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Are gay or bi men interesting to women?

Britva415 said:
Someone commented in a completely unrelated thread in a completely unrelated forum:

Sure, I've seen this. But it made me think of some of the reactions that I (bi guy) have seen which weren't excessively weird but were still surprising.

After I dropped out of college and "went back" as an unenrolled person just to hang out with friends and party, I was fuckbuddies with a bi girl. After I spent the night with her in her dorm single, and her dorm friends met me the next day, she introduced me as gay to everyone. I was like "teehee, sure" and went along with it. After a few weeks of regular overnight visits, I realized she had a boyfriend in the dorm and was covering up for me. Teehee!

Another girl was like, "Is my pussy good enough for you?" I was like, "hell yeah, of course." I hadn't even brought up anal sex at all and she thought it was inevitable that I would. Keep in mind this was >40 years ago, before every straight porn went anal before the end.

One time I was at a bar and three girls I knew from around, came to hang out and drink with me. One of them liked me but her girls told her, sotto-voce, "Good luck with that, he sucks dick." I think they figured they wouldn't offend me because I was "out" and it wasn't any secret, but I'm not sure if they thought I was gay or were told I was bi and didn't quite get it. Anyway, I whispered in the one girl's ear, "I'll eat you out and fuck you, too." She ignored her friends after that and we went home together that night.

I love bi girls and through no particular effort on my own part, a majority of the women I dated or had sex with before my wife turned out to be bi. I guess I have a "type" and my bi-dar works unconsciously?

I was in a LTR with a gay man. For several years, he was a huge pain in the ass about constantly being insecure and fearful that I would cheat on him and/or leave him for a woman. I never did* but had at least 6 different opportunities - with very forward women who all knew I was in a gay relationship.

And a bi woman in a lesbian relationship made me her fuckbuddy. These two had an agreement that, if someone wanted cock, then outside sex with a gay man would be OK. I never knew whether her partner was aware I was bi and not gay, or that we were even doing it at all.

I don't know, just seems like I've seen a lot of horny eyes for the queer guy.

How about all you-all?

* Not until the very end, anyway, when things were already very clearly falling apart. It wasn't over a woman at all, there were other reasons, and I didn't leave him, he was the one who left rather than lift a finger to work things out, but I did cheat with a woman before it officially ended, and she and I wound up together afterwards.
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I actually would prefer a bi man sadly, I’m 0 for 0 in that category.
 
from experience …what a woman doesn’t know won’t influence them. I am a bi fem bottom that has never had an issue of engaging women for conversation to sex.
 
drobert44 said:
I would love a bi girl...........but have no clue how to find one in this vanilla town.
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While it could be interesting, I wonder how much bisexual girls and guys would be attracted to each other at the same time.
 
drobert44 said:
This is the vanilla Midwest right here.
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I suggest you go to alternative clubs where they hang out. You could subscribe to a bisexual dating app, but you will need to understand there will also be bi men there to. Bi women will be repulsed if you mistreat another person including bimen who they tend to appreciate and like.
Maybe trying a swinger's club, but single guys are normally not allowed in. A dating apps sounds like your best choice since there are hundreds.
Good luck.
 
Smileyouronnow said:
I suggest you go to alternative clubs where they hang out. You could subscribe to a bisexual dating app, but you will need to understand there will also be bi men there to. Bi women will be repulsed if you mistreat another person including bimen who they tend to appreciate and like.
Maybe trying a swinger's club, but single guys are normally not allowed in. A dating apps sounds like your best choice since there are hundreds.
Good luck.
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Thanks, I do get on Fetlife. I wont date local women; they wanna own me.
 
My experience has been that most women aren’t attracted to gay or bisexual men. But the ones that are, are really into them.

Most of my and my wife’s friends that we have told about my bisexuality haven’t ever commented on it (to us). But several have let me know they find it hot, and are much more flirty with me than before they found out. Some have even asked how to get their partners to try.

And my wife is obviously into it. It was her fantasy that started it I all in the first place.
 
bijedi said:
My experience has been that most women aren’t attracted to gay or bisexual men. But the ones that are, are really into them.

Most of my and my wife’s friends that we have told about my bisexuality haven’t ever commented on it (to us). But several have let me know they find it hot, and are much more flirty with me than before they found out. Some have even asked how to get their partners to try.

And my wife is obviously into it. It was her fantasy that started it I all in the first place.
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You said it. Mostly true. The number of wives who were happy to blow their husbands with me was amazing.

Not that they were everywhere but the ones who genuinely like the actions, or you, will let you do anything to either of them. I love how slutty they can be.
 
I’m an older married bi male who found a woman turned on that I’m bi. I say pan now because so many man it but won’t return the favor.
I was talking with several people in a pool in Palm Springs when one of the women started to flirt. We continue our conversation over drinks in the pool and I told her I was bi and dated transgender women, thinking this would cool her down since the wife was not far away sunbathing. But no, she was turned on and later that night we met up for sex. She wanted to hear my stories while we fucked. We have met up again she described her fantasy of putting a vibrator in me and fucking me. Cannot wait!
 
I met a drag queen on line who lives close by. We have been chatting it up to arrange a playtime. He has a beautiful thick cock. I have not fucked or sucked a cock in over a year now. I thought I don’t want to gag on this gorgeous cock. My previous trans woman was Asian and only a slim 5”.
I went down to the adult book store and said hi to a beautiful older woman behind the counter. After awhile she came over and was more than helpful. She was just doing her job but I could tell she found it intriguing that I wanted a dildo to practice my deep throat. I am hoping my Drag Queen will want to do more so she helped me find an enema bottle and a trainybutt plug.
I am looking forward to going back and getting a few cock rings and chat some more. In Iowa.
 
Was on an online dating app and matched with a slightly younger woman, I didn't have in my profile that I was bi but her profile had some things including sex positivity that made me feel comfortable enough early on in chatting to tell her I was bi and had been with a few men. Am I glad I did that - we found that the two of us felt completely comfortable sharing almost anything about ourselves and 2 dates into it this is a match made in heaven, likely life changing. I didn't know there could be a person out there like this, much less one that would be my partner. We haven't spoken about this site yet but it wouldn't surprise me if she's on here.
 
My last gf was into gay and bi men, and we even put on some gay porn together when we were getting it on. She was cool with me being into gay sex, but just didn't want to be a part of it, which was frustrating. My porn long distance porn mommy, on the other hand, was very into be being queer and I flourished under her encouragement when I would talk about the few experiences I had. To the point where we were talking about meeting up to help me do more.

I think there's a couple of women at the muches I go to that are into gay and bi men, but it really hasn't come up.
 
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