durtycouple
Experienced
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- Jun 22, 2011
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Never had a partner who prioritized my pleasure during sex, or felt any responsibility for my orgasms.
One partner never saw me reach climax at all, two partners didn't see it for close to a year in each case. The only reason any of them ever saw it is because I got sick of going without and decided to handle things myself.
To a large degree, I think they were ignorant. Two of them commented to me 'It didn't take my last girlfriend this long.' But I think they were selfish, too.
I hear men here talk about the importance they place on pleasing their partner and making sure she reaches her climax, often before any intercourse has taken place, and I am just amazed. And multiple climaxes? Can this be true?? It is so far from my experience that it's difficult to believe this attitude actually exists.
I'm really sorry about your experiences. Starting in College, I've always made my partner cum, at times counting the orgasms that she had and seeing how high we could go. I love to make my wife cum, and while there may be times where she is just too tired to have an orgasm, my preference is to make her cum whenever we have sex!!