Extended, intense Edging

Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

If this topic has sparked curiosity, feel free to reach out. Well written, thoughtful PMs are encouraged.
I don't know if it appeals to many, but my cuckold certainly loves extended intense edging. I keep him cock locked 24/7, but I do milk him regularly, on a Saturday afternoon. He is released and I supervise the cleaning and disinfecting of his device. Then I shave him, and use prostate massage to drain him, always to a ruined orgasm. Then he's locked up for another week.
We often watch cuckold porn together during the week. As he's locked up, he can't get a full hard on, so he gets very frustrated. I also peg him regularly, which also takes him to the edge. And, as can be seen from my avatar, I pander to his smoking fetish. He loves to watch me smoke, blowing my smoke over his caged cock and balls. When he is milked on a Saturday, he usually produces a great deal. It takes between 15 and 20 minutes on average to drain him. When he's locked away again, he's been trained to 're-cycle' his cum. It is good training for his clean up duties when I've been with my boyfriend. All of the above activities are consensual. Both my cuckold and I love our lifestyle.
 
I love edging my sub. He is such a good boy and tries so hard not to cum. It’s pretty cute. Begging me to stop so he doesn’t cum without permission. And when we’re in an extended edging session usually a week or 2 he becomes so attentive. When he’s edging he is extra hyper sexual and extremely eager to please me.
 
I’ve been abt two weeks w/o cumming. My wife teased and edged me wo letting me cum Friday morning and then had me do it 2x yesterday while she observed me.

I’m hoping for another edging session today and some sex. I’m just not allowed to cum. She gets to cum a lot.
 
I’m a bit worried about getting addicted to NOT cumming.

My wife allows me to edge a lot or she blows, handjobs and edges me. We also have a fair amount of intercourse.

But I have become addicted to this feeling of not cumming. Orgasms, when they happen feel hollow to me.

Today, my wife teased me for about an hour this morning.

Then before getting out to our farm, she let me use her hitachi and edge for abt 20 minutes and when we got home she watched me masturbate and edge for about 30 mins. Tonight we’re planning to mutually masturbate.

Does anyone else experience this feeling of addiction to edging and not cumming?
 
Does anyone else experience this feeling of addiction to edging and not cumming?
To some degree, yes.

I have edged for hours and then not cum.

I have extended that until the next day and not cum.

I have extended that for two or more days and not cum.

Sometimes it is because I was instructed not to from a female text/kik/PM partner and sometimes it was because I ran into other real life hindrances that interfered.

Does that make it an addiction? Not necessarily. But it does enhance how amazing it feels and felt. It does make me at times try to extend the climax for a bigger climax.

But damn it, if I had a choice, I hate extending a climax more than 24 hours
 
I’m a bit worried about getting addicted to NOT cumming.

My wife allows me to edge a lot or she blows, handjobs and edges me. We also have a fair amount of intercourse.

But I have become addicted to this feeling of not cumming. Orgasms, when they happen feel hollow to me.

Today, my wife teased me for about an hour this morning.

Then before getting out to our farm, she let me use her hitachi and edge for abt 20 minutes and when we got home she watched me masturbate and edge for about 30 mins. Tonight we’re planning to mutually masturbate.

Does anyone else experience this feeling of addiction to edging and not cumming?
During No Nut November, it felt very much like an addition...not long after finishing my morning edging session, I was constantly thinking about, and craving the next edge. Orgasms were no longer the goal...riding the edge was and boy was it fun! Perhaps I'll have to start a new tradition....No Nut February!
 
But damn it, if I had a choice, I hate extending a climax more than 24 hours
Going on three weeks now. Maybe I am overthinking the addiction thing. It’s fun and it’s a great feeling.

I’m not totally upending my life for it, but it is mostly all I can think about. She sez I have to wait till February to cum.

During No Nut November, it felt very much like an addition...not long after finishing my morning edging session, I was constantly thinking about, and craving the next edge. Orgasms were no longer the goal...riding the edge was and boy was it fun! Perhaps I'll have to start a new tradition....No Nut February!
She had me edge three times yesterday.

She teased me for 45 minutes in bed.

Then between jobs yesterday she had me edge for abt 20 mins using her hitachi.

