Why do older men become bi-curious?

[bicurioushusband]

older

I am a 67 yo man. I have been bicurious for probably 20 years. I did meet a guy in a parking lot a couple years ago and we felt each others cocks. The experience did nothing for me, maybe because of the environment we were in, maybe because I did not find his cock that exciting. I would still love to find a guy or couple to explore with. I want to try sucking cock so bad.

 

[ornyguy32]

I am a 67 yo man. I have been bicurious for probably 20 years. I did meet a guy in a parking lot a couple years ago and we felt each others cocks. The experience did nothing for me, maybe because of the environment we were in, maybe because I did not find his cock that exciting. I would still love to find a guy or couple to explore with. I want to try sucking cock so bad.

Same way here just thinking about it get me hard

 

[peter49parker]

I am a 67 yo man. I have been bicurious for probably 20 years. I did meet a guy in a parking lot a couple years ago and we felt each others cocks. The experience did nothing for me, maybe because of the environment we were in, maybe because I did not find his cock that exciting. I would still love to find a guy or couple to explore with. I want to try sucking cock so bad.

If you are anything like me, once you suck a cock, there will be no stopping. I was 65 when I tried it for the first time. No regrets.

 

[Harley55]

If you are anything like me, once you suck a cock, there will be no stopping. I was 65 when I tried it for the first time. No regrets.

Agree. How about why do older bicurious men become bisexual. I think that’s a better question. So many bicurious men never get the opportunity to take a chance a see if it’s as good as what you imagine. Well after probably 10 years of wondering I took the chance and I can now proudly say I’m no longer bicurious - I’m bisexual. So happy I am. Like peter49parker says, there’s no stopping me from wanting sex with a man.

 

[OldFred65]

If you are anything like me, once you suck a cock, there will be no stopping. I was 65 when I tried it for the first time. No regrets.

I couldn't agree more. I sucked my first cock in my early 40's and I haven't stopped or even slowed down in over 20 years since.

 

[01Harleyguy2020]

My take is probably the majority opinion...sexless marriage, erectile issues, my case is that I started sucking cock at a young age, and enjoy older men...I am 59...i have ED issues (working on them). Don't want a female to disappoint sexually (if i can't keep erect)
I do not mind sucking a soft cock, i am sure other guys feel the same way...and btw...lets chat about our experiences

 

[bicurioushusband]

older

I am 67. The older I get the more I think about cock. I love looking at pics of hard cocks, and chatting with curious guys about the things we would do with each other.

 

[n8Romantic]

I am a 67 yo man. I have been bicurious for probably 20 years. I did meet a guy in a parking lot a couple years ago and we felt each others cocks. The experience did nothing for me, maybe because of the environment we were in, maybe because I did not find his cock that exciting. I would still love to find a guy or couple to explore with. I want to try sucking cock so bad.

I totally agree, one has nothing to do with the other. The only commonality for me is giving my partner a pleasurable experience.

 

[CoronaExtra43]

Older and very curious

Definitely seems to be a common thread here. For me, I've been curious for many, many, years now. Just never had the nerve to act on it. But as I've gotten older, the desire has gotten stronger. And yes!! I'm in a sexless relationship myself!!

 

[flyingtinopener]

I suspect it happens when your wife begins to lose interest in sex, and having had bisexual experiences when younger which you enjoyed the thought returns. I have to admit that my first experiences of sex were bisexual, and have enjoyed them all my life, so a return to them is no great surprise. The thought of a regular pal/playmate has always been enticing, but so hard to find a pal you can trust, have had one or two, but not for a few years, but one can hope.

 

[mijbob79]

bi-curious

I find myself more and more wanting to suck a nice cock. My wife and I do not have sex much any more and I am looking for a release. I am more than willing to try my first time, maybe twice to see if I like it.

I just want to feel the thrill of taking the first cock in my mouth, to feel it getting hard as I suck it. To hear the noise that he makes as I do it. To feel his cock get harder and to have it fill me with his cum.

Getting hard just thinking about it.

