Bottoms: do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked?

[Jordanjack]

Never experienced a real cock in my ass, but whenever I fuck my dildos I’m soft. My cock leaks like mad though.

 

[ToniTot]

if im watching porn, i do get semi hard,but when im dressed up and being the submissive gurl i love being my clit stays soft and about 2 in. but i do cum..

 

[Terrylipstick]

Nice. With a cock in your mouth and ass, it's perfectly understandable you shot off all over the bed while lost in bliss.

I've not taken many cocks in my tight ass, but I've always been super turned on, and rock hard when I have. I hate to waste cum, so I try to be riding my stud cowgirl, and shoot off all over his heaving chest when I cum. But to be selfish, gonna say it's such a good way to cum being fucked doggy style, bucking your ass back onto your lover's cock, and shooting off while his cock pumps and rubs your P-spot.

You sound like a slut after my own heart

 

[DirkPitt06]

Ive been experimenting lately, online, and while no one has taken me anally yet, I find myself curious about it.

 

[1960curious]

Both depends! If I am on my back and I stroke my cock while I watch him fuck me. I am hard.

If he fucks me from behind, I am usally semi hard to the softer side. It still feels so fucking good either way!

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

There is also a lot of stimulation going on down there and a lot of concentration on relaxing, contracting etc. when your dick gets hard it seems that all thoughts turn toward it, and wanting to get off. When I have a man inside me he’s the priority, not me.

This is part of the reason MM sex can be advantageous for the top. He need not worry about pleasing the receptive partner the way most women want to be pleased. Someone like me is happy to get them off either orally or by receiving him anally. If I get to cum during the session, so be it. Although usually I strive to avoid it. I find my senses are more aroused that way.

So, those of you who are straight(ish) or semi bi, or maybe in a sexless relationship, find a good bottom guy and use him well! It will fulfill needs for both of you.

That helps clarify things for me.
As a top I love that dominant/submissive connection but I have always felt a bit guilty that I’m the only one receiving pleasure…. all but two of my experiences with guys have been oral but in all the hookups I’ve had over the past seven years (maybe around twenty) the other guy has cum maybe three or four times, and then almost reluctantly after I ask them to and tell them it turns me on when they cum.
With women it’s always been my way to ensure their pleasure before achieving mine… from what I’m reading here (and I’m really loving all these posts), typically a bottom guy receives much more pleasure from giving pleasure than being stroked and pleasured… I’ll do my best to overcome my catholic guilt and just go with the flow lol.
Odd question, but am I denying pleasure by being too considerate?

 

[klippert]

That helps clarify things for me.
As a top I love that dominant/submissive connection but I have always felt a bit guilty that I’m the only one receiving pleasure…. all but two of my experiences with guys have been oral but in all the hookups I’ve had over the past seven years (maybe around twenty) the other guy has cum maybe three or four times, and then almost reluctantly after I ask them to and tell them it turns me on when they cum.
With women it’s always been my way to ensure their pleasure before achieving mine… from what I’m reading here (and I’m really loving all these posts), typically a bottom guy receives much more pleasure from giving pleasure than being stroked and pleasured… I’ll do my best to overcome my catholic guilt and just go with the flow lol.
Odd question, but am I denying pleasure by being too considerate?

Pleasuremodeloneten, If you start worrying about pleasuring's a bottom/sub or not, You will start having performance anxieties.

2wayroad is right :
"Top need not worry about pleasing a receptive partner (bottom) ". Especially if we're married in a sexless marriage [sic]

"So, those of you who are straight(ish) or semi bi, or maybe in a sexless relationship, find a good bottom guy and use him well! It will fulfill needs for both of you."

 

[Missmister]

This question came up in another thread. I am always soft while my girlfriend fucks me and someone said that this is normal. Is it normal? For you bottoms, do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked? Bonus question, do you cum from being fucked?

Yes.

 

[Escierto]

That helps clarify things for me.
As a top I love that dominant/submissive connection but I have always felt a bit guilty that I’m the only one receiving pleasure…. all but two of my experiences with guys have been oral but in all the hookups I’ve had over the past seven years (maybe around twenty) the other guy has cum maybe three or four times, and then almost reluctantly after I ask them to and tell them it turns me on when they cum.
With women it’s always been my way to ensure their pleasure before achieving mine… from what I’m reading here (and I’m really loving all these posts), typically a bottom guy receives much more pleasure from giving pleasure than being stroked and pleasured… I’ll do my best to overcome my catholic guilt and just go with the flow lol.
Odd question, but am I denying pleasure by being too considerate?

Yes, go with the flow. Consideration is always nice of course but speaking for myself, I like it when my top just does what she wants without even thinking about me or my pleasure. My pleasure is her pleasure!

 

[Purple_guy19]

When I watch Cis Women get fucked, it’s like I’m semi hard while being fucked if we cum at same time I get hard.

 

[lorrinlace]

always soft and limp

 

[MarieChalice]

Dear tops,
If you imagine I am having any less pleasure than you, please disabuse yourselves. Hard or soft, my cock is irrelevant to me.
Nevertheless, if you are any good, I am getting far more pleasure than you can dream of.
Not that I don't want you to have a great cum because that is part of my pleasure too.
Hope that helps?
Kisses, Marie

 

[Escierto]

Dear tops,
If you imagine I am having any less pleasure than you, please disabuse yourselves. Hard or soft, my cock is irrelevant to me.
Nevertheless, if you are any good, I am getting far more pleasure than you can dream of.
Not that I don't want you to have a great cum because that is part of my pleasure too.
Hope that helps?
Kisses, Marie

Exactly right.

