Straight guys who like gay sex

[SPARTAN047]

Yes, it is very difficult. I chatted and camed with hundreds of girls.

And good for you, I'd've given up by the third.

 

[Escierto]

And good for you, I'd've given up by the third.

No, you can't give up. It is very difficult and time consuming but worth it.

 

[SPARTAN047]

No, you can't give up. It is very difficult and time consuming but worth it.

The consistent rejections and rudeness can get to you.

 

[Escierto]

The consistent rejections and rudeness can get to you.

I know what you are saying, believe me. I think the most delicate topic you can bring up with a trans girl is top, vers or bottom.

I understand that there is more to someone than this but is there any chance for a successful relationship with two bottoms or two tops? It's best to get that issue resolved first and then move on to other things.

The best were people who stated in their profiles if they were top, vers or bottom. But as I have said nearly ALL of the girls who say they are vers have never actually topped.

I tried that once with the girl I spent a week with in Hong Kong. She got years worth of fucking out of her system but at heart she was a bottom. I fucked her twice and that was the most enthusiastic she was all week. Still, she gave it a try and then I never heard from her again!!

 

[KinkStevens]

I’m sexually bi. I like what others have said, if you’re sucking dick, getting your dick sucked by a guy or getting fucked you aren’t what I would call straight . You can be 95/5 sucking cock only on New Years eves , but youre still an ocasional dicksucker. Have fun

 

[SPARTAN047]

I know what you are saying, believe me. I think the most delicate topic you can bring up with a trans girl is top, vers or bottom.

I understand that there is more to someone than this but is there any chance for a successful relationship with two bottoms or two tops? It's best to get that issue resolved first and then move on to other things.

The best were people who stated in their profiles if they were top, vers or bottom. But as I have said nearly ALL of the girls who say they are vers have never actually topped.

I tried that once with the girl I spent a week with in Hong Kong. She got years worth of fucking out of her system but at heart she was a bottom. I fucked her twice and that was the most enthusiastic she was all week. Still, she gave it a try and then I never heard from her again!!

Yes, that's always best when people are upfront or sometimes can introduce you to others. Two bottoms and two tops won't work, maybe two versatiles.

I assume they put versatile to get more replies.

Sorry to hear that, I've been ghosted so many times too I'm (^!($()B^ sick and tired of it.

 

[Escierto]

Yes, that's always best when people are upfront or sometimes can introduce you to others. Two bottoms and two tops won't work, maybe two versatiles.

I assume they put versatile to get more replies.

Sorry to hear that, I've been ghosted so many times too I'm (^!($()B^ sick and tired of it.

Actually it was fine that she ghosted me. After that I looked for a pure top only. No more versa girls!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Actually it was fine that she ghosted me. After that I looked for a pure top only. No more versa girls!

Yes, I suppose it doesn't matter when you're not each other's type anyway. I'm oversensitive to these things so I'd still be hurt.

 

[Escierto]

Yes, I suppose it doesn't matter when you're not each other's type anyway. I'm oversensitive to these things so I'd still be hurt.

Yes, you do have to have a thick skin in order to continue with the search. It would have been nice to hear from her afterwards since she did have her dick in my ass 20 times lol.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Yes, you do have to have a thick skin in order to continue with the search. It would have been nice to hear from her afterwards since she did have her dick in my ass 20 times lol.

I did my best to develop a thick skin and never succeeded, as I found out, so my best solution would be to perhaps take care of who I date or don't.

That's true, if you have someone's cock in your ass or fucked someone over 10 times I'd say they deserve a courtesy text and goodbye shag.

 

[Escierto]

I did my best to develop a thick skin and never succeeded, as I found out, so my best solution would be to perhaps take care of who I date or don't.

That's true, if you have someone's cock in your ass or fucked someone over 10 times I'd say they deserve a courtesy text and goodbye shag.

A courtesy text lol. Hump and dump.

 

[SPARTAN047]

A courtesy text lol. Hump and dump.

That's the state of today's commitment. We can only expect the bare minimum.

Ejaculate and evacuate.

 

[Escierto]

That's the state of today's commitment. We can only expect the bare minimum.

Ejaculate and evacuate.

Oy veh.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Oy veh.

Smash and dash.

C'est la vie.

 

[cdstefi]

Hump and dump. Fuck and chuck. Etc

 

[SPARTAN047]

Wham, bam, thank you ma'am.

Hit and quit.

Plough and go.

Nail and bail.

Screw and flew. (I made that up.)

 

[DickandDoof]

One of the complicated things about sexual feelings is that for many of us they are constantly evolving. A label may just be a description of how we feel at a particular moment and a useless guide to where we will be a month from now, a year from now, five years from now….

To be more specific, for much of my life I called myself heterosexual because I was only interested in, fantasised about, and had sex with women. But as I grew older and became addicted to online porn (which has had an incredible effect on my changing sexuality) I started developing an interest in and ultimately craved cocks. Huge cocks in my fantasies and smaller, more comfortable cocks in my realities. I had never before seen a black, Asian or uncircumcised cock. But I still found myself attracted to some women, many of whom were trans, so I called myself bisexual.