 

[Wageslave]

Definitely seems to be a common thread here. For me, I've been curious for many, many, years now. Just never had the nerve to act on it. But as I've gotten older, the desire has gotten stronger. And yes!! I'm in a sexless relationship myself!!

That's very much the situation that I'm in just now

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I'll tell you

what I told Corona. I was shit scared before I sucked my first cock, but I forced myself to go through with it, even though I was in two minds. By the time I was sucking my third, I regarded it as a normal part of my sex life. The first step is the hardest.

 

[bottomshooter]

I don't know why. I do find women more aesthetically pleasing in terms of beauty but I find men much, much more sexually appealing the last few years. I have ED issues with my wife but I can cum many, many times in a day chatting, voice, and vid with men. No hardness issues with men.....hard, leaking, steel....sometimes I cum twice before I soften.

 

[bottomshooter]

Between my wife giving up on sex, my cock at best will get half hard at times(Not often), and jacking off when I can are my reasons for turning Bi. I was always a pussy lover, curious about cock all those years but never tried, and loved dressing fem. My main porn videos were of women getting fucked. My cock won't twitch to them anymore, but it will when I watch gay videos or solo masturbation. Still looking to hook up with someone someday.

I can only cum to gay sex as well.

 

[crazy4myhusband]

I don't know why. I do find women more aesthetically pleasing in terms of beauty but I find men much, much more sexually appealing the last few years. I have ED issues with my wife but I can cum many, many times in a day chatting, voice, and vid with men. No hardness issues with men.....hard, leaking, steel....sometimes I cum twice before I soften.

Very interesting! My husband can get soft with the guys but gets rock hard with the women but can orgasm like an entire brothel when anyone takes him anally. Even now that he enjoys all that we do with other bisexual couples he is still the same.

 

[Delawareguy]

I find myself more and more wanting to suck a nice cock. My wife and I do not have sex much any more and I am looking for a release.

Getting hard just thinking about it.

I share your desire to suck a cock. But are you saying the lack of sex with your wife makes you desire it (or desire it more) because you say you are "looking for a release"? I assume you mean you want to have an orgasm but if that is the case, why would you not be saying you want to have your cock sucked instead of wanting to suck a cock?

Yes, I do understand the excitement, arousal and eroticism of sucking a cock but the amount of sex I was having with my female partner never changed my interest or desire to do it, one way or the other. If I was fucking my wife every day I would still desire to suck a cock and I would not desire to do it more should we not be having any sex at all.

 

[Mb0754mm]

Bi guys

Hi guys, long time married guy here, and at 66 find myself very bicurious.
I think what’s attractive about it is, it’s quick and easy.
Have met guys and in half an hour time you are both done and walking out the door.
What lead me to this? Lack of sex with my wife. We used to be every dayers,then few times a week, then once a month. After her menopause she has no interest in sex.other then a hand job now and then. I’m glad to help her.
But I need to cum.. another women? No way too much work I say
Another married guy? Quick and easy.
One trouble I’ve noticed is guys tend to be one and done with you.
Wish I could find a regular..
Well anyhow I’m new here. Just finding my way around

 

[Fishing57]

Hi guys, long time married guy here, and at 66 find myself very bicurious.
I think what’s attractive about it is, it’s quick and easy.
Have met guys and in half an hour time you are both done and walking out the door.
What lead me to this? Lack of sex with my wife. We used to be every dayers,then few times a week, then once a month. After her menopause she has no interest in sex.other then a hand job now and then. I’m glad to help her.
But I need to cum.. another women? No way too much work I say
Another married guy? Quick and easy.
One trouble I’ve noticed is guys tend to be one and done with you.
Wish I could find a regular..
Well anyhow I’m new here. Just finding my way around

Interesting assessment. I peek over the fence of being curious. There is nothing going on at home anymore, just me and my hand! I agree women are to much work. But damn I miss pussy.

