Honey123
creatively challenged....
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I really want to lick ass... and someone's AV isn't helping.
But here's the thing... I've learned my wife is indifferent about receiving. It's funny because in the very beginnings of going down that sexual avenue she gave me the impression that she found it appealing... which in-turn made it more appealing for me. Years go by and we get to talking about sex and all that and that's when I learned that it really didn't do anything for her in terms of sexual stimulation. I kinda had a weird misled feeling, but nothing resentful... more let down than anything else.
So of course I asked her why she let me continue doing it, and of course her answer was "because you liked doing it so much." I didn't tell her that the reason why I liked doing it so much was because I thought it was something she enjoyed receiving.
Granted... there is a pleasure in offering something you are impartial to to someone you know will enjoy it, but let's set that aside...
So now I have this HUGE psychological kink. I mean... I've come to absolutely LOVE rimming her and I really want to continue. But now I have it in my head that she is only indulging in my kink and mentally twiddling her thumbs while I'm back there.
Well sometimes people concede to certain sexual acts so that their lover is satisfied...but now that you know you don't have to do it to please her, don't.
I agree with Sweetvee, maybe she does enjoy it more than she realizes and now that she won't be having that done, she may miss it.