Bottoms: do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked?

This question came up in another thread. I am always soft while my girlfriend fucks me and someone said that this is normal. Is it normal? For you bottoms, do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked? Bonus question, do you cum from being fucked?
Not a bottom, although I have a few times for the right person, I am more of a top and in times I remember my bottoms being hard, soft and semi-erect so I guess the answer is different for the person. I did have one lover who did cum a few time but those times if I remember correctly we were fucking face to face and my body was moving across his cock so I think it may have been the friction and not just the act of fucking that caused that but who knows.

Now for myself as I said the times I bottomed were very infrequent but I do remember shooting my load without touching myself as my cock swung back and forth with his thrusts and it only happened one time so don't know what that means LOL.
 
I may start out hard, but then go soft and leak like crazy, but a little smack to my ass and my cock twinges a little like it was woke up lol and if things are getting really vocal I tend to start getting hard again, so I am sure that's the mental side of things, or if he touches it tends to start to get hard again, I have had one full on no touching orgasim was amazing, and been close a few other times but took just a couple strokes and I would cum good and hard
 
I anm 6 inches hard but I also get soft once he starts fucking me and then it gets very small. Several tops have commented that is nothing more than a clit.
That's how I am too. My girlfriend has no complaints either because she doesn't want to see my cock. Just my ass!
 
It's almost as though they need to see the bottom as female in some way.
They like the bottom being male but feminine and submissive while he is masculine and superior. No question when he is fucking my smooth pink hole who the alpha is.
 
They like the bottom being male but feminine and submissive while he is masculine and superior. No question when he is fucking my smooth pink hole who the alpha is.
No question with my girl either. She just takes my hole and uses it. I must admit I do feel feminine and submissive while she is masculine and dominant. Of course we both like it like that!
 
I go out of my way to be feminine with my tops. I wear a thong, light makeup, paint my toes pink (I have small hairless feet).. love missionary and point my toes as I rub my feet up against his body. Love to French kiss as he is going balls deep in me. Kiss his hairy body. Lots of eye contact as I tell him how good he feels.
 
I go out of my way to be feminine with my tops. I wear a thong, light makeup, paint my toes pink (I have small hairless feet).. love missionary and point my toes as I rub my feet up against his body. Love to French kiss as he is going balls deep in me. Kiss his hairy body. Lots of eye contact as I tell him how good he feels.
Lucky you! Even though my girl is very affectionate out of bed, in bed there is no eye contact. She likes it doggy or spooning and she doesn't want me to say anything. She allows me to say, "Oh baby!" or "Fuck me!" but that's it.

I sometimes think she doesn't like to think of herself fucking a man with her cock even though that's exactly what she is doing. It's almost like she is using my hole to jerk off with.
 
You have a different but nice dynamic with her. When my top is in me and I start whispering “fuck me” as I make eye contact serves as a trigger. The fucking almost always gets harder at that point. It becomes animalistic at that point.
 
You have a different but nice dynamic with her. When my top is in me and I start whispering “fuck me” as I make eye contact serves as a trigger. The fucking almost always gets harder at that point. It becomes animalistic at that point.
She loves it if I am moaning like it's really hurting me. If she has been drinking and she is horny but having a difficult time getting hard, I will moan and grunt as though I am in pain. That will get her hard and then she can fuck me. Of course I am not really in pain lol. I am just being a good wife to my horny husband!
 
Some tops are nervous when they start fucking. You have to get them relaxed and get them focused on fucking my hole and cumming.
 
Some tops are nervous when they start fucking. You have to get them relaxed and get them focused on fucking my hole and cumming.
It must be interesting dealing with different people and learning how they tick sexually.

With me, it's just her and I know her so well by now that I can always get her hard and get her off. In fact sometimes too well! There have been a few times when she has cum as soon as got her cock in my ass. She is embarrassed then but I tell her it's fine - she was just too excited!
 
Back
Top