Extended, intense Edging

[DeepAchingNeed]

This is wise.















It's not about the orgasm.















The mental adjustment made with a partner / e or IRL, is amazing for both parties. It's a real paradigm shat that in the last few weeks I have come to deeply appreciate.

As with all things, especially for those of us that seek to transcend the mere physicality of an experience and enter such activities with our whole selves, it ALL originates with and is about the connection. The deepest and richest part of the profound tapestry of who we are and have the potential to become is discovered through the depth of our willingness and honesty in showing all the way up with those that are righteously granted such access.

 

[hulmule]

My edging comes from a sexless marriage. My cock and hand have know each other way to long... and dont like to play well. Sometimes i just cant cum. There was a phase that fucking i couldnt cum need more . I would be hard as a rock fucking for hour and not cum. Even went to the doc. He said be happy your hard most guys cant get hard not alone cum.. Thats where i want deep throated to put me over the top- that isnt happening...

 

[vladdracula2014]

I have experienced extended edging and am absolutely in favor of it. Solo I have done this for 3 days, with a partner 5 days. Your entire body, nipples, erogenous zones, clit, become so sensitive, but it truly is an incredibly enjoyable experience. The final release is.... indescribable.
In my experience, however; it is rather difficult to find a partner who understands edging like this and it's purpose. Many men seem to be solely focused on getting a woman to orgasm as quickly as possible but for me, the act of getting there, the build up is the best part.

The build up is very, so very important!!

 

[jackieblue808]

Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

If this topic has sparked curiosity, feel free to reach out. Well written, thoughtful PMs are encouraged.

I have practiced orgasm denial and prolonged edging for many years. It is a way to retain energy.
Originally was taught by a partner, but continued it after we split.
I usually go about a month between ejaculations these days. However I have learned how to have an orgasm with out ejaculation. That is very intense.

 

[Wonderer67]

I have practiced orgasm denial and prolonged edging for many years. It is a way to retain energy.
Originally was taught by a partner, but continued it after we split.
I usually go about a month between ejaculations these days. However I have learned how to have an orgasm with out ejaculation. That is very intense.

Was it a prostate orgasm or another way of achieving orgasm?

My wife is into teasing/denying/controlling my orgasm, and I have experienced several types of other orgasms that I don’t think are prostate orgasms, but I feel them deep inside my body - amazing waves of pleasure without ejaculation. Everything else happens tho: deeper more internee breathing, higher heart rate, just different muscle groups contracting involuntarily.

I have also had “breathing orgasms” from nipple stimulation like the feeling that my chest and lungs are contracting and breathing deeper.

 

[jackieblue808]

Was it a prostate orgasm or another way of achieving orgasm?

My wife is into teasing/denying/controlling my orgasm, and I have experienced several types of other orgasms that I don’t think are prostate orgasms, but I feel them deep inside my body - amazing waves of pleasure without ejaculation. Everything else happens tho: deeper more internee breathing, higher heart rate, just different muscle groups contracting involuntarily.

I have also had “breathing orgasms” from nipple stimulation like the feeling that my chest and lungs are contracting and breathing deeper.

not a prostrate orgasm. more like waves of shuddering

 

[artslut86]

Friend has an online session that went for 5 hours. Then he had to wait until the next evening at 8 or 9 for another 4 hr session only to get the ruined orgasm LOLOL. Said he nearly lost his mind during the intermission. All sort of pulsing, throbbing, woke up every hour with massive hardons that were painful. It involved some basic ass play, C&B wrapping and a lot of stroking, denial, etc. Sounded super hot. The ruined part not so much. Love to try that with a woman sometime.

 

[DeepAchingNeed]

At a loss... recently reconnected with a clip/link from some time ago and cannot recall the names or source. Absolutely would LOVE to find it again though.



Gentleman being stroked and massaged (It is a good 6-10 minutes I believe) and milked... begging to cum. Being denied... he is bound. She has dark hair and wears glasses. She speaks beautifully and is not violent, angry, or mean... she also has a beautiful singing voice. (Reminding him of some distractive tools he may use and is not... such as singing Christmas carol verses to not cum.) Any help in finding it (and subsequently saving to guarantee I never lose it again!) is greatly appreciated. This beautiful interaction is magnificent. Thank you for any/all effort and assistance

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

At a loss... recently reconnected with a clip/link from some time ago abd cannot recall the names or source. Absolutely would LOVE to find it again though.



