Sexless Marriages

[HampshireBoy]

it sucks when every part of the relationship except for the sex is wonderful. But I am extremely high libido, and my spouse is content with sex 4 to 5 times a year. I know that’s not as bad as some people on here, but it just destroys me, knowing that a cuddle on the couch will never lead to sex, scheduled times are always met with life or physical barriers. I’ve resigned myself to the fact that love is way more important than sex, but my body doesn’t agree with me.

I know exactly how you feel. My wife and I are very much in love, lots of kisses and cuddles, but I know that it is never going to lead to sex.

 

[Loyalish1245]

I know exactly how you feel. My wife and I are very much in love, lots of kisses and cuddles, but I know that it is never going to lead to sex.

The worst part is she knows but is unable to change it. We have tried medical and therapy but nothing seems to change.

 

[nellaj1990]

Right there with y'all. Been at least 5 years now. Started with an illness, extended hospital stay and never really returned.

 

[Loyalish1245]

Right there with y'all. Been at least 5 years now. Started with an illness, extended hospital stay and never really returned.

Sorry to you as well.

 

[1964Male]

Pre-COVID since last time having sex with my wife. Now it is just loveless and sexless. Roommates at best.