Advise on younger woman

[LMWM321]

As I see it:

The prevalence of a 20-something woman sexually craving a 60-something man: Extremely Rare
The prevalence of a 60-something man misconstruing a 20-something's friendliness as sexual desire: Extremely Common.

 

[MrAnderson360]

As I see it:

The prevalence of a 20-something woman sexually craving a 60-something man: Extremely Rare
The prevalence of a 60-something man misconstruing a 20-something's friendliness as sexual desire: Extremely Common.

The prevalence of someone winning the lottery in America grossly more rare, yet half of America still plays

 

[LMWM321]

The prevalence of someone winning the lottery in America grossly more rare, yet half of America still plays

But there's a key difference... Playing but losing the lottery doesn't leave a huge cohort of young women feeling grossed-the-fuck-out.

Which is what would happen if young women knew so many 60 year-old men convince themselves she wants to fuck him just because she complimented his haircut, shirt, tattoo...whatever.... In other words, because she was just being friendly.

 

[MrAnderson360]

But there's a key difference... Playing but losing the lottery doesn't objectified.

All the young women that 60-year old men accuse of "wanting them" would be severely grossed-the-fuck-out if they knew a man thought, "Wow, she wants to fuck me!" just because she complimented his haircut, tattoo or whatever. ..In other words, because she was just being nice.

Ever heard of OF? You're entitled to your assumptions and opinions, but they are grossly incorrect.

 

[LMWM321]

Ever heard of OF? You're entitled to your assumptions and opinions, but they are grossly incorrect.

OF, you mean like "Old Folks"? ..If wrong, please enlighten me. And while you're at it, tell me... What's wrong with women nearer your own age? ..Why fixate on 20-somethings?

 

[MrAnderson360]

OF, you mean like "Old Folks"? ..If wrong, please enlighten me. And while you're at it, tell me... What's wrong with women nearer your own age? ..Why fixate on 20-somethings?

Who said I had issue with women my age? My best friend is ten years older even. It's my life, or whosever life. Like, stay out of it? Mind your own business. You gotta be really really bored to be trying to control everyone on the planet who doesn't act like you. So weird

 

[LMWM321]

Mind your own business. You gotta be really really bored to be trying to control everyone on the planet who doesn't act like you. So weird

It is my business. I have 20-something daughters and nieces and the idea that every time they hold the door, say hello or engage in pleasant chit chat with a 60-something dude, he thinks "Oh! This young woman wants to fuck me!" infuriates me.

I'll say it again, if men in their 60's are detecting greater friendliness from women in their 20's, it's because the women think the men are now well beyond the age of misconstruing their friendliness for romantic interest. So, they tend to be less guarded.

Apparently, they're wrong - men never stop misconstruing a women's friendliness.

 

[MrAnderson360]

It is my business. I have 20-something daughters and nieces and the idea that every time they hold the door, say hello or engage in pleasant chit chat with a 60-something dude, he thinks "Oh! This young woman wants to fuck me!" infuriates me.

I'll say it again, if men in their 60's are detecting greater friendliness from women in their 20's, it's because the women think the men are now well beyond the age of misconstruing their friendliness for romantic interest. So, they tend to be less guarded.

Apparently, they're wrong - men never stop misconstruing a women's friendliness.

Respectfully, it sounds like you are questioning your parenting skills.
And no, it's none of your business what your adult offspring are doing unless they want it to be part of your business. I have great empathy for them if you feel otherwise.

 

[LMWM321]

Respectfully, it sounds like you are questioning your parenting skills.
And no, it's none of your business what your adult offspring are doing unless they want it to be part of your business. I have great empathy for them if you feel otherwise.

..Doubting my parenting skills? Why? Because I've encouraged my daughters to be friendly to others including men over 60?

Are you suggesting I should have raised them to avoid conversations with older men because the man will misconstrue friendliness as sexual interest? ..Yes, I did not tell them that. Though based on what I've read in this thread, perhaps I should have.

 

[MrAnderson360]

..Doubting my parenting skills? Why? Because I've encouraged my daughters to be friendly to others including men over 60?

Are you suggesting I should have raised them to avoid conversations with older men because they tend to misconstrue friendliness as sexual interest? ..Yes, I did not tell them that. Though based on what I've read in this thread, perhaps I should have.

You obviously didn't read anything I said. Like, why are you on Literotica? You sound like you're full of guilt, shame, regrets, and are needing a hug, tbh. I really hope you can get through whatever it is that is haunting you. I sincerely mean that. Get some help, a therapist, a friend, someone that can help and support you. Lots of Love your way, Peace.

 

[LMWM321]

You obviously didn't read anything I said. Like, why are you on Literotica? You sound like you're full of guilt, shame, regrets, and are needing a hug, tbh. I really hope you can get through whatever it is that is haunting you. I sincerely mean that. Get some help, a therapist, a friend, someone that can help and support you. Lots of Love your way, Peace.

Well, I appreciate the well-wishes.. And I wish you the same. As to why do I come to liteotica? Well, for same reason as everyone else - it's a way of filling in the desire discrepancy that exists in my personal life. Although my wife and I have great (mostly) sex a few times a week, it's still less than what my libido craves. So, coming to Lit forums to read and write about sex helps fill that gap. And I've published several stories as well.

As to why I'm opinionated? Because I embrace sex positivity, but I loathe sexual tropes - I think they're harmful. And to my thinking, the idea that many young women crave senior aged men is NOT a real thing - it's a myth. ..And believing it is real is NOT healthy for our society. ..It contributes to women always having to be on guard around men, and older men forever objectifying young women.

Sorry you don't agree.

Peace, my friend.

 

[TemptmeTameme]

Not that you would share it online to strangers without her permission would you?

I'm putting this whole thing down to you just getting others to assist you with a little fantasy that you have in your head.

This.