Now I am only attracted to men and their cocks. I feel that what I’ve been on is a long journey from heterosexual to homosexual, with a few pitstops at bisexuality along the way. BUT and this is the point of my post, this is just the way I feel today. There may be more twists and turns further along my journey. So I say to the OP, don’t box yourself in and become overly hung up on catchy labels. Who you are today may not be who you will be tomorrow. So continue to want what you want, need what you need, and crave what you crave. Feelings are much more important than labels.

 

[tristantrotsky]

One of the complicated things about sexual feelings is that for many of us they are constantly evolving. A label may just be a description of how we feel at a particular moment and a useless guide to where we will be a month from now, a year from now, five years from now….

To be more specific, for much of my life I called myself heterosexual because I was only interested in, fantasised about, and had sex with women. But as I grew older and became addicted to online porn (which has had an incredible effect on my changing sexuality) I started developing an interest in and ultimately craved cocks. Huge cocks in my fantasies and smaller, more comfortable cocks in my realities. I had never before seen a black, Asian or uncircumcised cock. But I still found myself attracted to some women, many of whom were trans, so I called myself bisexual.

Now I am only attracted to men and their cocks. I feel that what I’ve been on is a long journey from heterosexual to homosexual, with a few pitstops at bisexuality along the way. BUT and this is the point of my post, this is just the way I feel today. There may be more twists and turns further along my journey. So I say to the OP, don’t box yourself in and become overly hung up on catchy labels. Who you are today may not be who you will be tomorrow. So continue to want what you want, need what you need, and crave what you crave. Feelings are much more important than labels.

Flexi-sexual is a wonderful way to be.
But we should all just stop worrying, and just enjoy being what we are.

 

[Japansurfer]

Stop thinking about labels and just do it feels good. Being pleasured through anal is amazing, you should try real dick sometimes

Old post but this is so true

 

[Burstplayer]

Well I'm a 2 (out of 6) on the Kinsey Scale Test. I'm not attracted to men at ALL, but I do love cocks, cum and things in my ass. I bottom only on anal and really only want to give oral. I suppose that's BI, by definition. But I feel absolutely zero attraction to guys at all. Just the associated sex acts that are very specific for me.

 

[subbyclarajane]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

I know this query is super old, but it just showed up in my thread jumping so adding my voice - it sounds like you're heteroromantic but bisexual. This is well-established in non-binary and trans communities where we have a lot of additional flavors of relationships. (Don't get me started on a queer platonic relationship).

I'm homoromantic and pansexual. I'd get busy with anyone that's clean, kind, and wants to devour me. But I only feel romance with women. Anyway, yeah there are labels. (There are labels for everything). But I hope you aren't allowing anyone to invalidate you, whether you find a label or not. You do what you do, and that's enough to prove your flavor is in the cookbook.

 

[Roark098]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

You're most certainly not straight in the strictest sense of the term, but you aren't gay either. And while bisexual is the obvious go to in your situation, I'd say you're probably along the spectrum of sexually fluid. Romantically you're clearly straight. Many men who enjoy fetishistic m2m encounters like to play but have no interest in anything beyond that. There isn't an emotion al, all encompassing connection. Either way, just enjoy your life and its more than usual opportunities.

 

[Escierto]

You're most certainly not straight in the strictest sense of the term, but you aren't gay either. And while bisexual is the obvious go to in your situation, I'd say you're probably along the spectrum of sexually fluid. Romantically you're clearly straight. Many men who enjoy fetishistic m2m encounters like to play but have no interest in anything beyond that. There isn't an emotion al, all encompassing connection. Either way, just enjoy your life and its more than usual opportunities.

We definitely have a lot of emotion - my trans girlfriend and I. We are lovers in every sense of the word. In our sexual activities there is no physical difference between us and a gay male couple. I suck her or she fucks my ass. For her I am quite happy to wear the gay label or any other label.

 

[SPARTAN047]

A courtesy text lol. Hump and dump.

That's the state of today's commitment. We can only expect the bare minimum.

Ejaculate and evacuate.

Smash and dash.

C'est la vie.

Hump and dump. Fuck and chuck. Etc

Wham, bam, thank you ma'am.

Hit and quit.

Plough and go.

Nail and bail.

Screw and flew. (I made that up.)

I finally found that video of the different alternative terms people made up for 'wham, bam, thank you ma'am'.

Here are the rest.

Inseminate and relocate.
Release the white and leave the site.
Hit the seed and then proceed.
Release the load then hit the road.
Release the goo then yaba daba doo. (Loved this one.)
Put the genetic information and leave the nation.
Nut in the cooter and escape on the scooter.

 

[Escierto]

I guess I should be flattered that she sticks around after she cums in my ass. Usually falls asleep immediately afterwards.