actually this is just a question i had for other guys...

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i'm wondering about others and feel there are probably those out there with similar situations. so if i may...guys what is it that drives you, excites you and gives you the all powerful desire to meet with a male and suck his dick? is it porn? lingerie? just the thought of it? for me as i told my friend who asked to jo me, i explained how his hand feeling me nude or in pantyhose, as he had witnessed aroused me to a good hard. i tried to explain to him how feeling and seeing a male stroke my dick made me want dick and wanted him to watch. he simply said that'd be alright. well just a cpl of weeks later while online with a male talking he asked what we were looking for. i told him my friend feeling me made me want dick and him watch. well he asked when could we be there. we arrived and found him at the door nude. he told me inside to strip but leave my pantyhose on and he wanted to see us do as we did. i sat between them with legs open as my friend began. in no time i was showing a good hard and his questions were endless. he joined in and i said to both it was all making me want to suck dick. he had a grape rubber he put on and asked will you let him and i watch you suck. i was on him right away and in just a few he was moaning, yelling, calling me names and after a minute he stopped me. he exclaimed motherfucker that bitch sucked me into an explosion. we left and on the way home i asked well? he said aw hell i liked it and the best part was seeing you get a hard in pantyhose as you sucked him. once he told me that i felt more at ease. it became more and more to let him or a male watch my mouth have sex with dicks. when i thought about it boom! that and the feel of pantyhose always cause me to have the urge. anybody? what takes you there? doing it and we stopped at a rest stop to suck him off.
 
Call me weird, but for me it is, and always has been, a combination of simple curiosity and just wanting to help another guy out. I'm not sexually attracted to men. I just know I enjoy blowjobs, and I wondered what it was like to be on the giving end. I decided that I'd just try to do the same things to someone else that felt good to me.

My wife hates the taste and smell of cum, but under the right circumstances she'll go down on me. Unfortunately, at the first taste of pre-cum, she's done. I decided that when I'm with a guy, I'll try what I like, and what I wish I could get.

So I've sucked, I've deepthroated, and I've swallowed what guys have fed to me. If the guy wants to try topping, that's fine, but regardless of what does happen, I may or may not get hard, and that doesn't bother me because I'm there to make it memorable for him, not for me.

Like I said, call me weird. LOL - I've been called worse.
 
One day my mind got lost in thinking what it'd be like. I wasn't repelled by cocks....I loved trans and bi porn. But, and I know this is gonna sound silly, it was like there was this very distant nagging at me for a long time.....one day it came into focus. I had my first cock not too much after that, and it was everything I could have asked for. I loved how it felt, the taste, the swallowing....it all felt very natural and not at all taboo, gay, weird, etc. It just felt good. Now I think of it daily. Oops.
 
One day my mind got lost in thinking what it'd be like. I wasn't repelled by cocks....I loved trans and bi porn. But, and I know this is gonna sound silly, it was like there was this very distant nagging at me for a long time.....one day it came into focus. I had my first cock not too much after that, and it was everything I could have asked for. I loved how it felt, the taste, the swallowing....it all felt very natural and not at all taboo, gay, weird, etc. It just felt good. Now I think of it daily. Oops.
I'm jealous I think
 
The main reason that I would like to meet with a guy and suck his cock stems from my first "real" experience with another guy.

In my youth, as what happens with a lot of guys, I "experimented" with a couple of others my age, (touching and, on a couple of occasions, briefly taking a limp cock in my mouth), but none of that actually gave me the desire to suck cock. My epiphany occurred when I had a close friend, who was as old as my father, seduce me and become my personal cocksucker. You can read my true story about it here: https://www.literotica.com/s/tribute-to-a-cocksucker

He liked sucking my cock and having me cum in his mouth sooooo much that I thought, "that must be so enjoyable, I've got to try that myself". Unfortunately he had ED (and that was before Viagra) so my efforts to satisfy my desires were unsuccessful.

Later on, in my trips to ABSs, I have had the same desires, but I've resisted because of my fear of disease. I wrote about that too. Another true story - https://www.literotica.com/s/my-trips-to-the-store

I always have FOMO (fear of missing out), but THAT is overcome (or is it over"cum"?) by my fear of contracting something that I could bring home. At this stage of my life, I might just eventually decide to take the risk.

To bastardize and paraphrase an old idiom: 'A cock in the mouth, is worth 2 in the bush'.
 
