For Both Men & Women: WHY Did You Become Bi or Have You Always Been That Way?

[HornyHusbandinSR]

Just curious.

In my case (although I will ALWAYS choose pussy over cock) living here in sexually dead Northern Virginia, I have given up on the former (after searching for 11 years) and that includes here at home. I am ALWAYS horny and LOVE pleasuring another person, female or male. Although finding cock in Northern Virginia is as impossible as finding pussy.

Did you become bi because of a situation similar to mine? Did you become bi out of curiousity? Have you always been bi?

FYI: I am a Retired MWM, 63, clean, d/d-free, looking for JO (and oral) buddies within 10 miles of where I live (South Riding -- on south end of Dulles International Airport, about 5 miles west of the Route 28/50 interchange).

Am available WEEKDAYS DAYTIME when wife's out for more than 90 minutes. Prefer to host BUT if you're REALLY CLOSE BY, I could come over.

Would LOVE to jack someone else's cock and suck it (NO Cum in mouth . . . yet).

Looking for MARRIED White or Black Males with CUT cocks (also prefer shaved cocks, balls, asses but LIGHTLY hairy is OK). MUST BE CLEAN, D-/D-FREE, NON-SMOKERS.

We can immediately get naked, watch porn, and stroke/suck each other.

NOTE: The e-mail address in my profile is WRONG and Lit will not correct it.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

Just curious.

In my case (although I will ALWAYS choose pussy over cock) living here in sexually dead Northern Virginia, I have given up on the former (after searching for 11 years) and that includes here at home. I am ALWAYS horny and LOVE pleasuring another person, female or male. Although finding cock in Northern Virginia is as impossible as finding pussy.

Did you become bi because of a situation similar to mine? Did you become bi out of curiousity? Have you always been bi?

FYI: I am a Retired MWM, 63, clean, d/d-free, looking for JO (and oral) buddies within 10 miles of where I live (South Riding -- on south end of Dulles International Airport, about 5 miles west of the Route 28/50 interchange).

Am available WEEKDAYS DAYTIME when wife's out for more than 90 minutes. Prefer to host BUT if you're REALLY CLOSE BY, I could come over.

Would LOVE to jack someone else's cock and suck it (NO Cum in mouth . . . yet).

Looking for MARRIED White or Black Males with CUT cocks (also prefer shaved cocks, balls, asses but LIGHTLY hairy is OK). MUST BE CLEAN, D-/D-FREE, NON-SMOKERS.

We can immediately get naked, watch porn, and stroke/suck each other.

NOTE: The e-mail address in my profile is WRONG and Lit will not correct it.

I never discovered that I was bi --, I did however discover that I would do ALMOST anything, to achieve pleasure and made this discovery more than 8 years before I was adult enough to understand --, pleasure wasn't supposed to be enjoyed ---, at least not by the societal mores of the day.

 

[HornyHusbandinSR]

yeah, sadly, wives/live-in girlfriends believe the same thing -- pleasure IS NOT to be enjoyed.

I never discovered that I was bi --, I did however discover that I would do ALMOST anything, to achieve pleasure and made this discovery more than 8 years before I was adult enough to understand --, pleasure wasn't supposed to be enjoyed ---, at least not by the societal mores of the day.

 

[19jimbo99]

Always been this way...just came natural I guess...

 

[loneguy01]

It Came Gradually

I had some experiences as a young teen - jerking off with friends and sometimes jerking each other off. I was awkward around girls and was a slow starter and I would wonder sometimes about gay sex. However, romantically I was always oriented towards women. I got married in my 20s and as I gained experience we had a great sex life for a number of years. As I approached 40, I did begin to have some gay fantasies spurred by some of the occasional gay stories that appeared in Penthouse Forum. I started visiting gay chat rooms in the late 90s and after a while I hooked up with some guys. Some of the experiences were awesome, some mediocre and some regrettable. I am now in my late 60s and the fantasies are strong and every once in a while I do hook up with someone. But, I have no romantic feelings towards men. I am on a second marriage and our relationship is great. She has no idea about my extra-curricular activities and I am very cautious about the arrangements which are rare.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

Always been this way...just came natural I guess...

19jimbo99 , are you bi?
Don't normally see guy's as nice looking as you as bisexual. With your looks , I'm sure there are lots of women clamoring to get your attention.

I'm sure there are lots of men clamoring as well, but trying not to show it.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

It Came Gradually

I had some experiences as a young teen - jerking off with friends and sometimes jerking each other off. I was awkward around girls and was a slow starter and I would wonder sometimes about gay sex. However, romantically I was always oriented towards women. I got married in my 20s and as I gained experience we had a great sex life for a number of years. As I approached 40, I did begin to have some gay fantasies spurred by some of the occasional gay stories that appeared in Penthouse Forum. I started visiting gay chat rooms in the late 90s and after a while I hooked up with some guys. Some of the experiences were awesome, some mediocre and some regrettable. I am now in my late 60s and the fantasies are strong and every once in a while I do hook up with someone. But, I have no romantic feelings towards men. I am on a second marriage and our relationship is great. She has no idea about my extra-curricular activities and I am very cautious about the arrangements which are rare.

Loneguy01, you sound similar to me. Although I have only experimented with a hand full of guys who had been long time friends, and were also married.
The experiences were also awesome for me and the friends with benefits relationship each lasted a year with a few and several years with 2.
I am also on my second marriage. First was 12 yrs and present is 22 yrs. Present wife knows nothing and needs to stay that way. She is not understanding on those matters.

First wife was a bisexual swim suit model who had a girlfriend for years who eventually moved it for about 4-5 years. They both were very turned on to the idea of seeing me with another guy and often masturbated to bi or gay male porn.

They made many attempts to set me up, trying to bring in a bi guy into the group. There were a few experiences there with two bi-couples that were two of the 1 year experiences I mentioned above.

I have written a few stories of the experiences I had with some of them. Let me know if you're interested in reading any of them.

I was in a sharing mood this morning and thought since we are in similar circumstances, you would appreciate this post.

M.