Position Training - For Maintaining Intimacy & Healing

[Hypocrites]

My most prized possession @HyposMuse and I constantly crave each other's presence and closeness. We are currently separated by a 14 hour drive. In another thread we've discussed various things to help maintain the submission when apart.

Position training is something we do to remain intimate, maintain discipline and as we learned, clear the cobwebs.

What I’m seeing in her is a time where everything but her and I goes away. There are positions that are specifically focus oriented and ubiquitous across the BDSM world. There are some I have brought brought from my own past and at least one born of things we’ve spoken about.

I also see and hear my obedient girl go into subspace and, in the case of the more objectifying poses, arousal. Especially when she has to recite the meaning of the pose and what is being offered in each one.

I see what I hope is healing of trauma too. This is a very intense regimen and I have found that she can become overwhelmed. That is to be avoided if possible since I am not there. I have added check-ins also. It’s more difficult to detect the signs of a trigger or going red online. When I am with her I can read her.

So these examples are as we practice them in remote sessions. The goal is to give her a path to clear her mind, purge everything but us and to keep her concurrent on expectations for when we are together.

The Positions

• “Ready” - This is the basic position where she’s ready to greet me, ask for permission to enter, etc. Feet are shoulder width apart and arms are behind her back with her wrists crossed.
  • Now this can be done dressed, partially exposed or naked. For purposes of our remote sessions we start with a “strip” command. This is intended to put her and I both in our roles.
  • The wrists are significant beyond being behind her. They are also being offered for binding.
  • @HyposMuse has told me that one of her most humbling times was when she was to follow me around my parents’ estate with her tits exposed.
  • As with each position we train she is to tell me what it’s for and what’s being offered.
• “Attention” - This one may be less common in the community, I really have no idea. But it’s one of the first entreaties into submission. She is to stand with her feet together, head up and looking straight ahead. Her arms are at her sides and her palms are offered up at right angles.
  • This is a position that lends itself to my leering, walking around her and commenting.
  • She has to define the position and what’s offered. For instance, the palms up is to be presented ready for discipline or used to hold something.
  • As with every one, she has to recite its purpose and what she’s offering with it.
• “Inspect” - This is a modified attention in that the feet are spread. This one is more submissive than its predecessors.
  • The purpose is to be ready for inspection, especially intimate inspection to gauge how ready she is. In person, this would be where I’d check to see how wet she is. She would clean my fingers.
  • In the remote, she responds to the command “Check” and then reports. I have her clean her fingers here and then work them in her mouth and throat. As a proxy to my own.
• “Worship” - The “ready” position and this are ubiquitous in the BDSM scene. IRL this is probably the last position where a modicum of clothing is accepted. My version of this is with her on her knees, palms on my thighs and looking up at me. Her eyes are to always focus on me.
  • This position is where I typically see the first signs of my prize slipping into sub space.
  • This is also the first position where I start feeling my dominance, even remotely.
  • The memory of her doing the same thing with our last meeting adds to my closeness.
• “Open” (Modified Worship) - Is her knees more apart and her mouth open; offering herself for my use. I often have her extend her tongue and hold it.
  • This also stirs memories for her. I can see her breathing deepen as she defines the position and recites what she is offering for me.
  • She tells me as the position begins to hurt, she feels her memories of when we were together.
  • This is often the point I add objectifying language. Her reaction is when she is showing there’s just us, nothing else.
• “Display” - She is to be naked for this. This position is all about submission and surrender. My girl assumes a position (facing away from the camera in our remotes), presses her chest and face into the carpet, opens her mouth and parts her thighs. She is then to hold herself open for me.
  • This position quickly evolves into pain yet she remains in sub space.
  • Her voice becomes small and breathy as she explains the position and what is being offered.
  • I can see her clamp as I have her answer a series of questions affirming my ownership.
  • She has told me this is the most obscene and exposed and most owned she feels.
• “Offer” - This is where my baby is on her knees again, thighs spread and her offering up her breasts to me.
  • Her physiological reactions and voice changes signal her coming even closer to complete submission.
  • I notice that each statement she has to recite about the meaning of the position and what’s being offered affects her psychology and her body.
  • This is where I see a real impact on her in that she can concentrate on just me and what she’s feeling. The intensity however is also playing on her at this point.
• “Open Offer” - This is a modification of the “Offer” but she has to insert her glass dildo and hold it in by her kegels while pulling and twisting her nipples.
  • Invariably, as I evaluate her compliance, she is directed to a more severe pulling and stretching.
  • The point of this position she has to recite also. It’s to offer herself. Ready her pussy for use and her tits for punishment if necessary.
  • Her voice becomes soft and small, more so than previously. This lets me know her mind is all on us and everything else is beginning to fade from her awareness.
• “Display Two” - This position is all about being completely exposed and open to whatever I want to do. @HyposMuse is on her back, her knees pulled up and to her sides.
  • Once again she is to define the position, what’s being offered and affirming her submission.
  • This has a deep affect on her and is visibly affecting her as I watch her clench or the glass dildo be pulled in and pushed out some.
  • This is the point that while using objectifying language that I hear (and receive satisfaction from) her whimpers and desires.
  • She often asks to cum at this point.
• “Spread” - This command has her laid back, her arms out and above her head and her thighs splayed open and her legs bent at the knees and laid out.
  • This is to simulate her “ultimate” submission as IRL involves her being bound in this position. Open to my use and unable to resist.
  • More so on the third round than any other time, my baby comes to terms with being mine totally and realizing that when it’s realized she is emptied of everything but being part of us.

How does this heal?

I see her release a lot. Loud thoughts are pushed out and her mind emptied to just be. There’s catharsis too. Sometimes the intensity becomes too much but even then, I believe she grounds easier after a session.

It’s building too. She hears objectifying language but she also hears my praise, my pride in her submission and drive for perfection. And she hears my praise, my affection and how much I love her as my own.

I have told her to add her own thoughts to flesh this out. What I hope is to hear from doms and subs on whether they also use position training, how and to what effect.