That’s hot being used as a cum dump. After a good blow and swallow, I have leaked and usually mentally on the edge. I actually came just as I was swallowing. No hands. I have had numerous guys that want to play with me, as I take them over the edge.
I feel your pain. We have gone from sex to sexless and it’s a loveless business arraignment.Sexless marriage since around 1998. I think that means I got the boobie prize (because I have a sub with full access to her boobies.
First, my wife started to refuse anal. I could live with that. Then she refused BJ. I didn't like it but ok... Then she came to bed sweaty, smelly and gritty, got on all 4s and said that if I wanted to I could fuck her. I was NOT ok with that. She was also hording and piling stuff around the bed, so I moved to a spare bedroom. She said she would not have sex with someone that was not sleeping with her. I said I was OK with that.
Then the marriage trap started. I said I wanted a friendly divorce and she said she would fight divorce with every penny we had. Then my father died. I was emotionally not ready for a bloody fight. I wanted to be involved with our kid so I figured I would stay until our kid was older and understand things better. I went to see a lawyer to get divorce information and my mother in law, whom I really liked, got very sick. So I waited while trying to give support. The pattern took hold. Every few years I would start exploring divorce and someone in the family (that I like) would get deathly sick or outright die. It's gotten that I am superstitious about talking to lawyers or researching divorce. LOL, the last person was my wife, 2.5 years ago. She spent 8 days in the hospital, but she is doing great now.
A few years after the turn of the century I found a sub. I started the affair with her just to get my rocks off but her personality was great and we are still seeing each other after 22 years, though only about once a week since she became a grandma. Having a supportive sub/sex-toy/pet that I see whenever we can get away really helps.
At this point I am too superstitious about the illness/death pattern and I don't want to lose all my retirement savings to lawyers in what is certain to be a nasty divorce. I kind of settled into the rut of living with my wife despite the emotional and physical alienation. However, I do get physical and emotional support from my sub.
You're on of the lucky one. For most of us it's been years.
Yeah that is an all you can eat smorgasbord for most of us on this thread.
I have been married for 10 years,
Yeah... eight of them for me.
So common. That is why making a marriage successful requires hard work
I read online that less than 12 times a year = sexless, but at the end of the day, it's just when there's a lot less than what you'd want. I've not had sex at all in a year, and prior to that fit the less than 12 times a year bracket for a few years. There are others here who have gone years. It doesn't negate your experience nor your capacity to class yourself as in one, should it otherwise be a barrier to you feeling you've a place to belong here. I'd say, join the club
Been there with my ex. Quit caring about her and her games, found a woman in the same boat and was able to live without going crazy. Divorced her through a drawn out divorce that worked out in my favor because I was able to prove my case. And life is good. It painful, but you got to do it.Sexless marriage since around 1998. I think that means I got the boobie prize (because I have a sub with full access to her boobies.
First, my wife started to refuse anal. I could live with that. Then she refused BJ. I didn't like it but ok... Then she came to bed sweaty, smelly and gritty, got on all 4s and said that if I wanted to I could fuck her. I was NOT ok with that. She was also hording and piling stuff around the bed, so I moved to a spare bedroom. She said she would not have sex with someone that was not sleeping with her. I said I was OK with that.
Then the marriage trap started. I said I wanted a friendly divorce and she said she would fight divorce with every penny we had. Then my father died. I was emotionally not ready for a bloody fight. A few years later I wanted to be involved with our kid so I figured I would stay until our kid was older and understand things better. I went to see a lawyer to get divorce information and my mother in law, whom I really liked, got very sick. So I waited while trying to give support. The pattern took hold. Every few years I would start exploring divorce and someone in the family (that I like) would get deathly sick or outright die. It's gotten that I am superstitious about talking to lawyers or researching divorce. LOL, the last person was my wife, 2.5 years ago. She spent 8 days in the hospital, but she is doing great now.
A few years after the turn of the century I found a sub. I started the affair with her just to get my rocks off but her personality was great and we are still seeing each other after 22 years, though only about once a week since she became a grandma. Having a supportive sub/sex-toy/pet that I see whenever we can get away really helps.
At this point I am too superstitious about the illness/death pattern and I don't want to lose all my retirement savings to lawyers in what is certain to be a nasty divorce. I kind of settled into the rut of living with my wife despite the emotional and physical alienation. However, I do get physical and emotional support from my sub.
Been about 8 months for me
Sorry to hear that, same in our household but it's her that just doesn't care
Been sexless for about 4 years. Love my wife but it sucksI am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns
I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no!
Ditto.Sorry to hear that, same in our household but it's her that just doesn't care
I regularly listen to "sex with emily" podcast and I remember some of the experts she had on a while ago said 2 times or less is a sexless marriage.