And when I took a shower at the end of the day she let me watch some porn and edge for abt 30 minutes.

After each edging session, she has me tell her my mantra: “please don’t let me cum, Miss Conduct.”

It feels soooooo good.
 
My beloved wife keeps me locked in cock cages 24/7. She opens twice a week and edges me around half an hour to prevent erection problems. She hasn't let me cum since August 2020 and promised to never let me cum again. I am all time horny and love it.
 
Does anyone else experience this feeling of addiction to edging and not cumming?
I definitely recognize this. At one point, I went regularly a bit longer periods (as in 1-3 weeks usually) without an orgasm and with plenty of edging. When I did have an orgasm, it usually felt good (or very good 🤤) when it happened, but soon afterwards I felt a little disappointed that I had had an orgasm instead of just edging or maybe at least ruining the orgasm. It is very easy to get lost in the foggy, melty feeling and it can be sad and difficult to let that go.

Then, when I did a 15 month stint of orgasm denial with plenty of edging and finally had an orgasm after that, it didn’t feel that good and it was very difficult to achieve. It felt very hollow, as you put it, and I started to cry immediately when it happened. Not the good kind of crying. It was a very strange feeling for several reasons, physically and emotionally.

It took me a while to get my head back in the game for sure, but my orgasms did eventually go back to what they used to be. Meaning not hollow.

The longest denial stint I’ve done since then is a little over a month, and I doubt I’ll go for much longer than that in the future. But if I do, at least now I’ll be more prepared for when it ends.
 
Wow! Hard to imagine you did 15 mos without orgasming. And with a lot of edging as well. WOW…

We have done 8 to 10 weeks on the outside but typically it’s every 2 to 4 weeks.

And I should clarify, not all of my orgasms are hollow after these long sessions.

In fact, if they are managed in a very sexy manner, they can be the biggest most mind blowing orgasms I’ve ever had.

If I’m not ready or cum too quickly, then yes, they feel hollow.

The best releases I’ve had have been long, edging hand jobs after weeks of tease and denial. My wife is pretty good at them, but when you’re so close to the edge sometimes mistakes are made.

Below is when she released me so perfectly. several weeks of denial and teasing, and then a long, loving hand job. Got a good 10-11 ropes of cum…

Released
 
In fact, if they are managed in a very sexy manner, they can be the biggest most mind blowing orgasms I’ve ever had.

If I’m not ready or cum too quickly, then yes, they feel hollow.
I think for me a big problem with the orgasms feeling very hollow was that in a way I felt a little guilty about having an orgasm and it took a while to get my head back in order. When you go long without a release, it can be a lot when the time comes to end the denial.
 
I think for me a big problem with the orgasms feeling very hollow was that in a way I felt a little guilty about having an orgasm and it took a while to get my head back in order. When you go long without a release, it can be a lot when the time comes to end the denial.
That’s the hollow feeling I get to I suppose. I’m in such a lengthy state of arousal that once I shoot the proverbial wad, I feel like I’ve lost that amazing feeling.

And then it’s that feeling of “oh shit, I haveta wait a few more weeks to feel that good!”
 
I do not know how to describe our last session. Maybe it was spiritual, maybe it was just entirely erotic and sexual.

I don’t know.

I am sort of still recovering from it.

My wife put bands on my cock and balls and edged me very vigorously for about 45 minutes. Using her mouth and her hand, and sometimes ordering me to masturbate myself while she watched…

The end she had me use an attachment from her Hitachi that was mind blowing.

I most certainly did not cum. Well I did, but I did not ejaculate.

I had 12 to 15 of what I would describe as body orgasms. Intense contractions, some from my core, some in my arms and hands and others in my legs and feet.

When we were done, I actually did some very intense aftercare, and as she cuddled me and held me, I had several more body orgasms and body contractions.

She would put her hand around my throat, not enough to cut off air, but just enough to know that I was owned. (she’s actually very gentle and loving)

Before I got up, I asked her if she could slap me in the face. She did, and it gave me another round of intense body orgasms and body contractions.

She asked me “ is it physical? Or mental?”

I answered with “yes.”

I’m still not 100% sure of what Tantric sex is and I don’t think you’re supposed to be using your sex organs to have Tantric sex, but this was something pretty intense.. almost spiritual.
 
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