Is it inevitable for a bottom to feel feminine?

[Samantha47]

Almost every top I see is married and not getting satisfied by their wives. They enjoy fem acting bottoms.

I enjoy being a fem bottom with men because I need it to balance my daily alpha life. I have watched regular porn and mimic how females respond to their man as they pleasure their male partner. I am not just fem acting but I embrace the “slut” that my tops rarely or never experience with their wives.

I am also a smaller guy at 5’8”, 155, smallish cock and feet. I have found that my older tops like smaller bottoms.

It becomes a natural match for me and my tops for different reasons and needs.

Yes they do love small bottoms like me too

 

[Baddad2004]

In the moment I can feel very submissive but I don’t really consider myself to be fem

 

[Bi4Older84]

In the moment I can feel very submissive but I don’t really consider myself to be fem

I agree-I think that there is a false equivalence of submissive being feminine and dominant being a masculine trait.

I like to feel submissive and I like to feel like a "slut," but those feelings can exist outside of preconceived gender roles/norms.

I do think that it's easier for a "str8" or heteroflexible top to play with someone that they perceive to be "femme." However, for lots of guys, it's the masculinity and maleness of two men being together that holds the appeal.

 

[SPARTAN047]

These are all usually very individual feelings.

I suppose if someone doesn't dress up in feminine clothes they want to be bottom and fucked, but not feminized.

 

[Travler99921]

I have been a bottom only 3 times, and each time it made me feel feminine. The feeling lasted about a month. My wife knew about my activities with men. She noted several changes in me. I wanted to wear panties. I wanted her to be in charge when we had sex. We more openly discussed my changing sexuality. In a strange way we felt more bonded because we were more open with each other.

 

[Escierto]

These are all usually very individual feelings.

I suppose if someone doesn't dress up in feminine clothes they want to be bottom and fucked, but not feminized.

I never have the desire to wear feminine clothing but I love being a bottom for my girl. To the extent that I am her woman in bed, I am feminized but that's it.

 

[saintcero]

A new Top took me for the first time yesterday. His cock was large enough and hard enough that I still feel some leftovers this morning. It’s a curious feeling. Not pain but just a reminder that something happen and your butt isn’t the same as before. While I have been thinking of all that took place yesterday, I do believe that there is a touch of femininity in my thinking of being fucked yesterday. I am aware of my butt much more, I like the feeling that somebody used my ass for pleasure. I am proud of what I was able to give. I enjoyed knowing that my man unloaded his cum in me (orally) when his need took him over. I wiggle just a bit more this morning and I’m already wondering when I can have him again. Most of all, it feels good to be somebody’s bitch again. He already told me he wants more and I’m going to make sure he gets it.

 

[Busy54]

A new Top took me for the first time yesterday. His cock was large enough and hard enough that I still feel some leftovers this morning. It’s a curious feeling. Not pain but just a reminder that something happen and your butt isn’t the same as before. While I have been thinking of all that took place yesterday, I do believe that there is a touch of femininity in my thinking of being fucked yesterday. I am aware of my butt much more, I like the feeling that somebody used my ass for pleasure. I am proud of what I was able to give. I enjoyed knowing that my man unloaded his cum in me (orally) when his need took him over. I wiggle just a bit more this morning and I’m already wondering when I can have him again. Most of all, it feels good to be somebody’s bitch again. He already told me he wants more and I’m going to make sure he gets it.

Very well said, I love that next day feeling!