Advise on younger woman

[AnomalyLady]

These comments kill me. Like why would I waste my time or yours making up some fictional story to pretend like this is something I’m trying to decide to do or not do. If I was looking for beat off material this site and others offers plenty of free options! I enjoy this site but come on, some of the content on here like incest and or forms this is the farthest thing from gross or disgusting comparatively speaking. I’m pretty sure we are all on an adult forum where it is about exploring kinks so the judgement is just ridiculous and I am pretty sure if the shoe was on the other foot you would wonder the same thing. Everyone can stop with the self righteous bs and if you don’t like this then go piss and moan on another thread with other assholes. This story is 100% true and you can read about how this fantasy started in my story titled RJ and Lissa.

I stopped following your story a bit but I did not see anyone calling this fake. But moving on, I would assume this is real, and I have fully given you my opinion, as have others.

To recap- keep it in your pants, unless you want to fantasize on it WHILE MASTURBATING. She is young and likely dumb or confused. She is your son's ex. Move on from it.

 

[LMWM321]

Everyone can stop with the self righteous bs and if you don’t like this then go piss and moan on another thread with other assholes.

Sorry... but you put your story in a public forum, so you don't get to pick and choose who replies. And is telling a guy to NOT have sex with a girl half his age, who is the daughter of a friend, and is the ex-gf of his son being self righteous, or is it just showing a bit of common sense and moral decency? Hmmm... more the latter, I think.

And yes, it's my potentially false accusation that is the greatest offense here. Oh, my shame.... ..It's unbearable.

 

[TheGxForum]

These comments kill me. Like why would I waste my time or yours making up some fictional story to pretend like this is something I’m trying to decide to do or not do. If I was looking for beat off material this site and others offers plenty of free options! I enjoy this site but come on, some of the content on here like incest and or forms this is the farthest thing from gross or disgusting comparatively speaking. I’m pretty sure we are all on an adult forum where it is about exploring kinks so the judgement is just ridiculous and I am pretty sure if the shoe was on the other foot you would wonder the same thing. Everyone can stop with the self righteous bs and if you don’t like this then go piss and moan on another thread with other assholes. This story is 100% true and you can read about how this fantasy started in my story titled RJ and Lissa.

Yeah that secret masterbator slight was uncalled for haha...

 

[TheGxForum]

I stopped following your story a bit but I did not see anyone calling this fake. But moving on, I would assume this is real, and I have fully given you my opinion, as have others.

To recap- keep it in your pants, unless you want to fantasize on it WHILE MASTURBATING. She is young and likely dumb or confused. She is your son's ex. Move on from it.

Suggestions of fake story

Pretty sure we're not having a real convo here. ..If the OP wants to put his fantasies into a story, then he should just write them himself and publish them like others have. Instead, it seems he's just presenting a sexy premise (it really isn't - it's fucking gross) and looking for others to write the rest of a story to masturbate to. Ugh...

 

[AnomalyLady]

Suggestions of fake story

I stand corrected

 

[Bookiegirl]

Ok all here is the general idea of what is going. We have one of our friends 21 year old daughter that has become a very big part of our family. She dated my son briefly but then he cheated on her and has become a bum with no job, home or car and no desire to better himself. Anyway the last 2-3 weeks she has been over a lot. Last week we were playing cards and I was sitting next to her. She kept scooting closer and bumping my leg with her leg. She was sitting Indian style so when she bumped my leg it naturally drew my eyes down to between her legs. I didn’t think much of it at the time till this week. Once again she was over and we were playing cards. This time she was clearly rubbing my foot with hers. It was like we were in elementary school. Lastly the other day at church I was talking about watching movies this week when my wife and daughter went out of town for a wedding and I sensed she wanted to ask if she could come over. She has also came and sat down right next to me. I’ll be honest if she wanted some dick I would gladly give it to her. She seems to be wanting it but I’m curious if anyone else has ever dealt with this and what your experience was like.

I would advise you to be careful of being intimate in your marital home

 

[TheGxForum]

I would advise you to be careful of being intimate in your marital home

I like the hourly room rentals best no need to stay and pay for the whole 24...

 

[Bookiegirl]

I like the hourly room rentals best no need to stay and pay for the whole 24...

Just saying once you start using your home for hookups, you risk messing with your home life with the wife

 

[Bookiegirl]

I like to spend a whole day with her. Takemy time with her. Enjoy her to the fullest.

