Matthew82
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Really good thread, rate it 5*'s 
There's honestly not much to add that hasn't already been said. The fact that the thread was started by someone that WANTS to give a blowjob, is probably the most important thing.
1. Find pleasure in giving pleasure. Enthusiasm is by far one of the most important factors. It shouldn't be a chore or something you really hate doing. Your partner can sense that and it doesn't make for great oral (but it's not like your guy is going to turn it down)
2. Be spontaneous. Finding a routine in how you give oral isn't what it's supposed to be about. Different times, places. Sometimes sensual, others intense. Perhaps throw on a sexy outfit. Surprise him before he wakes up, or perhaps in the middle of a shower. Stop watching tv right in the middle of a show and go town. It'll put the biggest smile on his face.
3. Men are visual creatures, we want to see it all.
4. Don't be grossed out by cum. Just be upfront with what you're ok with. If you swallow, then swallow. If the smell or sight of it makes you gag, tell the guy but don't just stop the blow job when you know he's about to cum. Go kiss his neck or chest. Keep intimacy throughout.
5. Sometimes just do it for him. Tell him right after, that is all you wanted and go back to whatever it was you were doing before.
In regards to technique instead of just mindset, wetter the better. Sometimes make it sloppy, other times not. I love to pull hair and hear her moan because she likes that too. EYE CONTACT. Hand in rhythm with mouth.
Lastly, be open and talk about what each of you like. You'll find that happy middle and with the right person, they'll want to reciprocate and please you just as much.
There's honestly not much to add that hasn't already been said. The fact that the thread was started by someone that WANTS to give a blowjob, is probably the most important thing.1. Find pleasure in giving pleasure. Enthusiasm is by far one of the most important factors. It shouldn't be a chore or something you really hate doing. Your partner can sense that and it doesn't make for great oral (but it's not like your guy is going to turn it down)
2. Be spontaneous. Finding a routine in how you give oral isn't what it's supposed to be about. Different times, places. Sometimes sensual, others intense. Perhaps throw on a sexy outfit. Surprise him before he wakes up, or perhaps in the middle of a shower. Stop watching tv right in the middle of a show and go town. It'll put the biggest smile on his face.
3. Men are visual creatures, we want to see it all.
4. Don't be grossed out by cum. Just be upfront with what you're ok with. If you swallow, then swallow. If the smell or sight of it makes you gag, tell the guy but don't just stop the blow job when you know he's about to cum. Go kiss his neck or chest. Keep intimacy throughout.
5. Sometimes just do it for him. Tell him right after, that is all you wanted and go back to whatever it was you were doing before.
In regards to technique instead of just mindset, wetter the better. Sometimes make it sloppy, other times not. I love to pull hair and hear her moan because she likes that too. EYE CONTACT. Hand in rhythm with mouth.
Lastly, be open and talk about what each of you like. You'll find that happy middle and with the right person, they'll want to reciprocate and please you just as much.