 

[peter49parker]

Hi guys, long time married guy here, and at 66 find myself very bicurious.
I think what’s attractive about it is, it’s quick and easy.
Have met guys and in half an hour time you are both done and walking out the door.
What lead me to this? Lack of sex with my wife. We used to be every dayers,then few times a week, then once a month. After her menopause she has no interest in sex.other then a hand job now and then. I’m glad to help her.
But I need to cum.. another women? No way too much work I say
Another married guy? Quick and easy.
One trouble I’ve noticed is guys tend to be one and done with you.
Wish I could find a regular..
Well anyhow I’m new here. Just finding my way around

First thing, welcum to Lit. Next. welcome to the bi-curious (and beyond curious) thread for older men. Your observations and assessment are pretty much spot on with what a lot of us have been, or are currently going through in our sex lives. Our wives have sworn off sex and we still need it. Another woman is out of the question for various reasons, like you said "too much work." Other married men like to roam about and get what they want and move on. There is nothing wrong with a 'blow-n-go' but having a regular is so much better for everyone. That way, once you find a safe and sane friend, you can both get what you want and need. I have had my share of 'one and done' over the past 6 years, but I also had a great time with a regular, for over 4 years. I used to visit him once a week during the winters that we spent in Florida. Unfortunately we sold our place. I had just found another guy that was fitting quite nicely into being a regular, when this pandemic struck. I am hoping to resume some sort of regular contact when it is safe to do so.

 

[hulmule]

First thing, welcum to Lit. Next. welcome to the bi-curious (and beyond curious) thread for older men. Your observations and assessment are pretty much spot on with what a lot of us have been, or are currently going through in our sex lives. Our wives have sworn off sex and we still need it. Another woman is out of the question for various reasons, like you said "too much work." Other married men like to roam about and get what they want and move on. There is nothing wrong with a 'blow-n-go' but having a regular is so much better for everyone. That way, once you find a safe and sane friend, you can both get what you want and need. I have had my share of 'one and done' over the past 6 years, but I also had a great time with a regular, for over 4 years. I used to visit him once a week during the winters that we spent in Florida. Unfortunately we sold our place. I had just found another guy that was fitting quite nicely into being a regular, when this pandemic struck. I am hoping to resume some sort of regular contact when it is safe to do so.

Well said by both... Love pussy so much, but wife is like both spoke about here. Menopause and wants NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX. Sad that there letting their husbands wander to look and fullfill their needs , male or female. FWB would be nice . But as multiple have said, a lot of male catch their nut and are ready to go... Speaking of that ...

 

[Floridafun4everyone]

Most older men like myself grew up in different times with no where near what’s available today. As age creeps up you become more open minded, and look to experience new sexual experiences. IMHO

 

[Dreamer110]

Most older men like myself grew up in different times with no where near what’s available today. As age creeps up you become more open minded, and look to experience new sexual experiences. IMHO

One of the best explanations yet!

 

[peter49parker]

Some question the guys going to men, instead of other women. Some reply to much hassle, I can agree with that, but I will also say it's not perceived as infidelity. We can all agree that any sex outside of marriage is cheating, but its easier to reconcile m2m than m2w. Think of it this way, would your wife be mad if you took another woman out to dinner? Most would say yes, you can argue that point either way, for me, my wife would freak out. What if you took a buddy out to have a drink or food, probably not. It's just easier to deal. You, and Joe out in the garage rebuilding a carburetor, and he offers to jerk you off, eh no biggie. Mary does it, and you'll be divorced in no time...lol

I think you are on to something with guys hanging out with other guys and not raising any red flags. It is much easier to get away with telling one's wife that he is going to be helping 'Bob' build something in his basement or garage or go for a beer with him, than it would be to use the same excuse with 'Mary.' However, if my wife found out that I was having any kind of sex with 'Bob', I don't think she would be very nonchalant or forgiving about it. It is totally easier to get away with spending time with another guy, but discretion still needs to exercised. I wish it were not perceived as an infidelity by our wives or else I'd be heading out the door right now... "Be back in an hour, just going to Bob's for coffee and a blow job."

 

[LoftyCraig]

I can only cum to gay sex as well.

my sentiments exactly