Fucked versus Used

[Islander55]

Interesting thread. I have been considering the concept of being used. It is something I have come to later in life. I have not thought of it as being used but I guess that is what it really is. It is not an everyday thing but there are times that I really crave it. Don't make me think about it but just go ahead and use me. Tell me what to do, make me do it, whatever. I used to think that I wanted a good forceful fuck but after reading this thread. I think used is the better term. I had a new lover last week and we went the usual foreplay route and then me riding him to an orgasm. After I finished I told him it was his turn. I told him to just go ahead and use me and I would take him fully and just wanted him to enjoy me. In my experience there are not many guys that can really do this but he was one that could and did. It was special and something I want to experience again.

 

[Bigspurt]

Used, for me, would involve rendering her helpless and therefore subject to what ever I wish. Some of that might involve teasing her in such a manner that she would find herself aroused and happy to oblige. Some light bondage would set the stage for the helpless part. Blindfolded, hands bound to her waist and some nice sexy lingerie? Tease her nipples, get her excited and then tease her with precum application to her, Pussy, mouth, nipples. Ooze it out and spread it out, not forgetting the preparation of my cock in the process. Have her experience the slippery nature of a hard cock with out the penetration. Licking it up and down and feeling more precum on her cheeks, lips and elsewhere. When she is ready I'll ask her if she is ready for cum. When she says yes I'll ask her, where? She doesn't like it in her mouth but, in my opinion, once in a blue moon, well maybe. Remember I am using her. Or maybe on her titties, face? Then I can lick it up and kiss her.

 

[subdudeme13]

Yes, I'm embarrassed to say, when I'm 'used', especially by a group of guys, it really gets me going. Don't know why. Like, when I guy uses my mouth as a vagina, as opposed to me giving a blow job, the idea that I'm being used and therefore completely with no control I find exciting. When I give a blowjob and I'm in control, then it's less exciting for me. Not sure if that makes any sense...

As a sub male I love having my face fucked and used. I do as much as I can but love when she squirts all over my face and keeps on riding. I do admit to going in to top mode and getting her off so often she begged me to stop. Tie me down if you want! Saran wrap and breath play are great too.

 

[doctorukwife]

I enjoy sex of most flavors and definitely want to be loved, cherished, and pampered. That said, what really blows me away is when I'm being used.

Used versus fucked: My definition is, the man (or men - yeah I love that also!!!) is using my body for his/their pleasure and amusement with no thought of my own enjoyment or even compliance. To him/them I am just an object, a thing to satisfy need to copulate. That to me is used.

Anyone else prefer used to fucked?

Getting used has different flavor to it than getting fucked which I think you mean fucked in someone with steady relationship.
I like to think we have animal, dark, organic side which does not confide to marriage, taboos etc. And more it's suppressed more it springs back. (like Newton's 3rd law).
I for one definitely like used, but you can't have it everytime to be normal.

Would love to hear thoughts of any Indian women in particular. Particular NRI ones.

 

[Naughtylo]

I like both depending on my mood.

 

[doctorukwife]

Yes, I'm embarrassed to say, when I'm 'used', especially by a group of guys, it really gets me going. Don't know why. Like, when I guy uses my mouth as a vagina, as opposed to me giving a blow job, the idea that I'm being used and therefore completely with no control I find exciting. When I give a blowjob and I'm in control, then it's less exciting for me. Not sure if that makes any sense...

totally relatable love

 

[CaAm1506]

Occasionally my GF says she wants what she calls an FR day. FR days are where she tells me that I can do what ever I want to/with her and it’s 100% zero rules anything I want goes. So that’s what we do. She always wants them filmed and we watch them back. FR - Free Rein days. I’ve never known this in any of my previous relationships and it’s a great experience having the autonomy to do what ever I want to do with her. So far we’ve been the only ones in the room but as she keeps telling me that it’s zero rules then I think I’ll surprise her one day with some extra guests . She’s told me that she thought I’d have done that on the last one so she kinda figured out what I’m planning. Oh and the FR thing - totally her idea. Not mine.