Gentleman being stroked and massaged (It is a good 6-10 minutes I believe) and milked... begging to cum. Being denied... he is bound. She has dark hair and wears glasses. She speaks beautifully and is not violent, angry, or mean... she also has a beautiful singing voice. (Reminding him of some distractive tools he may use and is not... such as singing Christmas carol verses to not cum.) Any help in finding ?and subsequently saving!) This beautiful interaction would be and is wonderfully appreciated. Thank you for any/all effort and assistance

I can't be of any help here... never saw the clip... but your description of it is... mesmerising

Love,
Thom

 

[DeepAchingNeed]

I can't be of any help here... never saw the clip... but your description of it is... mesmerising

Love,
Thom

That is a brilliant and entirely apropos description! I seriously hope to find it... and keep it forever

 

[bubbachinx]

I used to have an older lady friend that would put me in sheer pantyhose and edge me for a long time barely touching me or using her nails all over me. Concentrating between my balls and anus. Met weekly. Was such a good stress reliever. She retired and her and husband moved away, would love to find right situation again. It’s literally hypnotizing. Took a few pictures occasionally wish I had taken more.
Any older women wanna try please let me know.

How did you meet her?

 

[Kitschshaman]

Perfect storm of utopian torment.

or perhaps like this?

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph6316407c430bb

enjoy,

 

[Dirty6Mind9Guy]

Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

If this topic has sparked curiosity, feel free to reach out. Well written, thoughtful PMs are encouraged.

Over the course of my 20+ year marriage, there were times when I'd go without orgasms for a while. Then I discovered that if I stayed my orgasms, those times when we did have sex, my orgasms were very powerful. Voluminous too, which led to some exciting cum play & cum eating.

Nowadays, with her in menopause, sex is scarce but I've learned to edge daily, for weeks and sometimes a couple of months. Oh, I'd leak serious streams of delicious pre-cum, but had the will to not bring myself to the brink. The shear force of my orgasms are physically draining and she swears she can feel the powerful bursts inside her...sometimes if I finish on her face, the splatter is intense.

If there's a downside to this, it's the amount of time it takes me to lick her clean but she doesn't mind that at all. So much flows out of her and down to her puckered hole that it too requires many minutes of licking.

 

[Mooncrack]

As someone who has been denied for months at a time, I can tell you it can be insane. Only with the consistent checking in of the person who controlled my orgasms was I able to do it. He would allow me to talk about what the weird spikes of hormones we’re doing to me both mentally and physically. Talking about it would often cause me to become even more aroused and I’m sure he knew this and enjoyed the squirming result immensely. We were long distance so this was an excellent way I could give him control.
I guess what I’m trying to say is...
I’m a HUGE fan of prolonged (days/weeks/months/) orgasm denial and edging!

Cum denial for days and days might drive a man to insanity, I wonder if it might drive men out to rape? There is also the way one masturbates, I prefer hurting my penis by prolonged masturbating and hard jerking. The penis because it has been hurt the flesh swells up, this plus erection causes the penis to become bigger than normal and the denial for days drives one to intense lust and it drives one to do things one would not normally do, like pulling out your penis around porno shops and showing it to people and masturbate for their pleasure lust. Anyway when you do allow yourself to cum you might shudder with lust and scream as I do. I do love obscene vulgar eyes looking at my penis only inches away as I jack and flop my heavy dripping flesh!

 

[Mooncrack]

Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

If this topic has sparked curiosity, feel free to reach out. Well written, thoughtful PMs are encouraged.

Some guy said that he masturbated for a month before coming, I think that could drive a guy to insanity. Sucking for hours or days might be really exciting for the one being sucked and not being allowed to come till allowed.

 

[Mooncrack]

This is a deep fascination for me, and something I've been privileged to experience a few times with lovers. It is both wonderful and terrifying. Pain can make you lose your desire to resist, but only desire can make you lose yourself. My dalliances with edging, both real and imaginary, have often involved the use of chastity as a way of ensuring/enforcing extended denial and edge play.

I echo what others have said regarding how difficult/impossible it can be to stay on edge. This difficulty is at least partly the result of a number of internal biological processes, most of which fall under the umbrella of 'homeostasis'. Put simply, homeostasis is the body's way of keeping various things 'normal' - for example, your skin contributes to temperature homeostasis by producing sweat when you're hot and goose bumps when you're cold. The endocrine system (which governs hormone levels) has its own homeostatic processes, as does your brain (which governs many of the other important horny-chemicals, particularly the neurotransmitters dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin, which are related to feelings of pleasure, happiness, confidence and excitement).

