Sexless Marriages

[HampshireBoy]

it sucks when every part of the relationship except for the sex is wonderful. But I am extremely high libido, and my spouse is content with sex 4 to 5 times a year. I know that’s not as bad as some people on here, but it just destroys me, knowing that a cuddle on the couch will never lead to sex, scheduled times are always met with life or physical barriers. I’ve resigned myself to the fact that love is way more important than sex, but my body doesn’t agree with me.

I know exactly how you feel. My wife and I are very much in love, lots of kisses and cuddles, but I know that it is never going to lead to sex.

 

[Loyalish1245]

I know exactly how you feel. My wife and I are very much in love, lots of kisses and cuddles, but I know that it is never going to lead to sex.

The worst part is she knows but is unable to change it. We have tried medical and therapy but nothing seems to change.

 

[nellaj1990]

Right there with y'all. Been at least 5 years now. Started with an illness, extended hospital stay and never really returned.

 

[Loyalish1245]

Right there with y'all. Been at least 5 years now. Started with an illness, extended hospital stay and never really returned.

Sorry to you as well.

 

[1964Male]

Pre-COVID since last time having sex with my wife. Now it is just loveless and sexless. Roommates at best.

 

[Spongo]

Happy to chat. Sexless marriages but happy to help release…

 

[Mezoolandet]

Well, nine months now. Absolutely no intimacy at all. So frustrating. Does anyone else feel just tremendous frustration?

 

[13Fantasies]

Well, nine months now. Absolutely no intimacy at all. So frustrating. Does anyone else feel just tremendous frustration?

Constantly.

7+ years and counting

 

[Wand3rlust]

Constantly.

7+ years and counting

It was 6 for me.

 

[TomTeacher19]

It's not a contest.

I'm in double figures for years.

But I'm only saying that to strongly agree how awful it is for anyone and everyone.

Wishing best for all dealing with this

 

[Live4themoments]

Constantly.

7+ years and counting

Unfortunately double digits for me

 

[NorthernCardinal]

Been about 3 years for me

 

[Live4themoments]

So I’m 30 and I’m constantly wet and horny at the begging he fucked me constantly. Here lately the past year or so it went way down to maybe once or twice a month. Is it bad that I’m 30 and still so wet and horny allll the time?

Torture for me, just torture. So close yet so far away

 

[13Fantasies]

Unfortunately double digits for me

Ill be there in no time

 

[JudyCD]

I met a guy here in Lit. His wife rarely gave him sex and never a bj. I was able to fill the void about once a week.