Are You Gay, Bi, Strait, or...

[Brinnie]

Many people are 100% gay or lesbian and are drawn sexually and emotionally only to partners of the same sex. Others are completely heterosexual, bonding in sexual and intimate relationships only with people of another sex.

But what about everybody else? A significant percentage of people do not fit neatly into either of these categories, because they experience sexual and emotional attractions and feelings for people of different genders at some point during their lives. For lack of a better term, they are called bisexuals, although, many people prefer to call themselves “pansexual”, “non – preferential”, “sexually fluid”, “ambisexual” or “omni – sexual”.​

 

[Wolfman1982]

Hi Brinnie I am bi.

 

[revolution724]

Just based on reading this board for a while, I think you'll find that it is overwhelmingly bi. I identify as lesbian, for lack of a better term, or queer. I've had sex with a man before, but rather wish I hadn't.

 

[KharisLeaf82]

Uhm. . .

I guess I am what some Lesbians derisively call, a Bisexual Straight Woman. Women give me orgasms, but they also give me headaches. I am somewhat involved (Naughty Kharis!) with a very yummy, very inellegent Bisexual Straight Man... It's always nice when you can BOTH stare at Christian Bale and say, I'd hit that.

*Kharis*

 

[toy!]

Hi Brinnie

I'm lesbian .. although I have had a couple of men encounters, in a past life *shudder*

 

[12to8]

Good thread Brinnie and one timely one for me. I'm....straight.....bi.....who the hell knows.

For the past 10 years I've had desires and as time goes on I'm trying to get to the finish line.

But, here's my point, the Phila. Inquirer the other day had an article about the study of "Is There Really a Bi-Sexual Life?". It was all bla, bla, bla. I can't get over the fact that it seems to be as clear as "pull your eyes out of your head and your blind"!

Why can't it be, "yea, I drive a Chevy but I really like the power of a Caddy, I wear t-shirts but I love the feel of a silk shirt on my body, I eat tofu but every other Sat. night I devoure a steak, I love the fell of my wifes flesh against mine but I really would dig a dick in my mouth.

Looking into personals to find an avenue for my desires I feel that, and this is only my perspective, the swing scean is homophobic. I read 99.9 % of the adds...the woman is bi and the man is straight. Awk...who writting these ads?

My point, I think, is first you have to ask, "Who Wants To Be Honest".

That's why I enjoy the Lit site. I've seen a lot of honest posts.

 

[zartol]

Bi

I am bi and very comfortable with that. For about 20 years or so I thought I was different... now I think I'm 'normal'.

 

[Hooper_X]

Other

 

[april-wine]

While I did have relationships with men I always KNEW it wasn't fulfilling to me....I am in a relationship with a woman, it is eveything I have ALWAYS needed....I am lesbian 100%.....

 

[pookies]

 

[QueryGirl]

Interesting reply, 12to8.

I'm a bi female. The sort of bi that means I really dig looking at, tasting, and feeling the softness of another woman in my arms, but also the sort who thinks she'll only ever share major life moments with a male.

Of course, I just may not have found the right woman yet. <grin> Deity knows, I've had relationships with plenty of men who were emotional screwballs who made me want to pull my (or better yet, their!) hair out.

I really believe there are plenty of sane women with whom I could get along in a lifemate sort of capacity. I've just not found her.

'course, it would be exceedingly difficult (for me) to give up penises. Especially fond of the one I'm playing with now.... <sigh>

Oh, and now you've gone and got me all muddled. I'm bi. I think.

QG

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I classify myself as polysexual. It isn't what you have that makes me want you, it's what you can do for me in a sexual way...gender has nothing to do with it...

 

[Pyro Paul]

although im straight.

in the psychology world. you have varying degrees of homosexuality and heterosexuality.

i forget the exact thing i have it some where in my notes some where. but you have a 7 step scale. if your 0 your strictly heterosexual if your 7 your strictly homosexual, basicly it measures the degrees of your homo/heter sexuality.

it basicly asks, does the thought of it turn you on(with or with out you)? do you Think about it being done to you? does the thought of watching it in person turn you on? are you willing to Do it yourself? for each side of sex and then places you on the chart.

in truth there are next to No 100% homo/heterosexual people in this day and age. even if you have a heterosexual guy, married, with kids, perfectly loves his wife and loves his hetrosexual life, he may think about homosexual sex every once and a while just out of curiousity, that never means that he will acctualy act opon it.

 

[damnstupididiot]

What do I vote for if I'm an asexual lesbian: Gay or other?

 

[Fenikkusu]

What do I vote for if I'm an asexual lesbian: Gay or other?

Are you Micheal Jackson?

I don't approve of labels especially when it comes to sexuality.

 

[waitingforyou]

Hey - I think this is a great idea for a thread.

I don't think anyone is 100% straight... Everyone has thoughts of people of the same sex at some point in their life.

I'm happily Bi

 

[Ricwilly]

I'm a sexual being. I don't care for labels, I know who I like when I come across them, no pun intended.
I've had sex with males and females.
I don't think my sexuality is set in stone, it's more fluid, meaning that I like different things at different times.

 

[damnstupididiot]

Are you Micheal Jackson?

Damn! How did you find out? Now I gotta get a new name.

 

[chrk1]

where is the line you cross between str8 and bi, or between bi and gay? some guys call themselves bi, but they like kissing, cuddeling, {?}. i personally, am not attracted to other guys. i don't want to kiss them. i do not care about any of the affection. all i want is what their genitals can do for me. when i want affection to go along with the sex, i'll take a woman every time. so you make up your own mind which catagory i fit into. first, second, third, or none of the above.

 

[Nordic man]

bi-sexual here I love both sexes

 

[bicuriousosaur]

I'm bi. I fanasties about being fucked by a guy while having sex with a girl. And, i am attracted to both.

 

[pegasuswrites2]

I have been with two different guys now (Not counting a few episodes as a teenager). Both of these experiences are very recent. I'm still not sure to what extent I am bi-sexual, but I must admit that I truly enjoy playing with a penis other than just my own, and of course I enjoy being pleasured by another guy.

I find it difficult to explain completely, but there is just something about feeling, seeing, and hearing another guy cum and knowing that I am directly responsible for the pleasure that he is experiencing.

 

[cymrocock]

I said other...

because I've recently started fantasising about transsexuals, all of my previous sexual experiences and fantasies have been straight, i.e. with and about women.

 

[lonelysmile]

I identify as straight, but I said other, b/c really I'm questioning at this moment in my life.

I think I've spent so many years telling myself I'm straight that it's hard to let go of... I think I'm bi or lesbian, but I'm not 100% (or even 50%) sure yet. I find women increadibly attractive and catch myself noticing women more than men.

As for my friends... they're pretty much all gay. I have a few straight friends here and there, but most of them are gay/lesbian/bisexual.

Great poll, thanks.

 

[bimori]

I'm bi I guess that means that I just love to fuck everyone .