I’ve only sucked one, and that was over 10 years ago. For me, it was a combination of many things. Curiosity, the thrill of doing something I shouldn’t (I am married), a chance to be more submissive, and being the type who puts a partner’s pleasure above himself.

It was back when Craigslist was still a thing. I read the male for male personals and became curious about it. Talked to several via email, but they were always speaking from experience I didn’t possess, and that had a way of feeling intimidating.

Then I got in touch with this guy where everything seemed to click. He was younger, not as experienced as the others, but had his share of cock. We set up a meet at his place while my wife was working night shift one night. While looking for his house in the black of night, trying to see the house numbers, a police officer pulls me over with a bogus reason apparently because I looked suspicious driving slow in the middle of the night. I explained I was “looking for a friend’s house” and gave him the address. It happened that he pulled me over right in front of the guy’s house. He let me go, but my nerves were shot. I wanted to just go home, especially after the prospect that a police report could out me to my wife, but I had no choice but to pull in with the police officer right there, lest I be made out to be a liar.

I knock on the door and he let’s me in. Completely on edge, I didn’t know what to say or do. He simply asked what that was about, and I explained the situation. He could tell I was nervous and told me to take deep breaths and relax as he started massaging my shoulders. I just stood there, like an idiot, but he didn’t seem to mind. He complimented me on my body as his hands wandered from my shoulders to my chest. It felt nice, and my inhibitions were coming undone. He raised my shirt over my head and kept touching, exploring, before finally leaning forward and kissing my nipples. At that moment, I was willing to let him do whatever he wanted.

He lowered himself to the floor, undid my pants, and my hard cock sprang forth. His delicate hands stroked me a bit before taking me in his mouth. I’ve never gotten off from a blowjob, not from lack of effort from previous girlfriends or my wife mind you, but he felt really, really good. I wanted to return the favor.

He lead me to a nearby couch and he sat down. Patting the cushion beside him, he wanted me to sit next to him, but I had other plans. I knelt between his knees and took his pants off, then his underwear. His cock stood straight and I was excited not only at the prospect that I was about to suck my first cock, but also that I turned him on enough to make him that hard. It was quite the confidence boost. He gripped his dick at the base, pulling his skin back, as I approached. He was bigger than me, so it was intimidating, but I had already come this far, so I took him in my mouth. There was something… inexplicable about how he tasted. Like sweaty skin, but also a hint of his bodywash. I slide my mouth down to his hand and back up and immediately became entranced. Up and down my mouth glided along his shaft, and feeling him swell in my mouth just made me more enthusiastic. I wanted to stroke him while I sucked, but his hand never moved. He groaned and I knew he was close. I wasn’t sure if I wanted him to cum in my mouth or not, so after a few more strokes I popped him out of my mouth just as he started to cum - a stringy dollop landing on my lips. Figuring it was already there, I licked my lips and tasted his seed, which was hot, creamy, and slightly bitter.

The rest of the night was full of experimentation, but some things didn’t go exactly as we wanted. We made out and he became hard again. He asked me if I bottom, and I said I was willing to try. I handed him some condoms from my jacket pocket and once he got it on, he started going soft. Condoms do suck. Instead, he bent me over and rimmed me, which was one of the most amazing feeling sexual acts I’ve ever had. I asked if he bottomed, and instead of replying, he simply laid on the floor for me. As bad luck would have it, with condom on, I started to go soft. I reiterate; condoms suck. He both had a laugh about it and then proceeded to face each other, sitting with our legs entwined so our genitals could touch, and made out on the floor while stroking each other. I came from his stroking, shooting on his abs and dribbling down his hand. He then came a second time, not quite having the volume of the first, but still his seed landing on my waistline was fucking hot.

After that, we cleaned each other up and I headed home with the taste of his cock still lingering in my mouth. It was exciting, but also very risky - in more ways than one. The whole cop thing put me off from making a return trip, but I still think about that night often. If given an ideal opportunity, I’d certainly do it again, and hopefully the other things I’ve wanted to try would go better.
 
