Top 7 reasons why single black men don't approach black women

[LJ_Reloaded]

"We look like we can't be bothered"

http://photos.essence.com/galleries...proach-black-women?slide=624196#624171_624196
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We’ve heard men tell us that Black women often come across as if we don’t want to be bothered when we’re out and about in public. Whether in a store or leaving the office, we often appear more focused on what’s ahead or the next stop and not on meeting someone new.”

Eh, this is true for why men don’t approach women in general, regardless of race. Who the hell wants to be accused of harassment because we opened our mouths and spoke to a woman who actually doesn’t want to be bothered? How do we know if she doesn’t think we’re cool enough, good looking enough, not sensitive looking enough, tall enough, not bad boy looking enough, etc? What if “hello” is a trigger word for her?

Hell, why doesn’t she come up and speak to him?

A woman who wants male attention is utterly indistinguishable from one who wants men to fuck the fuck off and die.

 

[RoryN]

Eh, this is true for why men don’t approach women in general, regardless of race. Who the hell wants to be accused of harassment because we opened our mouths and spoke to a woman who actually doesn’t want to be bothered? How do we know if she doesn’t think we’re cool enough, good looking enough, not sensitive looking enough, tall enough, not bad boy looking enough, etc? What if “hello” is a trigger word for her?

Hell, why doesn’t she come up and speak to him?

A woman who wants male attention is utterly indistinguishable from one who wants men to fuck the fuck off and die.

Your threads have the pretext and idea that the problems you speak of are pervasive.

Do you live on some radical man-hating planet where your quote, above, is true even 10% of the time?

How much of this actuallly happens in your experience with women, LJ? How many are telling you to "fuck off and die"?

 

[Aella_]

Your threads have the pretext and idea that the problems you speak of are pervasive.

Do you live on some radical man-hating planet where your quote, above, is true even 10% of the time?

How much of this actuallly happens in your experience with women, LJ? How many are telling you to "fuck off and die"?

He (Rory)'s talking as if he's God's gift to women…

 

[lovecraft68]

Maybe its because many black women know that many black men are cocky, cheating dog assholes who live and die by their 'bro code' and they don't want to be the next baby mama.

 

[lovecraft68]

How many are telling you to "fuck off and die"?

seemingly enough for him to keep starting these threads.

 

[smoothg103rd]

The fuck is yall talking about?

First off the man should approach to the woman. He is the man and shouldn't be that much of a pussy. Secondly all men are dogs that cheat. And all races have arrogant cocky assholes.

 

[bronzeage]

"We look like we can't be bothered"

http://photos.essence.com/galleries...proach-black-women?slide=624196#624171_624196
https://40.media.tumblr.com/3c0a12177cbda760462e891667988fc1/tumblr_o5eivhyL7y1s8zzzfo1_540.png


Eh, this is true for why men don’t approach women in general, regardless of race. Who the hell wants to be accused of harassment because we opened our mouths and spoke to a woman who actually doesn’t want to be bothered? How do we know if she doesn’t think we’re cool enough, good looking enough, not sensitive looking enough, tall enough, not bad boy looking enough, etc? What if “hello” is a trigger word for her?

Hell, why doesn’t she come up and speak to him?

A woman who wants male attention is utterly indistinguishable from one who wants men to fuck the fuck off and die.

You got shot down again, didn't you. Better luck next time, and wear a clean shirt.

 

[digitalia]

Maybe its because many black women know that many black men are cocky, cheating dog assholes who live and die by their 'bro code' and they don't want to be the next baby mama.

And that would be different from cracker pieces of racist shit like you, how?

 

[Ulaven_Demorte]

You got shot down again, didn't you. Better luck next time, and wear a clean shirt.

Of course he did, but it can't possibly be him.

He reminds me of the old joke.

A woman walks in and sits down at the bar.
She tells the bartender, "I've fucked every man in this bar and not one of them is worth a damn in the sack."
The bartender smiles, nods, then proceeds to point out the only common denominator in all of that bad sex.

 

[Hypoxia]

He reminds me of the old joke.

A woman walks in and sits down at the bar.
She tells the bartender, "I've fucked every man in this bar and not one of them is worth a damn in the sack."
The bartender smiles, nods, then proceeds to point out the only common denominator in all of that bad sex.

Okay, I'm slow. I'll bite. What's the common denominator?

I'll guess it's that they're all drunk males, and the bartender is a sober woman.

Or maybe it's that the only folks to pickup in bars are desperate lonely drunks.

Or maybe she's a black woman in a bar patronized by small-dick white men.

Or maybe she's a ghost.

 

[Monazwx]

Since it appears that the article is from Messence, I can ignore this thread.

 

[bronzeage]

Okay, I'm slow. I'll bite. What's the common denominator?

I'll guess it's that they're all drunk males, and the bartender is a sober woman.

Or maybe it's that the only folks to pickup in bars are desperate lonely drunks.

Or maybe she's a black woman in a bar patronized by small-dick white men.

Or maybe she's a ghost.

Actually, the common denominator is that none of them got the joke.

 

[Sanjeet]

Okay, I'm slow. I'll bite. What's the common denominator?

I'll guess it's that they're all drunk males, and the bartender is a sober woman.

Or maybe it's that the only folks to pickup in bars are desperate lonely drunks.

Or maybe she's a black woman in a bar patronized by small-dick white men.

Or maybe she's a ghost.

It is the woman you silly fool.



Sanjeet

 

[richard_daily]

"We look like we can't be bothered"

http://photos.essence.com/galleries...proach-black-women?slide=624196#624171_624196
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Eh, this is true for why men don’t approach women in general, regardless of race. Who the hell wants to be accused of harassment because we opened our mouths and spoke to a woman who actually doesn’t want to be bothered? How do we know if she doesn’t think we’re cool enough, good looking enough, not sensitive looking enough, tall enough, not bad boy looking enough, etc? What if “hello” is a trigger word for her?