If you're not used to being edged it can be a huge shock to the system. You made me feel like I was on the edge of bliss... so my body began preparing for bliss. It began preparing to replace a load of used up testosterone, to calm down my adrenal response, to make me remember, despite the intense orgasm, that i am small and naked and mortal. You might think that excess testosterone flushing around would make me more assertive, more aggressive. But in situations where testosterone increases in tandem with stimuli that make the individual feel weak or helpless, then the excess testosterone gets suppressed: it might simply be sequestered (which can cause a sort of shrinking feeling and, in me at least, a desire to serve) or it might get converted into estrogen, with a variety of generally calming effects.

Oh, I almost forgot endorphins - your body's own morphine! - and Oxytocin - that's the one that makes you feel like you're falling in love with whoever just made you see stars.
From the devoted way i feel when im edged im pretty confident some Oxy slips out the gate a little early, and I know endorphin levels begin rising in anticipation of orgasm.. Things that creep up gently dont provoke homeostatic effects in the same way huge spikes do, so its possible to make someone feel better than they would after a dozenorgasms... if they can just get let go of that pesky need to cum.

I think it would be interesting to make a study of the edging process and how to make it more intense, like for instance what about dirty slutty talk to the person being edged, or talking about the guys penis, how big is, how lewd it looks, and talk about how he would love to cum, "but don't you dare!", also tell him what a slut he is to allow some else to masturbate his penis, lick it, and suck it, etc., etc. Also I suppose there are many techniques, like electric shock and so on.

 

[artslut86]

I was edged once for 9 hours over about 13 hr span. Many periods of stillness ' don't move' ' dont rock on the massager'
Directed stroking pace, counts, stop starts.
I'd pay to get that intense experience again done how it was done. She watched me on skype and then ruined the orgasm !! Would have been nice to finish properly lol.

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife teased the fuck out of me last night and again this morning. She was rubbing me to just short of orgasm thru my sweatpants in bed.

I have been 7 weeks without orgasm.

Before bed, she rubbed my cock thru my sweatpants. She teased the head, occasionally the shaft, but it was like a bunch of sexy tongues on the underside of my cock. I’ve never felt anything like it before. It was exquisite and at the same time it was maddening.

I thought I may reach orgasm (I’d have to let her know) but I stayed just under orgasm for about 45 minutes. It felt great, but It was also a mental, physical, physiological and biological struggle.

Same things this morning…abt 20 minutes of teasing, this time. Then she had me take my cock out and masturbate for her… I did, which I enjoy… I like being observed when I masturbate… I edged and edged and edged and backed off each time I approached orgasm.

At one point she went down on me and sucked me. I was close and had to let her know when I was close so she could back off.

We’re going to the nude beach today for my birthday. Tonight she said she was gonna peg me with her strap-on. The only way I’m allowed to cum today is if I cum from her strapon fucking me, which almost never happens.
If I don’t cum that way, she promised me she’ll let me cum tomorrow and promised me a nice long, frustrating hand job. (It’s my birthday) That’ll be a nice present.

 

[DevotedHusband1]

Starting at the beginning of the year, my queen increased my interval between ejaculations from 3-4 days to 7-10 days. I get edged continuously in the sense that I am expected to sexually service her every day even though most days I'm not going to come. Even though I'm well trained at this point, it's difficult to thrust inside her with the power and speed that she demands, for the length of time that she demands, and keep myself from coming. This is especially true starting around day 4 of my time between ejaculations. As a result, I've had several unauthorized ejaculations this year. When this happens, we discuss it, and we talk about what I'm going to do to make sure it doesn't happen again. Then she disciplines my ass with her heavy wooden hairbrush. These sessions are extremely painful, and I am expected to take my punishment like the tough, strong stud that she wants me to be.

By the time days 7-10 come around, I am a complete and total basket case. All I can do is think about her, and I follow her around the house trying to get her to have sex. She loves it. Sometimes she lets me kiss her feet while she works. I would do that all day if I had time. The only thing that gets me through it is knowing that I have no other choice, knowing that she asks this of me and so I must do it. She is my goddess, and she has decided that 7-10 days is what produces the erections and the attitude that she likes. I am to be chivalrous, romantic, and deferential, and I am to have a large, firm penis that is on a hair trigger and ready to serve whenever she needs it. I love pleasing her. My life is not easy, but it is very fulfilling.

 

[Wonderer67]

By the time days 7-10 come around, I am a complete and total basket case.

After the first few days, you figure “ this isn’t too HARD…” then by days, 4-7 your like “this is not easy.”