i'm wondering about others and feel there are probably those out there with similar situations. so if i may...guys what is it that drives you, excites you and gives you the all powerful desire to meet with a male and suck his dick? is it porn? lingerie? just the thought of it? for me as i told my friend who asked to jo me, i explained how his hand feeling me nude or in pantyhose, as he had witnessed aroused me to a good hard. i tried to explain to him how feeling and seeing a male stroke my dick made me want dick and wanted him to watch. he simply said that'd be alright. well just a cpl of weeks later while online with a male talking he asked what we were looking for. i told him my friend feeling me made me want dick and him watch. well he asked when could we be there. we arrived and found him at the door nude. he told me inside to strip but leave my pantyhose on and he wanted to see us do as we did. i sat between them with legs open as my friend began. in no time i was showing a good hard and his questions were endless. he joined in and i said to both it was all making me want to suck dick. he had a grape rubber he put on and asked will you let him and i watch you suck. i was on him right away and in just a few he was moaning, yelling, calling me names and after a minute he stopped me. he exclaimed motherfucker that bitch sucked me into an explosion. we left and on the way home i asked well? he said aw hell i liked it and the best part was seeing you get a hard in pantyhose as you sucked him. once he told me that i felt more at ease. it became more and more to let him or a male watch my mouth have sex with dicks. when i thought about it boom! that and the feel of pantyhose always cause me to have the urge. anybody? what takes you there? doing it and we stopped at a rest stop to suck him off.
So this may not exactly be your question, but this is how I got to the point of my first time blowing a guy...my first M2M experience, of course, is detailed in my ABS story on the site. And for awhile, I was the receiver, but not a giver. However, some things were occurring to me that, in summation, tipped my resolve to actually cross into that territory. First, I realized...duh...it feels fantastic to have it done to you, which is...kind of powerful for the other person, to be able to put the recipient in that state. Then, of course, one watches porn with women enjoying doing it (yes, acting, some...but others not so much acting)...and mainstream porn kind of slid into shemale, etc. which slid further into purely gay stuff...over time. By the way, this is an example of a very robust psychological effect called the "mere exposure effect". So...as I've detailed elsewhere, I realized that masseurs were a group of guys who had a very high incidence rate of enjoying other guy's cocks...not all but...much higher than the overall population baseline. I can't give you an odds ratio, but...you know. So...I would go to these guys and still enjoying variety would explore other masseurs. And then one time, I'm at a place, guy giving massage out of his own home, which was not uncommon, and IDK...time after time of receiving, increased openness to the idea, and just the moment...I was on my back, nude, he was nude, and really good personality and just...the mood was fun and I just didn't even really think about it, I just reached behind him, pulled him close to my face which was turned to the side and...put him in my mouth! And...since my personality type is one to, well...dive down the rabbit hole headfirst with no life jacket or parachute...I just sucked his cock until he blew right in my mouth which HE said was so incredible he almost passed out...and I didn't have any anticipatory fear I guess...so I was open to whatever the experience was going to be and it was REALLY amazing and, IDK why some things are like this and others not so much but...one of those things where after the initial time I mean, it was on! This was now an "addiction" of sorts. And I love it! Why is it so fun? That's like asking why is...Joe Satriani my favorite guitarist...I mean...I play, so I know better than some just how fucking phenomenal he is and sure others are equally gifted...I mean, your Vai, Johnson, Govan, etc...they all have the chops to emulate each other, but...he calls to me. And...so does this! Still...I am particular...which reduces the times I do it...but I never will apologize for being particular...IDK...maybe not a satisfying answer but that is my personal story even if it's absolutely nobody else'. I am, without a doubt, very very very...different. Not better! Probably worse...absolutely different. Which is why I am a lone wolf and by lone wolf I mean...absolutely 100% isolated. By design. I'm pretty certain this is not my home planet, I am here to collect data why I have no idea and I'm just...waiting for something to tell me I've completed everything and at that point...I will not wear out my welcome, here. Because...and I say this with 100% objectivity and no fear, I have no idea how I got here...I've never in my existence met anyone I am related to...the records are spotty at best, I believe fully fabricated...so nobody was aware when I arrived....by design...and nobody will be aware when I depart. That is called "full circle" and...as we all know..the circle is an archetype AND...wow...I just realized this...is my favorite Joe Satriani song! Circles! but NOT the studio version which is...3:45 long if memory serves me, no...the LIVE version...which is 8:30 long...or I have the seconds backwards...and my god...the part Joe adds past where in the studio the song ends...this is where he goes into Full Alien Mode. And you will not find a heavier song...than that. It is...my entire body is electrified just thinking about it. Check out the YT video...if you think I might be...over-stating...and if you're not familiar, the initial softer part is an addition from the studio UP to where the bassist raises his arm...and the studio version kicks in and resolves with the same chording as the beginning, you can kind of tell...and then...everything goes freakin' haywire! And PLEASE...tell me the end is NOT fucking...FIRE. He is not human. Maybe he's from the same place I am. He is...far far better than any of us can ever hope to be well, I don't know anyone, so I should speak for myself. It's rather depressing....but what can you do? You either just appreciate it or...KYS. There is no 3rd option. So far, I'm good with appreciation...we'll see.

