Is it inevitable for a bottom to feel feminine?

[4yourpleasureiam]

I do not know about inevitably, however I think many of us want to feel feminine. My most wonderful times and memories are when a man holds me in his arms and kisses. In private or in public as he introduces me as his girl when his friends gather round. When my wife has me lay on my back and spreds my leg bends my thing so it can enter her and she takes me as two women sharing a double dildo. Or when she buys me nice scents and oils and massages my breastsand yells me I sound like a girl having her first climax.

Once I worked with a all female crew. One, much taller than me went to a training session. She and I stood facing each other ,very close, and as she looked down into my eyes my thing stiffened and we both knew I would be her sissy bottom forever under other circumstances. Hugs

 

[saintcero]

Feeling feminine? If you are doing it right you will.

 

[wetsawdust]

Once I worked with a all female crew. One, much taller than me went to a training session. She and I stood facing each other ,very close, and as she looked down into my eyes my thing stiffened and we both knew I would be her sissy bottom forever under other circumstances. Hugs

I read this and suddenly realized why I have this intense attraction to women nearly my height or (gasp!) taller than me (there aren't many around here, I'm 6'3"). Tall trans girls, too. Uff da.

 

[TrailerHitch]

Feeling feminine? If you are doing it right you will.

If that's how you feel great for you. But it is quite egocentric to expect everyone to feel as you do.

 

[saintcero]

If that's how you feel great for you. But it is quite egocentric to expect everyone to feel as you do.

It was said as a “tongue in cheek” type comment; not serious. Now, my ego allows that some simply have not done it right yet.
(Also “tongue in cheek”)

 

[TrailerHitch]

It was said as a “tongue in cheek” type comment; not serious. Now, my ego allows that some simply have not done it right yet.
(Also “tongue in cheek”)

If you are offering... I would be happy to have your tongue in between my cheeks with something hard to follow!

By the way if that profile picture is of you that is a very nice concealed weapon you are packing!

 

[TrailerHitch]

Isn’t the point of being a bottom submitting to someone and taking in the “role” as a woman?

If being feminine is your thing then yes, in your case it is. but to say exclusively male on male sex is submission is ludicrous. When my wife and I have sex there is no submission just 2 willing partners enjoying each other. I believe it is entirely possible for 2 men to have sex without either one being submissive or feminine. In fact I'm counting on it.

 

[saintcero]

If you are offering... I would be happy to have your tongue in between my cheeks with something hard to follow!

By the way if that profile picture is of you that is a very nice concealed weapon you are packing!

Thank you for the offer
Thank you for the compliment

 

[CliimaxForYou]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

Nope.

I love to bottom. Nothing feminine about me.

 

[Cumpup39]

I love taking on a feminine role when I’m with a man. If that involves wearing lingerie or whatever then even better. I yield my body to the man as my superior either way and find myself defaulting to feminine mannerisms when serving men.

 

[bicurious19]

No not really. I’m only a bottom for girls, have no interest in guys.
It ain’t easy to take an 8” cock balls deep up the ass.

 

[Maddiesnewlife]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

I sure wish I was in your situation! Being fucked into submission regularly. Yes please! I do feel the same way. I like to dress up and I love watching trans porn and reading the stories. But a hairy guy I have a hard time with. But that’s just me. If you ever get tired of your girlfriend…… lol

 

[Escierto]

I sure wish I was in your situation! Being fucked into submission regularly. Yes please! I do feel the same way. I like to dress up and I love watching trans porn and reading the stories. But a hairy guy I have a hard time with. But that’s just me. If you ever get tired of your girlfriend…… lol

It's been five years and I am not tired of her yet:

 

[Maddiesnewlife]

It's been five years and I am not tired of her yet:
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Very pretty. Lucky!!

 

[Escierto]

Very pretty. Lucky!!

Thank you. She is my little doll. Plenty like her in Thailand and the Philippines!

 

[AnalLady]

Submissive? Yes. Feminine? No. As a submissive bottom, I feel the ultimate in sexual energy and release when I have been fucked by a guy with the passion and energy to make the experience HOT and fulfilling.