And yes, after a week, it’s pretty much all you think about.

Control the orgasm, and you control the man.

 

[artslut86]

After the first few days, you figure “ this isn’t too HARD…” then by days, 4-7 your like “this is not easy.”

And yes, after a week, it’s pretty much all you think about.

Control the orgasm, and you control the man.

It's becoming impossible to think clearly. I'm on day 29. I'm potentially getting a reward day 30. But I suspect it won't be what I'm hoping.
Yesterday I was in a super tight sheath thong with a vibrating plug for a long time. Last nite I awoke at 1am, 4am, 5am sleeping freeball hard as a rock and no touch allowed.
My mind went thru all the things constantly that might happen. How will I male another damn day I hVe no idea.

 

[DevotedHusband1]

After the first few days, you figure “ this isn’t too HARD…” then by days, 4-7 your like “this is not easy.”

And yes, after a week, it’s pretty much all you think about.

Control the orgasm, and you control the man.

100% Day 10 is an almost surreal experience. The last time I made it to day 10, first thing in the morning I walked into her home office naked and erect and asked her if she wanted to have sex. She loves when I do this kind of thing that shows I'm desperate for her attention and validation. She said she was busy and told me to get lost. I asked if I could at least kiss her feet, which annoyed her. She said that she had already told me to leave her alone and that she had better not have to tell me again. She said to go to the gym if I was feeling that wound up. So of course I did as I was told. It didn't help. I came home hornier than ever. I knocked on the door of her home office and asked if I could make her tea. She said yes. I got naked and hard again and served it to her. She really enjoyed this. I was hoping she would want to have sex when she saw how pumped up my muscles were from the gym, but she told me to go downstairs and maybe we could have sex after she got more work done. I went to the basement and couldn't think about anything but her. I went to one of her closets and stroked myself (which I am permitted to do as long as I don't come) while I kissed my favorite pair of her shoes. I did this for about an hour. Finally she came downstairs and allowed me to service her. I fucked her like a freight train until she came and then permitted me to explode.

This is what happens to me at the end of every one of these lengthy ejaculation cycles. My balls completely take over from my brain and I become even more obsessed with her than I normally am. She loves having this proof of my devotion and is amused by my travails -- plus she really enjoys the lusty fucking that I can administer when I am in this state. She says that we are never going back to a shorter retention cycle and not to even ask her about it. So, this will be the rhythm of my life from here on out.

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife denied me for seven weeks. It was really tough. I was so fucking horny, I couldn’t even stand it.

When she finally released me, she gave me the longest, slowest, most insane hand job. She put bands around the base of my cock and my balls.

It was outside by the pool, planes from the local airport were flying over (Altho I doubt they could’ve seen us), I heard our neighbors not too far off so we sort of had to be discreet.

She handjobbed me so slow, I thought I’d never come. For about 45 minutes I wasn’t even near the edge, but it felt so good. then she started going faster and getting me closer. She has gotten very good to know when I’m close, and then she will back off.

It was torturous.

one time I got so close, I thought I was going to cum so I told her. She did a walk away!

She must’ve felt sorry for me, because she came back after a few minutes of laughing (I was laughing too). She gave me about 10 more minutes and then finally when I was about to come, she took all pressure off and let my cock just flop around.

It was a fantastic, ruined orgasm!! Tons of cum! (I’m hard just writing this)…

I was gonna post the videos we made from it… maybe…

 

[watsit2ya69]

Mmmm....hot!!!!

 

[artslut86]

My wife denied me for seven weeks. It was really tough. I was so fucking horny, I couldn’t even stand it.

When she finally released me, she gave me the longest, slowest, most insane hand job. She put bands around the base of my cock and my balls.

It was outside by the pool, planes from the local airport were flying over (Altho I doubt they could’ve seen us), I heard our neighbors not too far off so we sort of had to be discreet.

She handjobbed me so slow, I thought I’d never come. For about 45 minutes I wasn’t even near the edge, but it felt so good. then she started going faster and getting me closer. She has gotten very good to know when I’m close, and then she will back off.

It was torturous.

one time I got so close, I thought I was going to cum so I told her. She did a walk away!

She must’ve felt sorry for me, because she came back after a few minutes of laughing (I was laughing too). She gave me about 10 more minutes and then finally when I was about to come, she took all pressure off and let my cock just flop around.

It was a fantastic, ruined orgasm!! Tons of cum! (I’m hard just writing this)…

I was gonna post the videos we made from it… maybe…

Love it. Thanks for sharing.