 

[Paguy8641]

Occasionally my GF says she wants what she calls an FR day. FR days are where she tells me that I can do what ever I want to/with her and it’s 100% zero rules anything I want goes. So that’s what we do. She always wants them filmed and we watch them back. FR - Free Rein days. I’ve never known this in any of my previous relationships and it’s a great experience having the autonomy to do what ever I want to do with her. So far we’ve been the only ones in the room but as she keeps telling me that it’s zero rules then I think I’ll surprise her one day with some extra guests . She’s told me that she thought I’d have done that on the last one so she kinda figured out what I’m planning. Oh and the FR thing - totally her idea. Not mine.

Very lucky man.

 

[Islander55]

Used, for me, would involve rendering her helpless and therefore subject to what ever I wish. Some of that might involve teasing her in such a manner that she would find herself aroused and happy to oblige. Some light bondage would set the stage for the helpless part. Blindfolded, hands bound to her waist and some nice sexy lingerie? Tease her nipples, get her excited and then tease her with precum application to her, Pussy, mouth, nipples. Ooze it out and spread it out, not forgetting the preparation of my cock in the process. Have her experience the slippery nature of a hard cock with out the penetration. Licking it up and down and feeling more precum on her cheeks, lips and elsewhere. When she is ready I'll ask her if she is ready for cum. When she says yes I'll ask her, where? She doesn't like it in her mouth but, in my opinion, once in a blue moon, well maybe. Remember I am using her. Or maybe on her titties, face? Then I can lick it up and kiss her.

I don't think this would qualify as being used. It certainly could be fun but there are times, I want it to be more forceful. I want the guy to do what he wants. If you like to cum in my mouth, fuck my mouth and make me suck you to completion and even stay in my mouth until I have to swallow your sperm. If you need to fuck me, just do it. Bend me over, spread my legs and do me.

 

[Rm3452]

I don't think this would qualify as being used. It certainly could be fun but there are times, I want it to be more forceful. I want the guy to do what he wants. If you like to cum in my mouth, fuck my mouth and make me suck you to completion and even stay in my mouth until I have to swallow your sperm. If you need to fuck me, just do it. Bend me over, spread my legs and do me.

Nice....

 

[TonyF862]

I don't think this would qualify as being used. It certainly could be fun but there are times, I want it to be more forceful. I want the guy to do what he wants. If you like to cum in my mouth, fuck my mouth and make me suck you to completion and even stay in my mouth until I have to swallow your sperm. If you need to fuck me, just do it. Bend me over, spread my legs and do me.

atta girl!!!!

 

[Islander55]

Nice....

It can be really nice for the both of us.

 

[Annelih]

I enjoy sex of most flavors and definitely want to be loved, cherished, and pampered. That said, what really blows me away is when I'm being used.

Used versus fucked: My definition is, the man (or men - yeah I love that also!!!) is using my body for his/their pleasure and amusement with no thought of my own enjoyment or even compliance. To him/them I am just an object, a thing to satisfy need to copulate. That to me is used.

Anyone else prefer used to fucked?

This took my breath away, and my money is on ‘used’

 

[lowcollar]

AS a male submissive, I love when my Mistress does both. However, if I am in a mood, I prefer that my interests have no meaning to her at all and she just does whatever she wants without regard. No safe word at all.

 

[Bigspurt]

I don't think this would qualify as being used. It certainly could be fun but there are times, I want it to be more forceful. I want the guy to do what he wants. If you like to cum in my mouth, fuck my mouth and make me suck you to completion and even stay in my mouth until I have to swallow your sperm. If you need to fuck me, just do it. Bend me over, spread my legs and do me.

You got it!