 
The sissy part came late, it was 2000, after sissy had met Her and She asked sissy to marry Her. sissy wanted to retire and dress full time so asked Her in December 1999, She thought about it and came back that She would allow it if became Her sissy so sissy quickly agreed. After that She and a friend trained sissy for months to suck cock with a dildo, along with other sissified things. Then one night She brought a man home from Her work, that as sissy's first real cock sucking, in the living room as he sat in a chair and sissy on all fours. He was only 6 inches and not that thick so it was not that bad. After that night She brought home more and more all different sizes and She coached sissy on how to properly suck each one to give the man the most pleasure. sissy's joy was being in full dress and doing it right to please Her.
 
So this may not exactly be your question, but this is how I got to the point of my first time blowing a guy...my first M2M experience, of course, is detailed in my ABS story on the site. And for awhile, I was the receiver, but not a giver. However, some things were occurring to me that, in summation, tipped my resolve to actually cross into that territory. First, I realized...duh...it feels fantastic to have it done to you, which is...kind of powerful for the other person, to be able to put the recipient in that state. Then, of course, one watches porn with women enjoying doing it (yes, acting, some...but others not so much acting)...and mainstream porn kind of slid into shemale, etc. which slid further into purely gay stuff...over time. By the way, this is an example of a very robust psychological effect called the "mere exposure effect". So...as I've detailed elsewhere, I realized that masseurs were a group of guys who had a very high incidence rate of enjoying other guy's cocks...not all but...much higher than the overall population baseline. I can't give you an odds ratio, but...you know. So...I would go to these guys and still enjoying variety would explore other masseurs. And then one time, I'm at a place, guy giving massage out of his own home, which was not uncommon, and IDK...time after time of receiving, increased openness to the idea, and just the moment...I was on my back, nude, he was nude, and really good personality and just...the mood was fun and I just didn't even really think about it, I just reached behind him, pulled him close to my face which was turned to the side and...put him in my mouth! And...since my personality type is one to, well...dive down the rabbit hole headfirst with no life jacket or parachute...I just sucked his cock until he blew right in my mouth which HE said was so incredible he almost passed out...and I didn't have any anticipatory fear I guess...so I was open to whatever the experience was going to be and it was REALLY amazing and, IDK why some things are like this and others not so much but...one of those things where after the initial time I mean, it was on! This was now an "addiction" of sorts. And I love it! Why is it so fun? That's like asking why is...Joe Satriani my favorite guitarist...I mean...I play, so I know better than some just how fucking phenomenal he is and sure others are equally gifted...I mean, your Vai, Johnson, Govan, etc...they all have the chops to emulate each other, but...he calls to me. And...so does this! Still...I am particular...which reduces the times I do it...but I never will apologize for being particular...IDK...maybe not a satisfying answer but that is my personal story even if it's absolutely nobody else'. I am, without a doubt, very very very...different. Not better! Probably worse...absolutely different. Which is why I am a lone wolf and by lone wolf I mean...absolutely 100% isolated. By design. I'm pretty certain this is not my home planet, I am here to collect data why I have no idea and I'm just...waiting for something to tell me I've completed everything and at that point...I will not wear out my welcome, here. Because...and I say this with 100% objectivity and no fear, I have no idea how I got here...I've never in my existence met anyone I am related to...the records are spotty at best, I believe fully fabricated...so nobody was aware when I arrived....by design...and nobody will be aware when I depart. That is called "full circle" and...as we all know..the circle is an archetype AND...wow...I just realized this...is my favorite Joe Satriani song! Circles! but NOT the studio version which is...3:45 long if memory serves me, no...the LIVE version...which is 8:30 long...or I have the seconds backwards...and my god...the part Joe adds past where in the studio the song ends...this is where he goes into Full Alien Mode. And you will not find a heavier song...than that. It is...my entire body is electrified just thinking about it. Check out the YT video...if you think I might be...over-stating...and if you're not familiar, the initial softer part is an addition from the studio UP to where the bassist raises his arm...and the studio version kicks in and resolves with the same chording as the beginning, you can kind of tell...and then...everything goes freakin' haywire! And PLEASE...tell me the end is NOT fucking...FIRE. He is not human. Maybe he's from the same place I am. He is...far far better than any of us can ever hope to be well, I don't know anyone, so I should speak for myself. It's rather depressing....but what can you do? You either just appreciate it or...KYS. There is no 3rd option. So far, I'm good with appreciation...we'll see.

what a reply!
 
