Extended, intense Edging

Just starting to play with this edging thing. Not doing a very good job honestly... I think it's because I went without a libido (having 2 kids and the responsibilities of being mom being sooooo in my face) for such a long time. But very recently...

I was ordered to spank myself hard to the point of being in an altered state.... and then ordered to touch myself... brought myself almost to the brink of ecstasy before being ordered to suddenly halt and service my lover. Taking him in my mouth... being forced open wide to take him all the way to the back of my throat... Mouth and jaw aching as he invaded my face... Tears streaming down the side of my face... Wanting to touch myself again, touching, being then being restrained... Being denied... Wanting to fulfill his desires, my needs, but he stopped us both and left us right there... Right in that warm, wet place right before the edge of rapture.

It was an amazing experience... I wasn't able to deny myself as long as he wanted... I'm hoping to buck up and develop that resolve. I've never really had it when it comes to orgasms. How do you deal with waiting?
I can only tell you from a man’s perspective. The longer you go the more maddening it becomes. I can usually handle the first six or seven days, but after that, I become full of lust, desire, and willingness to please, my lover.

It really feels maddening the longer I go.

I’ve gone as many as six weeks before,’ but typically she will release me every 3 to 4 weeks. I always say that to deny, my orgasm, denies me, my physical, mental, biological, and even spiritual need in a way. Interested to hear how you handle this new experience…
 
Oooohhh it's time! It's time.......

The 12 Edges of Christmas! Well, the link is more about tasks, so, alter a bit for edging and go with it.

12 Edges of Christmas

If you are feeling adventurous 😈
 
Whereas I have admitted to being a sub to aggressive and dominating females, it has been my goal to have my female partner force me to satisfy her orally, then edge me, satisfy her again, then edge me again, and I have been denied for four hours during one session, and left undenied until later the next day, but have yet to find someone who would have the patience and perseverance to train me to suffer it longer periods of time. Giving her oral before or during edging enhances my gratification even if she denies my release. I might be an odd duck but I like it.
 
Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

If this topic has sparked curiosity, feel free to reach out. Well written, thoughtful PMs are encouraged.
I edge myself for many days sometimes, can lead to a series of orgasms where I control my ejaculations, having 5 in row over a period of up to 10 min or more! LOTS of Cum! But have never had a woman edge me!! I'm generally Dom but I do have sub fantasies . . .
 
I’m on day 24 w/o release. lots of teasing from her, and fucking for her pleasure but no cumming for me. She has only said “sometime next year.”

She usually gives me a good edged release after 20-30 days, so I am hopeful for a release soon. The open endedness of “sometime next year” really excites me a lot.

I am beyond horny and filled with lust.
 
I've had 3 experiences.
Each very intense. ??My wife to date has still given me the best orgasm without edging, but that was at the end of a week of interupted attempts to get me off. Sort of a self induced unintenional edging.
Which is how I ended up here.
The lady I visit with online, is playing hard ball. Im brand new, and I was 'aware of' the rules, but she of course uses every mistake to correct.
Our interactions started with 1 edge a day and a report. Then 3 on a friday each videoed. That Friday nite we texted online. I had missed writing a report...She asked if I had 'toys' I had my wife/my prostate massager somewhere, I rummaged around and found it, cleaned it and she told me to insert it for an hour and she would be back.
Exactly 60 minutes later, im now calmer, Mrs is in bed but close by and asleep. Im at my desk [we are living in a small place while we build a home] . She says get HARD now.
I pull my pants down and hit it. Then she says rock on the hard plastic, which by this time is really uncomfortable like a rock up my butt. That generates some new sensations for me [neverhad that p spot worked ]
An hour later after dozens of stops for incorrect usage of words and not enough thanks you's she lets me come. Intense.
The next 2 days silence. I got literally frantic, I messaged her several times which was not what I was supposed to do.....
Another correction session ensued.
I can share more if anyone is interested. The absense of control is intoxicating, nerve wracking and has me questioning my common sense. Sometimes I cant even think straight. Thank goodness this is over the xmas break. I dont know how I am going to manage during a regular work from home week.

How do people separate this in their daily lives?
 
Got more then a few messages about this.
Men need to understand that something like this is a commitment.

It really isn't about you. It's about you ots about ... whats the word .. entertaining me.

It's not about because you want a distraction from pornography

It's a deep .. you hand over control of your pleasure and a deep connection is formed over time
 
There are many ways that I have seen, participated, and become informed about edging, orgasm control, and even male chastity... like MOST Everything in the realm of delicious and delectable kinky fuckery, there are as many ways that things can be done as there are people to imagine things being done. I will say, with ZERO hesitation, that there are some people that thrive in some circumstances and situations and deal poorly in others. The vital component in knowing what creates and maintains that magic between partners/participants and the individual is truly the one that seeks to know and be known with nothing beyond access. I have been with sweet boys who adored being locked away for the sake of their genuine attentiveness and lack of self and ego as they were thus capable of it... and I have known men who were passionately committed and attentive without being so restrained. My responsibility, and joy, is genuinely knowing my people and bringing the best from them and TO them... it is a path we walk and discover together. ✨
 
I do this to myself all the time. I'm single so I do this to bring some spice into my masturbation. Typically I'll edge and deny every weekend. Maybe I'll let myself cum on a Sunday night but lots of times I deny myself. For me, I love, LOVE how horny it makes me so I keep myself like that for days.
You’re clearly a very good girl 😇
 
Got more then a few messages about this.
Men need to understand that something like this is a commitment.

It really isn't about you. It's about you ots about ... whats the word .. entertaining me.

It's not about because you want a distraction from pornography

It's a deep .. you hand over control of your pleasure and a deep connection is formed over time
Exactly, so much of the bond strengthening comes from what's not done as what's done. In my experience it gets down to the micro level and makes you see and ponder your own feelings in a completely new and intense way.
 
I have experienced extended edging and am absolutely in favor of it. Solo I have done this for 3 days, with a partner 5 days. Your entire body, nipples, erogenous zones, clit, become so sensitive, but it truly is an incredibly enjoyable experience. The final release is.... indescribable.
In my experience, however; it is rather difficult to find a partner who understands edging like this and it's purpose. Many men seem to be solely focused on getting a woman to orgasm as quickly as possible 🤷 but for me, the act of getting there, the build up is the best part.
 
I have experienced extended edging and am absolutely in favor of it. Solo I have done this for 3 days, with a partner 5 days. Your entire body, nipples, erogenous zones, clit, become so sensitive, but it truly is an incredibly enjoyable experience. The final release is.... indescribable.
In my experience, however; it is rather difficult to find a partner who understands edging like this and it's purpose. Many men seem to be solely focused on getting a woman to orgasm as quickly as possible 🤷 but for me, the act of getting there, the build up is the best part.
I'm in where and when do we start ;)
 
This is wise.
It's not about the orgasm.
The mental adjustment made with a partner / e or IRL, is amazing for both parties. It's a real paradigm shat that in the last few weeks I have come to deeply appreciate.
 
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