 

[Bigspurt]

I don't think this would qualify as being used. It certainly could be fun but there are times, I want it to be more forceful. I want the guy to do what he wants. If you like to cum in my mouth, fuck my mouth and make me suck you to completion and even stay in my mouth until I have to swallow your sperm. If you need to fuck me, just do it. Bend me over, spread my legs and do me.

I don't know. She has become a canvas for pre-cum and eventually cum. She is bound and somewhat helpless and subject to accepting my cock as I please.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Yes, I'm embarrassed to say, when I'm 'used', especially by a group of guys, it really gets me going. Don't know why. Like, when I guy uses my mouth as a vagina, as opposed to me giving a blow job, the idea that I'm being used and therefore completely with no control I find exciting. When I give a blowjob and I'm in control, then it's less exciting for me. Not sure if that makes any sense...

Makes total sense and no point being embarrassed about what you like.

Back when I was doing parties I liked being the 'free use bitch'. Fuckmeat. I really got off on being used as something for men to cum in. It's intense in ways you'll never understand if you haven't experienced it.

 

[Islander55]

I don't know. She has become a canvas for pre-cum and eventually cum. She is bound and somewhat helpless and subject to accepting my cock as I please.

I guess it is about how you as a couple work things out. Sounds like she is OK with being used. Do you think you could take it up another notch or two?

 

[Hypnobitch01]

I enjoy sex of most flavors and definitely want to be loved, cherished, and pampered. That said, what really blows me away is when I'm being used.

Used versus fucked: My definition is, the man (or men - yeah I love that also!!!) is using my body for his/their pleasure and amusement with no thought of my own enjoyment or even compliance. To him/them I am just an object, a thing to satisfy need to copulate. That to me is used.

Anyone else prefer used to fucked?

So hot.

 

[Escierto]

Makes total sense and no point being embarrassed about what you like.

Back when I was doing parties I liked being the 'free use bitch'. Fuckmeat. I really got off on being used as something for men to cum in. It's intense in ways you'll never understand if you haven't experienced it.

Definitely. I have had my holes used as fuck meat by my trans girl's big cock. It's the ultimate in submission.

 

[Diann_Mom]

For me there isn't much difference and that also depends on the setting. We have been to and hosted many parties and sometimes it ends up more than just casual and fun sex with other men, or even women.
There have been times that I have been fucked by two or more at a time which is something I enjoy. On the other hand it has been rather forceful and uncomfortable, in other words being used. Fortunately hubby stepped in to cool down the action.

 

[Bigspurt]

I guess it is about how you as a couple work things out. Sounds like she is OK with being used. Do you think you could take it up another notch or two?

This first "notch" is a fantasy let alone stepping it up.

 

[bethany_s]

Occasionally my GF says she wants what she calls an FR day. FR days are where she tells me that I can do what ever I want to/with her and it’s 100% zero rules anything I want goes. So that’s what we do. She always wants them filmed and we watch them back. FR - Free Rein days. I’ve never known this in any of my previous relationships and it’s a great experience having the autonomy to do what ever I want to do with her. So far we’ve been the only ones in the room but as she keeps telling me that it’s zero rules then I think I’ll surprise her one day with some extra guests . She’s told me that she thought I’d have done that on the last one so she kinda figured out what I’m planning. Oh and the FR thing - totally her idea. Not mine.

I kind of like this idea. Maybe within limits, and I know my bf wouldn’t go to far with it but trying to think of ways to let him know he can be more dominant. Telling him he can have a free whatever day might spark him more

 

[Islander55]

This first "notch" is a fantasy let alone stepping it up.

Maybe some day then.

 

[subdudeme13]

I kind of like this idea. Maybe within limits, and I know my bf wouldn’t go to far with it but trying to think of ways to let him know he can be more dominant. Telling him he can have a free whatever day might spark him more

I have sessioned with consensual non consent. Always with someone I knew and trusted. Most of my partners have had more common sense than me. I always want too too much. I like to be pushed and to beg for mercy.