 

[htobeme5]

Dear tops,
If you imagine I am having any less pleasure than you, please disabuse yourselves. Hard or soft, my cock is irrelevant to me.
Nevertheless, if you are any good, I am getting far more pleasure than you can dream of.
Not that I don't want you to have a great cum because that is part of my pleasure too.
Hope that helps?
Kisses, Marie

Like soft and hard leaking cock. I like feeling possibly impregnated.

 

[saintcero]

I get soft on penetration and I continue to contract the longer I am fucked. My balls pull up tight to my body and my clitty just flops and drips. I feel so receptive and needy. My boi pussy takes control at that point and my clitty and balls go into hiding

 

[Tomgoodbad]

This question came up in another thread. I am always soft while my girlfriend fucks me and someone said that this is normal. Is it normal? For you bottoms, do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked? Bonus question, do you cum from being fucked?

Well, I usually take viagra when I’m going to have M2M sex. So, with a bit of stimulation, there just IS going to be pretty good arousal. Others in the thread talk about erections coming and going during sex, but the pill takes most of that away.
Also, the first time I was fucked, it wasn’t totally comfortable. I was, and stayed, erect but was yelping with each thrust. I was so wrapped up in the mental part of it, I didn’t care if it hurt a little. Just being plowed like a little slut, feeling him fill me up and stretch my ass, was so intense, when he came in me, I immediately stroked myself off.
The second or third time we did it, I was way more relaxed and into it on a different level, with almost no discomfort. At one point he was on top on me, missionary position with my ankles on his shoulders, and I was kissing him and pulling him into
Me as deep as I could, and I began to cum hands free. Afterward I was just as aroused and scooping the cum with my fingers into my mouth and his. My erection continued as we fucked and when I began to cum a second time, he curled his body down and sucked me as I unloaded, and then cum kissed me. Both orgasms were total hands free and the most intense I’ve ever had, the source of the pleasure being centered my prostate and his thick cock plowing me, his glans rubbing across it with each stroke.

 

[drobert44]

Well, I usually take viagra when I’m going to have M2M sex. So, with a bit of stimulation, there just IS going to be pretty good arousal. Others in the thread talk about erections coming and going during sex, but the pill takes most of that away.
Also, the first time I was fucked, it wasn’t totally comfortable. I was, and stayed, erect but was yelping with each thrust. I was so wrapped up in the mental part of it, I didn’t care if it hurt a little. Just being plowed like a little slut, feeling him fill me up and stretch my ass, was so intense, when he came in me, I immediately stroked myself off.
The second or third time we did it, I was way more relaxed and into it on a different level, with almost no discomfort. At one point he was on top on me, missionary position with my ankles on his shoulders, and I was kissing him and pulling him into
Me as deep as I could, and I began to cum hands free. Afterward I was just as aroused and scooping the cum with my fingers into my mouth and his. My erection continued as we fucked and when I began to cum a second time, he curled his body down and sucked me as I unloaded, and then cum kissed me. Both orgasms were total hands free and the most intense I’ve ever had, the source of the pleasure being centered my prostate and his thick cock plowing me, his glans rubbing across it with each stroke.

Just perfect

 

[jakie69]

I get soft on penetration and I continue to contract the longer I am fucked. My balls pull up tight to my body and my clitty just flops and drips. I feel so receptive and needy. My boi pussy takes control at that point and my clitty and balls go into hiding

I know this feeling well, I’m usually soft and limp and focus more on the pleasure from my ass and ensuring my tops pleasure.

I usually cum from anal stimulation alone and don’t need to touch my little soft cock but some of my partners enjoy playing with it while they fuck me

 

[Biguy934]

Well, I usually take viagra when I’m going to have M2M sex. So, with a bit of stimulation, there just IS going to be pretty good arousal. Others in the thread talk about erections coming and going during sex, but the pill takes most of that away.
Also, the first time I was fucked, it wasn’t totally comfortable. I was, and stayed, erect but was yelping with each thrust. I was so wrapped up in the mental part of it, I didn’t care if it hurt a little. Just being plowed like a little slut, feeling him fill me up and stretch my ass, was so intense, when he came in me, I immediately stroked myself off.
The second or third time we did it, I was way more relaxed and into it on a different level, with almost no discomfort. At one point he was on top on me, missionary position with my ankles on his shoulders, and I was kissing him and pulling him into
Me as deep as I could, and I began to cum hands free. Afterward I was just as aroused and scooping the cum with my fingers into my mouth and his. My erection continued as we fucked and when I began to cum a second time, he curled his body down and sucked me as I unloaded, and then cum kissed me. Both orgasms were total hands free and the most intense I’ve ever had, the source of the pleasure being centered my prostate and his thick cock plowing me, his glans rubbing across it with each stroke.

That sounds amazing. Thats how i want my first experience to be. I want a guy to make me his sissy cum slut. Im so horny and ready for my ass to be someones toy. I get so hard just thinking about it.

 

[Danskos44]

Soft... all my focus and concentration is on the well lubricated cock sliding back and forth in my ass.... pushing back to meet his thrusts and squeezing his shaft with my sphincter muscle

 

[Escierto]

Soft... all my focus and concentration is on the well lubricated cock sliding back and forth in my ass.... pushing back to meet his thrusts and squeezing his shaft with my sphincter muscle

Me too!

 

[Catbit20]

My cock tends to go limp unless it's stimulated by a hand or mouth.

 

[BlueEyes1969]

Depends on how he is fucking me. If he hits the p-spot just the right way, I get hard and have shot cum hands free! Like others, most of the time I remain soft focusing on the sensations of being pumped and filled.

 

[panty_chap]

I don't get hard during anal play. A few times I have started to feel like I might, but I only do if there is other stimulation applied.

 

[Silvermen]

My dick stays mostly limp. One time my top had a long cock and was going deep. I got hard and came handsfree.