Exactly

 

[htobeme5]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

yes, i feel very feminine when wearing lingerie, have good anal sex, and love semen running down my legs, Hormones take over and i feel feminine all over, Wish i could feel that way, all day.I'd want to keep thinking like the female you are, half a day.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

yes, i feel very feminine when wearing lingerie, have good anal sex, and love semen running down my legs, Hormones take over and i feel feminine all over, Wish i could feel that way, all day.I'd want to keep thinking like the female you are, half a day.

As a masculine man who fantasizes about making love to a femme guy/gurl, I will admit that what you have written in your posts is exactly what I want to experience. As the lovingly dominant male partner, I have a strong urge to “seed and breed” a sensual femme man, one who will let the woman in him emerge… I want to be held in a loving embrace while you wrap your arms and legs around me and milk my life giving seed so deep into your body… rejoicing in the pump and thrust and the strong body holding you powerless to the bed…

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

It's been five years and I am not tired of her yet:
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Your woman is such a beauty, thank you for sharing your pics and experiences….
It’s funny how people have such different desires. When I look at her pic it makes me want to move to Thailand and find just such a lovely woman who wants her lovingly dominant man to breed her on a daily basis…

 

[Escierto]

Your woman is such a beauty, thank you for sharing your pics and experiences….
It’s funny how people have such different desires. When I look at her pic it makes me want to move to Thailand and find just such a lovely woman who wants her lovingly dominant man to breed her on a daily basis…

There are many many more like the woman that you desire than women like my girlfriend. She is a rarity as a pure top but others like her can be found. However most are bottoms who want a man to fuck them like the women they are.

 

[sftopbottom]

it's all about pardigms and perspectives, right? It's very individual. For me, it depends largely on the partner(s) and how they approach the encounter.

I sometimes get fucked and feel very submissive. I don't equate that with femininity, per se, just moreso with passivity and sweetness. I might say words like, "You fill me up so good, baby."

I sometimes get fucked and feel extremely dominant and virile, which just feels more raunchy and aggressive, like i'm giving back as good as i get. This is usually when, "yeah, fuck my pussy!" might come out of my mouth more than once. However, I'm not really feeling anything feminine in that moment, despite the anatomy fantasy.

 

[CambridgeBi]

I've asked myself this question. I'm quite a hairy, muscular guy but I really enjoy being flat on my back with my legs around a man's waist. I do think I'm being feminine when I'm doing it but that might just be conditioning.

I don't dress in female clothes and I'm straight acting but in those moments...

 

[Escierto]

I've asked myself this question. I'm quite a hairy, muscular guy but I really enjoy being flat on my back with my legs around a man's waist. I do think I'm being feminine when I'm doing it but that might just be conditioning.

I don't dress in female clothes and I'm straight acting but in those moments...

I know exactly what you are talking about. I don't dress nor have a desire to do so and there is nothing feminine about me physically. When my girlfriend is balls deep in my ass about to cum, I do feel like a woman getting fucked by her man.

 

[TrailerHitch]

And if feminine is what you feel hurray for you. I don't feel that way at all. Is one of us weird? No, because like every other human reaction they are individual to that person. I think you are attempting to force every square peg into the round hole that fits your ideal.

 

[whiteasianlvr]

As a masculine man who fantasizes about making love to a femme guy/gurl, I will admit that what you have written in your posts is exactly what I want to experience. As the lovingly dominant male partner, I have a strong urge to “seed and breed” a sensual femme man, one who will let the woman in him emerge… I want to be held in a loving embrace while you wrap your arms and legs around me and milk my life giving seed so deep into your body… rejoicing in the pump and thrust and the strong body holding you powerless to the bed…

I found this to be very helpful as I'm always trying to understand myself by comparing myself to opposites. You've expressed the mentality of a top - the man I look up to as he's thrusting powerfully into me - and seeing the look of conquest cross his face as he seeds me. Loved it. THANKS!