Agreed

 

[OralAllOver]

Parenting 101: Anyone your son has dated is ineligible for you for the time period beginning now and ending 3 weeks after the heat death of the universe

 

[Bookiegirl]

Parenting 101: Anyone your son has dated is ineligible for you for the time period beginning now and ending 3 weeks after the heat death of the universe

That would suck for a single young girl with needs !

 

[Rickslaw101]

Ok all here is the general idea of what is going. We have one of our friends 21 year old daughter that has become a very big part of our family. She dated my son briefly but then he cheated on her and has become a bum with no job, home or car and no desire to better himself. Anyway the last 2-3 weeks she has been over a lot. Last week we were playing cards and I was sitting next to her. She kept scooting closer and bumping my leg with her leg. She was sitting Indian style so when she bumped my leg it naturally drew my eyes down to between her legs. I didn’t think much of it at the time till this week. Once again she was over and we were playing cards. This time she was clearly rubbing my foot with hers. It was like we were in elementary school. Lastly the other day at church I was talking about watching movies this week when my wife and daughter went out of town for a wedding and I sensed she wanted to ask if she could come over. She has also came and sat down right next to me. I’ll be honest if she wanted some dick I would gladly give it to her. She seems to be wanting it but I’m curious if anyone else has ever dealt with this and what your experience was like.

Here's the best thing you can do: Give her my contact information. I'll let you know how it turns out.

 

[coffeelover5]

Speaking from experience @Bookiegirl ?

 

[Nellie60]

This is a true no-brainer.

Imagine you're wrong, @Doughboy48, she's NOT interested in fucking you, and she reacts quite angrily to your advances. ...Just imagine the embarrassment you'll bring to yourself and, more importantly, your family if you become a guy who tried to fuck his son's ex and friends 21 year old daughter - a girl less than 1/2 your age. Do you really want that kind of shame? Do you really want to put your family through that?? ..Yeah, I'd stop inviting her over for popcorn night if I were you..

Yes she maybe just teasing you to get your reaction cause of an attention seeking and not really wanting anything sexual.

Or she is in actual fact knows what she is wanting and is seeking "revenge" against the ex boyfriend
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If you make a move verbally or physically she may react angrily and stop what she was doing and worse tells someone about it.

So it's about developing trust.

Probably don't invite her over or decline her request otherwise you are actually thinking with your "smaller head"

The end result is the same everyone gets hurt.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

The other aspect is other than me and 1 other person everyone thinks she is a virgin and a good Christian girl including her parents. I caught her and my son a few times plus he used to tell me how much of a freak she was and not like I would expect. My son has gone off the deep end and is now in to drugs and other things when they planned on getting married so she is so tied into our family at this point. Maybe since she can’t have the son she now wants the dad.

She also always wants me to rub or scratch her back and give her hugs. The last time I gave her a hug I know she had to feel the bulge that was forming in my shorts. This could be from her just being comfortable with me but with the other things she has done lately I’m leaning to there is more to it than that. We are going on a trip in a few weeks and she is going with us which is going to be interesting with this tension I’m feeling.

Sounds like your son could use your true presence and love more than her. The fruit from your tree should not be rotting so soon. When a young tree has a bend in it can be fixed if not it will always be there.

 

[Doughboy48]

I have decided it is best to keep the thoughts of her in my head. There is way to much risk to act on it even if she came on strong. She for sure was trying last week when we went on a trip and she went with us. I actually pulled back significantly and didn’t even give her hugs which I usually always do to kind of set healthy boundaries.

My son’s current actions are depressing for sure. My wife and I have tried everything we know and a bunch of other people have as well. He has decided this is the life he wants and has trashed every relationship he had up to this point.

 

[LoneMilf]

It seems you were already having these fantasies back in 2024, when you replied to the "What are you masturbating to"-thread:

My friends daughter who also used to date my son. I used to read text from her about her learning to finger herself. I also caught them with my son fingering her and playing with her tiny tits. I wish now I would have let it play out so I could have possibly seen her naked or doing other things.

Maybe it's time to admit that's all it really is - fantasy?