Every one of these posts are similar to my experiences. It started with porn, and a taboo mag called taboo i think. A sexy woman that had a cock under her skirt. After that I was turned on by the site of a penis I just didnt realize it until later in life. Jump ahead many years snd my curiosity got the best of me so i met this guy on CL and we sucked each others cock. After 5 seconds i was hooked. Ive watched many woman suck cock but for the first time i was the one sucking it and it aroused me like nothing else had. Years before I had dabbled in crossdressing, trying on lingerie and this aroused me just as much. I cant explain it but most of you on this post have done a good job of expressing it. But once I tried sucking cock dressed up…well that was it for me!! A new world of erotic sex and intense pleasure was discovered. So i watch some porn, read erotica, chat with others about sucking cock and it drives me to pursue it. Its like a drug and Im addicted. The feeling of being on my knees, dressed slutty, big cock throbbing in my mouth, submitting and pleasing a man while hearing degrading demands and hearing the guy moan… need I say more. Most of you on here know EXACTLY what im talking about. Instead of just being an observer of porn,I get to play the part of the slutty cock sucker. That feeling I get, thats what drives me to want more. The feeling of those panties rubbing against my hard cock. The soft fabric brushing against my nipples. The tight grip around my thighs of the nylons. The feeling of vulnerability, passion, submission and being the object of desire for another person. So often these are guys (or other gurls) who return the favor. Its that rush of whatever happens in my brain. It is an addiction and Im not ashamed to say I LOVE COCK!!! I WANT COCK. I NEED COCK!!
I want pussy too, just with another cock there also.
 
I was 66. Had wanted cock since I was a young adult. My initial,arousal to cock was overwhelming and I never forgot about it. It was in a public toilet. Through a hole in the partition I could see….a huge erect penis being wanked. I had never seen anything like this. I was erect and throbbing immediately! It was all such a surprise because I was straight with a lovely girlfriend, or I thought so.
It took me all these years between to finally get what I yearned for in a way that seemed safe and discreet.
 
I can only speak for myself and I can say that I got my first taste of cock at a very early age and I'm really not sure what drove me to do it but I do recall enjoying the fuck out of it and wanting more! In fact, my I sucked my second cock the very next day and it was just as nice as the first one.

As I got older and could properly frame what my true desires were, a lot of my thoughts surrounding the act of sucking cock, were probably a lot like the thoughts that run through the mind of a young girl or woman embarking on her first sexual act with a man - the excitement of doing something that maybe wasn't supposed to be done at this age or before marriage, the excitement of grabbing a man's attention, arousing him, seeing and feeling his arousal through the growth of his cock, the sounds he made as you pleasure him, the words he speaks as you bringing his closure to his climax, that finally swelling of his cock immediately before he releases his sperm, seeing his knees buckle and feeling him plunge deeper into you as he climaxes and pours his sperm down your throat, his hands on your head, and his words immediately after he pulls his uber sensitive slightly limp cock out of your mouth. The ability to pleasure and satisfy a man like that is incredibly empowering and rewarding, at least for me!

Wearing panties, stockings, garter belt, bra, sexy lingerie, etc, is just another level that I enjoy but that's not true for every male cocksucker out there. I enjoy the feminine of things and these just enhance a blowjob I might give to another male. Where we do it adds to the excitement along with who the person I'm sucking is (so many options here!).

I always Loved getting my dick sucked so I know how good it feels and being able to do that to another man makes it that much more enjoyable for me!

Big or small, I enjoy sucking the all!

https://www.sex.com/pin/65018564-gay-college-jock-throatfuck/
https://www.sex.com/pin/27230255-gay-blowjob-from-daddy-bears/
https://www.sex.com/pin/58489820-gay-guy-gets-a-nice-mouthfull/
https://www.sex.com/pin/58535066-cock-sucking/
https://www.sex.com/pin/58706154-oral/
I love all of that
 
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