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[Guest]

I am a straight male and have had female friends on two different occaisons want me to have a threesome with another man. Specifically, they wanted me to engage in sex with the other man while the girl watched. I don't think I would feel comfortable with myself afterwards so have refused. I don't think I ever could do it unless super drunk. This last woman said she wanted to see how straight men would touch each other. I would like to see what other women have to say as to what is the attraction.

 

[Lasher]

This last woman said she wanted to see how straight men would touch each other.

They DON'T!! That's why they are called straight men...

I don't think I would feel comfortable with myself afterwards

Afterwards? It's the DURING that I would have a problem with.

 

[Bossy Aussie]

LOL! Oh, Lasher, Lasher, Lasher...you know...you never told me when I'm supposed to go play baseball yet, Love...am I losing??


Bossy

 

[Skibum]

Originally posted by Lasher99:
They DON'T!! That's why they are called straight men...

Thanks, Lasher. Somebody had to say it.



[This message has been edited by skibum (edited 05-02-2000).]

 

[Hecate]

Hmm - if I had two guys available for erotic adventures, I would hope they know how to touch me !! The last thing I would be interested in is them touching each other ... since what attracts me on a mmf threesome is me being the center of attention!

So sorry mysti - I guess I am just having other preferences than your friends and so can't really explain their attraction to male-male .

Hmmm - wait .. thinking about it .. if it were something the guys wanted to explore (of course after having dedicated enough and to a satisfying degree sufficient time to me) I would probably not at all mind watching any further explorations - but it for SURE would not be my main interest at all.

 

[Guest]

Mystified,

I can't speak for all women, but for me it is a turn on to see two men go at it. I have been in many MMF 3somes (as well as FFM). If you are indeed straight, then there is no chance of you having sexual contact with another man. You simply have to tell these women that. There's no such thing as a straight person engaging in sexual activity with someone of the same sex. Period. You would have to be bi or gay.

 

[John1965]

My ex-girlfriend had the same persistant fantasy. Watching me with another guy.
That's why she's my EX girlfriend.

 

[Guest]

I appreciate the response to my question but I guess I was wanting more detail as to what the attraction is. Is the turn on purely visual or does the woman gain something from controlling or influencing the action.

If the turn on is mainly visual does oral or anal sex or kissing or something else do it for you?

If it is more than visual, is the turn on the sense of control the woman gets from influencing or directing men to do something so Taboo. Men in the past were thought to have power over women. Is part or most of the thrill the sense of power gained over stronger and traditionally dominant people. One of these women that wanted me to do it I think had issues with men.

I am somewhat of an exhibitionist and on one occaision enjoyed having a husband watch me fuck his wife. I got to admit the thought of performing a taboo act while being watched is a turn on. Woman to woman is not seriously frowned on wheras man to man is. I have heard that even swingers that do man to man have to keep it kinda quiet. I am curious but I also realize some fantasys are best not carried out.If I did it I just don't know if afterwards I could reconcile my actions with my upbringing.