 

[Sunlover102]

Ok all here is the general idea of what is going. We have one of our friends 21 year old daughter that has become a very big part of our family. She dated my son briefly but then he cheated on her and has become a bum with no job, home or car and no desire to better himself. Anyway the last 2-3 weeks she has been over a lot. Last week we were playing cards and I was sitting next to her. She kept scooting closer and bumping my leg with her leg. She was sitting Indian style so when she bumped my leg it naturally drew my eyes down to between her legs. I didn’t think much of it at the time till this week. Once again she was over and we were playing cards. This time she was clearly rubbing my foot with hers. It was like we were in elementary school. Lastly the other day at church I was talking about watching movies this week when my wife and daughter went out of town for a wedding and I sensed she wanted to ask if she could come over. She has also came and sat down right next to me. I’ll be honest if she wanted some dick I would gladly give it to her. She seems to be wanting it but I’m curious if anyone else has ever dealt with this and what your experience was like.

Is she worth loosing your wife and family over.
(A definite come on and a compliment to you...and hours of time masterbating over the what ifs when you look back in the future)

 

[Fantasier]

Thank you all for the advise! The consensus is clear that I need to just keep it in my pants if she would even make a move. I agree it could get messy quickly even if we set firm ground rules. I’m sure she would get emotional and attached and that would not lead to anything good. I guess I will just keep admiring her and thinking about what I would do to her in my dreams.

In my fantasy world, her being so close to you I would want to kiss her and place her hand on my the lump between my legs and encourage her to masturbate me.

In this way I will release all the pent up male sexual energy that you have held back for the last year.

Finally experiencing that fantasy of her....or you could..

 

[LMWM321]

It seems you were already having these fantasies back in 2024, when you replied to the "What are you masturbating to"-thread:

Maybe it's time to admit that's all it really is - fantasy?

Nice catch LM.

I sure hope his original post is just a grotesque fantasy. It would come as good news that there is no such young girl whose texts he's read, who he's watched having sex with his son, and who he's considering seducing. What he was contemplating would have been a horror in her life.

I soooo hate it when people post a question they insist is sincere when in reality, they're just looking for people to write their jerk-off tale.

 

[LMWM321]

As an aside....

To the older guys out there... Give up this ridiculous notion that there are lots of women half your age who are just dying to be with you. ..They're not. If they're nice to you while in line at Starbucks, it's because they don't feel threatened by you. So, spare yourselves and the young women the embarrassment that would ensue if you hit on them.

And why bother? There are women of all ages who are beautiful and sexy, so set your sights on someone who's nearer your age.

It's kinda hilarious that so many old guys are asking young women to overlook their advancing age when it's the same kind of shallowness that leads them to pursue younger women.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Oh it is really happening no doubt about it. I will keep you posted on the trip. She is on her way home from Kansas today and said she missed seeing me today at church and that I am awesome. I wanted to reply “that’s what she said” but I kept it kosher and said just don’t tell anyone.

It does shock me that so many on here are so against getting pussy whenever you can. I know there is a moral dilemma with this but also if she agrees to keep it on the DL and we are smart I don’t see why it is a big deal. Men have had mistresses forever that have offered them that release when the wife won’t give it.

I tend to agree with as many people here that talk about multiple partners, fucking the neighbor or guy or gal at work they sure can become hypocrites when someone else considers it.
It's risk reward my friend are you willing to get caught, lose her because she isn't staying, lose your wife, family, friends along the way?
i had sonewhat the same scenario, sons girlfriend would grab a blanket and lay her head in my lap while watching tv. She would go to get up and grab my package on the way up. Climb into bed with me univited and so on.
I wasn't going to hurt my son, told my wife and she shrugged her shoulders about it saying it's nothing don't worry about it.
But my wife enjoys it when women are attracted to me, flirt and then when they get too close she slams the door on it.
Be ready to lose at minimum half of everything and most all of your friends.

People are ok with young women having the hots for older men. BUT older men are pigs for doing them. The old double standard is alive and well.

Good luck

 

[LMWM321]

People are ok with young women having the hots for older men. BUT older men are pigs for doing them. The old double standard is alive and well.

But they don’t have the hots for older men…That’s my point. It’s mostly wishful thinking.

And don’t equate supporting ethical non-monogamy with the sort of predatory behavior the OP was contemplating.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

But they don’t have the hots for older men…That’s my point. It’s mostly wishful thinking.

And don’t equate supporting ethical non-monogamy with the sort of predatory behavior the OP was contemplating.

Well guess what, young women and older men are happening daily. You can deny it but it's fact.
Younger women are sick of younger men that are disrespectful and do nothing but play video games.
Younger women love to tease I can attest to that for sure.

 

[LoneMilf]

I don't think there's anything wrong with big age gaps - as long as everyone involved really know what they're doing.

I do have a thing about honesty though, and this story doesn't look real to me.