shadow_dreamer
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Jul 21, 2002
- Posts
- 466
Thanks to Gil we have a place to share things with one another BUT this is not the place to cast stones on those you do not really know.
ecstacey it sounded as if you were passing judgement when you questioned Bandit and wrote "you slept with a married man? have you no class?" And the way you came across did sound a bit overboard and I can see where Gil and Bandit are coming from.
I live by the rule "if it doesn't include me it's none of my business; if the person wants to discuss things, have someone listen to them the fine but it does not give me the right to question one's actions.
Everyone has their standards/morals but we have to remember we view life and situations differently. Whether or not we accept someone's actions/views on morals does not give us the right to berate or question others. We all think differently and that is just how the world is.
If I seem harsh then so be it...for Bandit to have opened up was a step forward and not one to be put on center stage to be judged. Hope you can understand why everyone reacted the way they did.
ecstacey it sounded as if you were passing judgement when you questioned Bandit and wrote "you slept with a married man? have you no class?" And the way you came across did sound a bit overboard and I can see where Gil and Bandit are coming from.
I live by the rule "if it doesn't include me it's none of my business; if the person wants to discuss things, have someone listen to them the fine but it does not give me the right to question one's actions.
Everyone has their standards/morals but we have to remember we view life and situations differently. Whether or not we accept someone's actions/views on morals does not give us the right to berate or question others. We all think differently and that is just how the world is.
If I seem harsh then so be it...for Bandit to have opened up was a step forward and not one to be put on center stage to be judged. Hope you can understand why everyone reacted the way they did.