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I agree, I was thinking that someone else may have pictures of you and they show them to whomever they want, while you are helpless to stop it. That could be considered a mild form of humiliation, depending on the response. But showing them yourself is more exhibitionism.
When one of my pictures was reposted on a thread, it felt bad since I gave no permission but also dangerously attractive. More than when I post a picture myself.
Humiliation is the big one for me also, but it has to be well thought out mental humiliation for me. Something linked to real life, something that I might do or say in the heat of the moment but when I'm calmed down after, it's still going to be there something I or the guy subjecting me to it won't forget and I'm sure he will enjoy reminding me over and over.
So yes for me humiation is a very powerful tool and will get me into that head space quicker and better than anything else, but you have to make it mental and real which means getting to know me and about me.
Humiliation is the big one for me also, but it has to be well thought out mental humiliation for me. Something linked to real life, something that I might do or say in the heat of the moment but when I'm calmed down after, it's still going to be there something I or the guy subjecting me to it won't forget and I'm sure he will enjoy reminding me over and over.
So yes for me humiliation is a very powerful tool and will get me into that head space quicker and better than anything else, but you have to make it mental and real which means getting to know me and about me.
As a Dom, I think that humiliation is a tool to be used lightly and judisciously. For instance, it can be used to help a submissive understand that, yes, the Dom is in control and in charge. That's part of the Dom/Sub relationship.
On the other hand, it's important to know that over using this tool is something that can cause a serious problem between a Dom and their submissive. A submissive should know that the Dom isn't out to destroy them, but rather to build the submissives confidence in their role as the submissive. Over use of the humiliation tool is counterproductive to this goal. And, with every sub being subtly (or in some cases not so subtly) different, then this emphasises the need for a deft hand.
I've been told to do that in the French Quarter and other places. I wasn't humiliated, I was thrilled to do it.I once spent the weekend with a woman in the French Quarter. She had brought along a stunning red dress and we were going to go to a high end resteraunt for the night. Her breast were small, but firm. I told her no bra.
The dress ended just above her knees. The front collar of the dress came just below the collar bone. The back made a deep V exposing her back to around the middle of her back.
Just before we were ready to go, I had her remove the dress and wear it backwards, giving a lovely frontal V. Truly sexy. She balked at first, but was always willing to push the envelope. Incredibly sexy. You could feel the eyes on her as we walked into that resteraunt. She later said how turned on she was while walking thru the crowd.
If a sub's whole drive for submitting is deemed a punishment, there has been some severe miscommunication at best.
I'm prone to correcting typos in quotes compulsively. I haven't caught myself doing it in years... so I think it's gotten better... but if it does happen I apologize profusely.
when yr wearing yr gf's panties its just so hot
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?
Humiliation and its evil twin cousin, degradation, are two of my favorite things.
There is such a deep and intimate "fuck you" to everything that we build up as humans through humiliation. It sheds our egos, our id, and our pretending that we're all so much when in reality we're very much just insignificant specs... when you tear someone down to their base emotional self, and tell them that they're not good enough, or strong enough, or that they aren't worth enough (for anything), and watch them just collapse. That moment, when they just give up to it all, is one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen.
The process of figuring out what it is that will get someone there is also such a rewarding art form for me. Often, it's just little bits and pieces that you glean through casual conversation. "I'm going to use that against you later" is always a promise for mutual pleasure, more than a threat... because not everyone gets off on humiliation, and I wouldn't have any interest in doing it to someone who doesn't get off by it... well, other than maybe my shitty neighbors, but that's a different story.
For me, emotional sadism is far more rewarding for me than purely physical sadism almost every time (and there are certainly exceptions), because there's such a delightful power in being able to destroy someone with nothing but your words, or through a few simple actions, coupled with a story that the recipient wants so desperately to run from.
Holy cats, all of this!
Don't bring me flowers. Or do but make me spread my ass cheeks as you use my ass for a vase, slowly sliding each stem in as you tell me about your day.
I brought you a few flowers carnation :