to be erotic. As a side note, I also find it erotic and exciting to think about being with a feminine trans, boobs and penis. I apologize in advance because I am not sure of the correct or appropriate description and do not want to offend anyone.

I'm curious as to your thoughts on an experience I had many many years ago with my best friend in college and I continue to find the memory of it extremely erotic. My friend and I are still very close. In college, for a few months after going out with our girlfriends, we'd come back to either his apartment or mine drunk of course and would pleasure each other. He started it off by telling ne one night he wanted to JO together. I was so nervous it took me a few minutes to get hard. He took the lead and helped me get there. That lead to us jacking either other off and then to rubbing our hard cocks together until we came on each other. It was incredible. We graduated to sucking each other off before the fun stopped for good. I still think about rubbing oil on his cock and stroking him until he got hard and came. Also, what it was like to suck him off which was also incredibly erotic. We both are married, with kids and have stayed friends over the years. As far as I know he hasn't had another experience like this and neither have I. Now on the other side, I love a women's body and sex with my wife is fantastic. I also think about being able to play with a hard cock and maybe sucking as well. I am not interested in kissing or anal with a man. Over the years I have had lots of wonderful gay male friends and one actually kissed me when we were drunk one night. So, I've tried that and it was not as good as when I kiss women. Not interested in kissing more guys. I have always been into working out, and body building so I am attracted to muscular men and muscular woman. My wife is a D1 Athlete, tall and muscular. To this point, I find it arousing to think about playing with, and exploring a man's body that's in really great shape. Giving him a massage and happy ending. So, the question for those taking the time to read this is, do you think I'm Bi, or how would you describe me?

As a side note, unfortunately I am not able to share this story or my desire to explore this with my wife. She's not down with it, though she loves the thought of being with another woman and me.. Huh? Now that's not fare...LOL.

Thanks for your thoughts.
You don't want to offend anyone, yet I'm offended. I'm offended by your statement of not wanting to offend anyone, which I find offensive. If one worries about offending others, one can never say anything important - ever! I mean, I'm sorry if that offends you...DAMMIT! I just made the exact mistake I just got offended at YOU for making! How embarrassing - fyi, embarrassment is just the act of taking offense at oneself.
 
Hello my friends.

I identify as a straight male, but somewhere along the sex spectrum not directly aligned with straight because I find the thought of certain experiences with another male to be erotic. As a side note, I also find it erotic and exciting to think about being with a feminine trans, boobs and penis. I apologize in advance because I am not sure of the correct or appropriate description and do not want to offend anyone.

I'm curious as to your thoughts on an experience I had many many years ago with my best friend in college and I continue to find the memory of it extremely erotic. My friend and I are still very close. In college, for a few months after going out with our girlfriends, we'd come back to either his apartment or mine drunk of course and would pleasure each other. He started it off by telling ne one night he wanted to JO together. I was so nervous it took me a few minutes to get hard. He took the lead and helped me get there. That lead to us jacking either other off and then to rubbing our hard cocks together until we came on each other. It was incredible. We graduated to sucking each other off before the fun stopped for good. I still think about rubbing oil on his cock and stroking him until he got hard and came. Also, what it was like to suck him off which was also incredibly erotic. We both are married, with kids and have stayed friends over the years. As far as I know he hasn't had another experience like this and neither have I. Now on the other side, I love a women's body and sex with my wife is fantastic. I also think about being able to play with a hard cock and maybe sucking as well. I am not interested in kissing or anal with a man. Over the years I have had lots of wonderful gay male friends and one actually kissed me when we were drunk one night. So, I've tried that and it was not as good as when I kiss women. Not interested in kissing more guys. I have always been into working out, and body building so I am attracted to muscular men and muscular woman. My wife is a D1 Athlete, tall and muscular. To this point, I find it arousing to think about playing with, and exploring a man's body that's in really great shape. Giving him a massage and happy ending. So, the question for those taking the time to read this is, do you think I'm Bi, or how would you describe me?

As a side note, unfortunately I am not able to share this story or my desire to explore this with my wife. She's not down with it, though she loves the thought of being with another woman and me.. Huh? Now that's not fare...LOL.

Thanks for your thoughts.
So here's my actual thought: You can identify however you wish, but you're not straight. If you're thinking I'm somehow judging you, um....see my pic? Of course, the term "straight" does not appear to mean what it once meant, so...maybe I'm wrong. Hold on. Nope. Silly me...entertaining the idea that I could be...wrong? Ahahhaha, heee, heh-heh...eh. No. That is...I'm sorry, not possible. Have I ever errored? Absolutely. Made mistakes? Guilty! But I identify as inerrant, due to my gigantic, Big Brian, between my ears.

Ok, real answer: Labels are absolutely stupid. Here's why - what determines if someone is straight, bi or gay? Thoughts and behaviors. And those are never stable. Yet we apply labels to things that are relatively stable - otherwise why do it? I call my li'l guy a cat, because that's his species. He's not ever going to be Not-cat, so...the label applies. Look at the word "straight" and what it means, which has also shifted. So...now we have a label that can evolve and human behavior, which changes by the minute - and we continue to treat these labels as anything valid? Rather silly, if you ask me but then again, I'm a sissy and what do we know? Stupid bimbo sissy, I am...so....stupid! But if you want to label yourself? How about this: Label yourself as to whether you're good with who you are and what you do. If you are good with yourself? Awesome. I'll never achieve that, why? Genetics. I'm told I'm half English half Irish, so...I'm always at war with myself. It's...it's tough.
 
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So here's my actual thought: You can identify however you wish, but you're not straight. If you're thinking I'm somehow judging you, um....see my pic? Of course, the term "straight" does not appear to mean what it once meant, so...maybe I'm wrong. Hold on. Nope. Silly me...entertaining the idea that I could be...wrong? Ahahhaha, heee, heh-heh...eh. No. That is...I'm sorry, not possible. Have I ever errored? Absolutely. Made mistakes? Guilty! But I identify as inerrant, due to my gigantic, Big Brian, between my ears.

Ok, real answer: Labels are absolutely stupid. Here's why - what determines if someone is straight, bi or gay? Thoughts and behaviors. And those are never stable. Yet we apply labels to things that are relatively stable - otherwise why do it? I call my li'l guy a cat, because that's his species. He's not ever going to be Not-cat, so...the label applies. Look at the word "straight" and what it means, which has also shifted. So...now we have a label that can evolve and human behavior, which changes by the minute - and we continue to treat these labels as anything valid? Rather silly, if you ask me but then again, I'm a sissy and what do we know? Stupid bimbo sissy, I am...so....stupid! But if you want to label yourself? How about this: Label yourself as to whether you're good with who you are and what you do. If you are good with yourself? Awesome. I'll never achieve that, why? Genetics. I'm told I'm half English half Irish, so...I'm always at war with myself. It's...it's tough.
So I have a male friend that I am sexually attracted to. We have had sex. I am attracted to his cock. I can not feel romantic love for another male, and I have a “type” of male that attracts me enough to want to play with his cock. Am I bi? Who cares?
 
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