QuietListener
Virgin
- Joined
- May 12, 2011
- Posts
- 15
Hi everyone!
Thanks to the excellent advice and support that I've received here, I've decided I'd like to act on exploring my submissive side in real life. At the time, many people said that FetLife was a great way to meet other people interested in D/s, so I made an account.
So far, I have to admit I find Fetlife incredibly frustrating to use. Its interface is clunky and looks like it came out of the late nineties, and although it has a huge amount of content, it's completely un-curated, and doesn't really support effective browsing or searching.
It also seems to have a strong emphasis on helping like-minded people find each other, but I'm not super interested in sub support groups; I'm interested in meeting Domme-minded women and finding out if we're compatible. Besides, if I want to talk about D/s stuff, I much prefer to talk about it here!
So, my question is if you've met people through FetLife, how did you do it, and what recommendations would you have for newcomers? Alternatively, if you have another, better way of meeting compatibly kinky people, I'd love to hear about it.
Thanks to the excellent advice and support that I've received here, I've decided I'd like to act on exploring my submissive side in real life. At the time, many people said that FetLife was a great way to meet other people interested in D/s, so I made an account.
So far, I have to admit I find Fetlife incredibly frustrating to use. Its interface is clunky and looks like it came out of the late nineties, and although it has a huge amount of content, it's completely un-curated, and doesn't really support effective browsing or searching.
It also seems to have a strong emphasis on helping like-minded people find each other, but I'm not super interested in sub support groups; I'm interested in meeting Domme-minded women and finding out if we're compatible. Besides, if I want to talk about D/s stuff, I much prefer to talk about it here!
So, my question is if you've met people through FetLife, how did you do it, and what recommendations would you have for newcomers? Alternatively, if you have another, better way of meeting compatibly kinky people, I'd love to hear about it.