Etoile
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It's funny you should mention that. For me, the Daddy/boy dynamic is exactly the same as Daddy/girl, except the sub identifies as femme within the context of the relationship. That's why I'm so appreciative of the girl movement in the leather community: it feels like boys have had their respected place for a long time, and it's about time that girls get in on it too. I don't think I could ever identify as a boy, and yet I feel like my relationship is the same as a lot of the Daddy/boy relationships I see. So being a girl gives me a place that others can recognize as "real" and valid. Again, it's the same thing as being a boy, for me...I just identify as femme.Netzach said:Daddy/girl doesn't do it for me, Daddy/boy does, when I was bottoming I was the boy.
This has nothing to do with the plumbing of the participants, it's the dynamic of the relationship.