HumpDayHoratio
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I was reading BiBunnys Service/Love Worship thread and didn’t want to hijack it but it left me with some questions that fit hand in glove with that thread…
I’ve never had the experiences most of you’ve had in the D/s dynamic. Even though it was an early “kink” it was more a visual thing than one from any experience. Lack of partners interested is long including the spouse of 30+yrs.
I‘ve recently started a virtual D/s relationship with a friend. This started out more as a friendly business like transaction, a helping hand if you will on my part.
Over the months though a funny thing has happened…I’ve found that feelings are developing between us both. Much like what I’ve read through the Service/Love/Worship thread. I’ve become quite possessive, unusual for me. I’m seeing and feeling things that I’ve not experienced and quite like it.
My question to the experts in the room…is this normal? Should this stay more in the realm of some detachment? I’m not so naive to think that when two people interact in an intimate way there will be no feelings, but should I allow myself or both of us to get closer?
I don’t want to ruin what we have, and I’d be lying if I said I don’t enjoy our developing bond. I do feel just because you can, should you?
Would love to hear what other think…
I’ve never had the experiences most of you’ve had in the D/s dynamic. Even though it was an early “kink” it was more a visual thing than one from any experience. Lack of partners interested is long including the spouse of 30+yrs.
I‘ve recently started a virtual D/s relationship with a friend. This started out more as a friendly business like transaction, a helping hand if you will on my part.
Over the months though a funny thing has happened…I’ve found that feelings are developing between us both. Much like what I’ve read through the Service/Love/Worship thread. I’ve become quite possessive, unusual for me. I’m seeing and feeling things that I’ve not experienced and quite like it.
My question to the experts in the room…is this normal? Should this stay more in the realm of some detachment? I’m not so naive to think that when two people interact in an intimate way there will be no feelings, but should I allow myself or both of us to get closer?
I don’t want to ruin what we have, and I’d be lying if I said I don’t enjoy our developing bond. I do feel just because you can, should you?
Would love to hear what other think…