Goodgirl4him
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Love being fucked by a man who knows how to be a man, without having to be an "asshole"...if that makes any sense. There's no bigger turn on for me than to be with a man whose so confident in his abilities & maleness that he takes what he wants. I'm normally a fairly dominant woman, & I do love to take control of things when I'm fucking a guy, but OMFG, when a man takes that away...it's pure heaven.
You describe me to a 't' Arenya...and I'm glad to+sad to say my last love was exactly this - confident, in control without being an asshole.
Sad because he decided he was ... married! And cut me off. Bastard bastrd bastard
Oh I enjoy it... I'm normally an extremely independent person who likes to be in control, but there's not much that turns me on more than a guy I'm with shoving me up against a wall and pinning me there as he does what he wants with his free hand with me not being able to stop him.
This can be a very intense and exciting scenario.
Obviously your partner should be on board with this, and importantly must be in the right mood when you decide to do this.
I would recommend using a variant of the "safe word" system employed in BDSM relationships. Personally I prefer 2 safe words, one means go, one means stop. That way your partner can signal that he/she is in the mood for forceful play.
I would also say that the force part is often better as a mental thing. A little pain can be arousing, but its hard to gauge.
I am pretty sure most women have a fantasy along these lines (witness the popularity of the bodice ripper genre!). But some want to keep it between the pages, not between the sheets, and that should be respected.
I suspect the fantasy is less popular amongst men (i.e. being forced by your wife/gf), but do think that many men might enjoy this. Given the typical strength and size mismatch, ladies should consider some restraints for their lover so that they can fully enjoy this.
Any questions, I will be available after class.
I defenitely need a cold shower after this discription!!!Obviously this type of scenario takes some planning of sorts. No woman wants to be kidnapped or raped but I'll bet most have the fantasy of being abducted and taken by a handsome stranger. This type of play does require a lot of talking between you and your Dom beforehand. Each needs to know what lines not to cross and how far your partner can go. But I think it is so arousing. To be grabbed from behind unexpectedly, pushed against the wall, my wrists held in place over my head either by his hand or handcuffs, feeling my body pinned against the wall with his strength, his hand toying with my clit. his hand on my throat, forcing me to floor, shoving his cock into my mouth fucking my mouth hard. no where to go. the wall behind me, my wrists restrained, and him fucking my mouth mercilessly. Grabbing a fist full of hair and forcing me to the bed, hand on my throat so I can't move and forcing his cock into my pussy...oh my...I think I better take a cold shower
Anais Nin said it better than I ever could...but this sums it all up for me...
“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.”
Being in D/s relationships where I enjoyed the rougher play, I found it easier to date 'vanilla bad boys' who could take the subtle hints for the rougher stuff. When one gent realized in his efforts to 'hold me down' that the closer he got to my neck the harder I came, well … it became part of a recurring thing between us.
If you aren't sure, just ask her in a point of passion and guage her response as your answer.
ENJOY!
Oh yea, that's never awkward. Dick in her pussy and you ask, "so... you ever think about rape?"
Anais Nin said it better than I ever could...but this sums it all up for me...
“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.”
Oh yea, that's never awkward. Dick in her pussy and you ask, "so... you ever think about rape?"
uhhhhh no! Obviously no woman ever wants to be raped. That's not what we are talking about her. It's consensual roleplay in the safety of someone you trust. Big difference. I would never want someone I don't know pinning me up against the wall and just taking what he wants but someone I know and trust...well that's different. To be controlled and dominated by him. His plaything for the evening. Taking what he wants how he wants it. His little toy there for his pleasure. mmmmm
uhhhhh no! Obviously no woman ever wants to be raped. That's not what we are talking about her. It's consensual roleplay in the safety of someone you trust. Big difference. I would never want someone I don't know pinning me up against the wall and just taking what he wants but someone I know and trust...well that's different. To be controlled and dominated by him. His plaything for the evening. Taking what he wants how he wants it. His little toy there for his pleasure. mmmmm
Well said, monicalynne68. Many of us have that fantasy within the constraints you outline: helpless and dominaed, but in an atmosphere of complete trust.
Exactly.
That scenario is so far away from rape it's untrue.
Rape is a disgusting act, seriously, nobody would wish that upon themselves!
When a man has his hand tangled in your hair, enjoying being pleasured by you, and he tilts your head up to look him in the eyes........THAT moment is so beautifully erotic, it can reduce a girls mind, and body, to jelly