Hell, why doesn’t she come up and speak to him?

A woman who wants male attention is utterly indistinguishable from one who wants men to fuck the fuck off and die.

Poor LT, always striking out with the ladies.

 

[BotanyBoy]

It is the woman you silly fool.



Sanjeet

He's PC bro....women can never be faulted for anything, ever, at any time.

Only white males can be wrong as they are at fault for everything at all times and when they are it means they have a small penis.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Maybe its because many black women know that many black men are cocky, cheating dog assholes who live and die by their 'bro code' and they don't want to be the next baby mama.

A man hater and a racist little fuck, too. Glad to know that. And I bet you think you're strong enough to say that to a dude's face and not get your pimply white boy mouth knocked around to the back of your head.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Your threads have the pretext and idea that the problems you speak of are pervasive.

I take it you didn't read the part where the article cites that this is a problem for women.

Do you live on some radical man-hating planet where your quote, above, is true even 10% of the time?

How much of this actuallly happens in your experience with women, LJ? How many are telling you to "fuck off and die"?

Not a problem for me at all. And unlike you I don't need to project myself as a ladies' man.

However just because it ain't my problem doesn't mean I can't write about it.

 

[Iceprincess12]

"We look like we can't be bothered"

http://photos.essence.com/galleries...proach-black-women?slide=624196#624171_624196
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Eh, this is true for why men don’t approach women in general, regardless of race. Who the hell wants to be accused of harassment because we opened our mouths and spoke to a woman who actually doesn’t want to be bothered? How do we know if she doesn’t think we’re cool enough, good looking enough, not sensitive looking enough, tall enough, not bad boy looking enough, etc? What if “hello” is a trigger word for her?

Hell, why doesn’t she come up and speak to him?

A woman who wants male attention is utterly indistinguishable from one who wants men to fuck the fuck off and die.

I know why, I know why!!

We like to act a fool in public and have a gun.

I need to practice my ebonics, but pretend I said it with a ghetto accent.

 

[digitalia]

A man hater and a racist little fuck, too. Glad to know that. And I bet you think you're strong enough to say that to a dude's face and not get your pimply white boy mouth knocked around to the back of your head.

CAT FIGHT!.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

He (Rory)'s talking as if he's God's gift to women…

Gotta love pretenders like that.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

I know why, I know why!!

We like to act a fool in public and have a gun.

I need to practice my ebonics, but pretend I said it with a ghetto accent.

You're a white trash idiot.

You white people have this problem, too.

http://www.seattletimes.com/opinion/guest-whatrsquos-wrong-with-seattlersquos-dating-scene/

MOVING to the Pacific Northwest six years ago, I was apprehensive about my social options because of what I had heard about the Seattle Freeze. It would be hard to make friends, or so I was told.

To my surprise, however, I didn’t experience that infamous cold shoulder from my fellow Seattleites. I was invited to functions by acquaintances and included in happy hours and genuinely accepted into small circles of friends. That was, until I tried my hand at dating.

I quickly learned that Seattle men are far different from any other I’ve encountered: shy, timid and seemingly incapable of striking up a conversation, let alone offering to buy a female a drink. The Seattle males’ inability to successfully merge with their female counterparts reminds me of the colossal cluster that is I-5 onramps. Much like a Seattleite merging onto a freeway, our men’s apprehensive tendencies leave them incapable of finding either the open lane or the open bar stool.

Like a Seattleite’s driving, which is among the worst according to two years of Allstate claims data, Seattle men are unable to properly insert themselves, thanks to a “no, you go first” mindset, creating a plethora of blundering crash-and-burn scenarios.

Y'all feel just as entitled to have men take all the risks while you sit back expecting to be coddled.

If ya want a date, make the first fucking move. Stop waiting for men to do your job for you. Take some risk, bitches. How's that for some white-bonics eh?

 

[Iceprincess12]

Poor angry elf . Too many words and no sex! You have to do much better than that if you want to offend me. Call me a Democrat, that always gets under my skin.

I did grow up as a valley girl so I totally can see, like, where, like you might like think I am trashy. I was born in South Korea so maybe rice picker might be a better insult, I'm not fer sure though.

Why would I care what people in Seattle do? Birkenstocks and tree hugging ain't my thang! It's fun to talk ebonics, it makes me sound so hard and dope!

Cool yo! Thanks for the fun but like I have totally important stuff to post, like abc's of food. I always get stuck with X and my brain gets like really windy trying to think of new X food and then, I like think I should totally google more foods but then I think, well poor ghetto people don't even have the internet so it would totally be like slapping them in the face to just look stuff up instead of using my non food stamp education to just use my brain so...

You're a white trash idiot.

You white people have this problem, too.

http://www.seattletimes.com/opinion/guest-whatrsquos-wrong-with-seattlersquos-dating-scene/

Y'all feel just as entitled to have men take all the risks while you sit back expecting to be coddled.

If ya want a date, make the first fucking move. Stop waiting for men to do your job for you. Take some risk, bitches. How's that for some white-bonics eh?

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

I did grow up as a valley girl so I totally can see, like, where, like you might like think I am trashy. I was born in a toilet so maybe pile of shit might be more accurate

Translated for truth.

You're gonna get your head caved in one day by a genetically pure white man. A cruel irony considering what a cowardly racist shithead you are. Fortunately for you, such an injury won't affect your cognitive skills. It'll just make you look better.

 

[Hypoxia]

You're gonna get your head caved in one day by an inbred low-IQ small-dicked white man in a dead-end job.

Fixed.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Fixed.

Hahahaha for great justice.