Erections for male bottoms

[mtsnowrider]

Had a friend years ago who refused to believe that I enjoyed being fucked because I lost my erection when I bottomed for him. (He also refused to kiss, but that's a different issue)

 

[Astroman72]

Never taken a real cock, but when I ride a full-size dildo I'm always rock hard and I make myself cum while riding.

 

[write_or_wrong]

Never taken a real cock, but when I ride a full-size dildo I'm always rock hard and I make myself cum while riding.

When you do that, is someone else operating the dildo? Or do you hold it? Or maybe you use one of those suction cup devices?

 

[Astroman72]

When you do that, is someone else operating the dildo? Or do you hold it? Or maybe you use one of those suction cup devices?

I have one of those torso dolls that you can ride hands-free, similar to this:

https://www.sextorso.com/product/4lbflesh-male-torso-sexdoll-with-huge-dildo/

But you can ride a regular dildo in pretty much the same way. Once you get a couple inches in, you can let go and just go up and down on it.

 

[write_or_wrong]

Well that looks like fun!

 

[Deleted member 5476586]

I’ve bottomed for many men over the years. I usually get hard, and finish with a no-hands prostate orgasm. You can hsve one of those without being especially hard.

 

[Escierto]

I’ve bottomed for many men over the years. I usually get hard, and finish with a no-hands prostate orgasm. You can hsve one of those without being especially hard.

Good for you!

 

[Uncut1969]

I stay soft when getting fucked but I leak a lot of precum and often cum hands free while never getting hard

That has to feel and look amazing

 

[Cardinal]

Never hard, always enjoyable

 

[saintcero]

Limp, leaking and I love it. My limp clitty just wiggles and jiggles with every thrust my Top delivers. And it leaks so much precum too.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I’ve bottomed for many men over the years. I usually get hard, and finish with a no-hands prostate orgasm. You can hsve one of those without being especially hard.

I was nineteen. He was fifty-two. And my first Gentleman was amused to see that I was always erect even as we got undressed for sex, simply in anticipation of my getting fucked, and that I stayed erect as he entered me. I would usually ejaculate spontaneously, hands-free, as he fucked me, simply due to the way that being deep-fucked caused my own genitals to sway rhythmically and slap up against my stomach... and long before he orgasmed deep inside me.

 

[Escierto]

I was nineteen. He was fifty-two. And my first Gentleman was amused to see that I was always erect even as we got undressed for sex, simply in anticipation of my getting fucked, and that I stayed erect as he entered me. I would usually ejaculate spontaneously, hands-free, as he fucked me, simply due to the way that being deep-fucked caused my own genitals to sway rhythmically and slap up against my stomach... and long before he orgasmed deep inside me.

Has your staying hard and ejaculating as you are being fucked continued to the present?

 

[tristantrotsky]

Has your staying hard and ejaculating as you are being fucked continued to the present?

I'm happy to say that it has. Thank you for asking.

 

[Nadinet]

If i dress en femme for a guy , im always soft/semi, if i dress for myself or the mrs im stiff...

 

[Swuchrow]

Limp, leaking and I love it. My limp clitty just wiggles and jiggles with every thrust my Top delivers. And it leaks so much precum too.

Same here. I stay limp with precum unless my top jerks me off. I have cum hands free on occasion but my clit stays soft while drooling cum.

 

[Escierto]

I'm happy to say that it has. Thank you for asking.

Well, good for you!

 

[Travisspank]

I usually don’t maintain a hard on when I’m taking a cock. I am hard during foreplay and especially while sucking, but typically lose it eventually when I’m getting fucked. There have been a few times where I’ve stayed hard the whole time though. I think for me mentally my cock just shuts off when he slides it inside me, maybe because it’s my ass that is his real object of desire, or because I am focusing more on the pleasure my ass is feeling from the hard cock inside it.

 

[Terrylipstick]

I usually don’t maintain a hard on when I’m taking a cock. I am hard during foreplay and especially while sucking, but typically lose it eventually when I’m getting fucked. There have been a few times where I’ve stayed hard the whole time though. I think for me mentally my cock just shuts off when he slides it inside me, maybe because it’s my ass that is his real object of desire, or because I am focusing more on the pleasure my ass is feeling from the hard cock inside it.

I’m going to/planning to have that same type of experience this afternoon. Strip down and make out with him, my hard cock against his…. Drop down and duck his big hard cock while mine stiffens… crawl between his legs on the bed, suck his cock and rim his perfect ass… and then when he positions me to mount me, I’ll go soft and stay that way through the phenomenal fucking he’s sure to give me… I may cum, I may not, but he will fuck me into another dimension and l don’t care if I’m hard or not…. My pleasure will come from his pleasure…. I can’t wait to feel him inside of me and to lick his cum from my fingers or right from his source

 

[VerbalAbuse]

I have written a longer story about a bottom character who doesn't get hard and seldom cums. I kept it somewhat ambiguous about what the character makes of it, though his/her top friend has a theory.

 

[drobert44]

Before I had radiation treatment for prostate cancer, I was always hard when getting my ass fucked. I would leak pre-cum like crazy and would frequently have powerful orgasms from prostate stimulation. Since the treatment, I do occasionally still get an erection when I'm being fucked, but mostly I remain flaccid. I can no longer have an orgasm from prostate stimulation. It sucks, but I still love being fucked in the ass.

I was always limp when my gay top fucked me...

 

[drobert44]

I’m going to/planning to have that same type of experience this afternoon. Strip down and make out with him, my hard cock against his…. Drop down and duck his big hard cock while mine stiffens… crawl between his legs on the bed, suck his cock and rim his perfect ass… and then when he positions me to mount me, I’ll go soft and stay that way through the phenomenal fucking he’s sure to give me… I may cum, I may not, but he will fuck me into another dimension and l don’t care if I’m hard or not…. My pleasure will come from his pleasure…. I can’t wait to feel him inside of me and to lick his cum from my fingers or right from his source

I always had my top pull out when fucking me so I could swallow all of his cum.

 

[Terrylipstick]

It’s the best of both worlds

 

[rogerd200]

I am usually rock hard when a man fucks me. Sometimes he reaches around to give my cock a stroke or two but I never touch myself during the act for two reasons: I'll probably trigger my own orgasm and when he's inside me it's all about him. Getting fucked is pleasure enough. What's brutally hard is to maintain control when other men are there fondling my balls or stroking my cock.

 

[CuriousMature]

I am always rock hard with a toy or cock and have handsfree orgasms, which are mind blowing!

 

[SCRob95060]

I am usually rock hard when a man fucks me. Sometimes he reaches around to give my cock a stroke or two but I never touch myself during the act for two reasons: I'll probably trigger my own orgasm and when he's inside me it's all about him. Getting fucked is pleasure enough. What's brutally hard is to maintain control when other men are there fondling my balls or stroking my cock.

Yes it is brutally hard to maintain control when others are watching, commenting and touching me. I really like the challenge of trying to hold back my orgasm in the midst of being fucked, fondled and spoken to. Talking while I’m being fucked is a challenge.