Bottoms: do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked?

[old_hippy_46]

This question came up in another thread. I am always soft while my girlfriend fucks me and someone said that this is normal. Is it normal? For you bottoms, do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked? Bonus question, do you cum from being fucked?

I am hard at the start, but once I get penetrated I get soft. I guess there is no real need for an erection at this point.

 

[Swuchrow]

I stay soft unless my top jerks me. More than one top has commented on how small my clit is.

 

[Cardinal]

Never hard while fucking dildos and I’ve never cum just from getting fucked

 

[Buttboy7869]

I go soft if I’m hard but can orgasm .

 

[Phatfeet]

I cycle.

I start off super-hard, but then as I grow accustomed to it, I tend to soften. How long I am that way depends I guess. If I think erotic thoughts I get hard again, but then might soften.

I do not stay hard the whole time, but not soft either. I cycle.

 

[Escierto]

I cycle.

I start off super-hard, but then as I grow accustomed to it, I tend to soften. How long I am that way depends I guess. If I think erotic thoughts I get hard again, but then might soften.

I do not stay hard the whole time, but not soft either. I cycle.

Very interesting. Does anything the top does affect whether you are hard or soft?

 

[Phatfeet]

Very interesting. Does anything the top does affect whether you are hard or soft?

Oh greatly. Most know I like to be stroked during it. That too increases and ebbs as their own focus is alternated, which in turn causes me greater or less than pleasure that affects how hard I am.

Age can affect what he does too though.

It is a sad reality, but as I age, so do the men I am with. With that can come some issues if I do not really relax into it quick enough. That can cause issues for the top if he too is older, especially if he softens and cannot get it hard again. That in turn causes issues for me as I feel rushed or pushed, feeling as if I am not really good for him when I really am, I am just not quite ready.

I know this last part is not really what you are after, but its a very delicate balance that goes on. I am not sure I would have these issues so much with a younger man though.

 

[2wayroad]

Very interesting. Does anything the top does affect whether you are hard or soft?

No. The thing is that other nerves and sensations are taking over. Your cock is no longer the focus of your pleasure, now your anus, prostate and rectum are. Perfectly natural.

If your top is good enough to hit those spots, you’ll likely forget about your cock until he’s done with your ass. Look how many videos there are online where the bottom seems to be lost on what he’s feeling, his cock useless as it flops around. Yeah, you’ll see hard bottoms too. Buy few stay hard until the end.

 

[Swuchrow]

No. The thing is that other nerves and sensations are taking over. Your cock is no longer the focus of your pleasure, now your anus, prostate and rectum are. Perfectly natural.

If your top is good enough to hit those spots, you’ll likely forget about your cock until he’s done with your ass. Look how many videos there are online where the bottom seems to be lost on what he’s feeling, his cock useless as it flops around. Yeah, you’ll see hard bottoms too. Buy few stay hard until the end.

You are correct. His cock in my boipussy doesn’t involve my cock. I almost always have precum leaking and occasionally he stimulates my p-spot to include cum but I don’t get hard unless someone jerks me.

 

[bottom2bang]

I can cum hands free hard or soft, but a big, thick, cock always keeps me hard.

 

[Escierto]

I can cum hands free hard or soft, but a big, thick, cock always keeps me hard.

I wonder why you are always hard when so many are not?

 

[bottom2bang]

I wonder why you are always hard when so many are not?

I am just that turned on.

 

[old_hippy_46]

Usually soft while I`m getting fucked. Occasionally I will get hard. I am usually concentrating on the cock in my ass and don`t really think about whether I`m hard or not.

Same here, I am usually hard at the beginning, bit I go soft quickly

 

[sissyboy26]

I’m using hard during the foreplay then I go soft pretty quick while I’m getting fucked

 

[Jonnymc]

I am just that turned on.

Also good blood flow between the cock and the rosebud grips, I am guessing the dominant blood flow is going to the rosebud

 

[ellisandy1000]

Usually stay soft, I'm so focused on servicing cock, I don't think about myself

 

[gk6h]

Soft my pleasures is my ass and the p spot

 

[klippert]

Even as a top. When my lover and I really connect. I liked to give him my ass for a good pounding. I was mostly semi or soft. One lover I was with I was cast-iron hard… and only recently has my buddy been staying hard when I fuck him. And the last time he fk’d my ass… I stayed relatively hard.
Someone mentioned there are different nerves being stimulated, plus the prostate (if the angle is right). I have to agree with this.
For me visually it’s encouraging to see that cock hard and leaking as I’m pumping in and out. But, I have been with lovers who are subs and they tell me they don’t want any cock stimulating. They’re to be used. If they’re really feminine. I’ll happily oblige them, and use them for my own personal pleasure

 

[klippert]

I apologize, I responded regarding; hard or soft, not taking into consideration the thread’s author specifically stated “Bottoms”.
I’ll delete my comment if you all feel I have over stepped my bounds…

 

[xdresssissytoes]

I apologize, I responded regarding; hard or soft, not taking into consideration the thread’s author specifically stated “Bottoms”.
I’ll delete my comment if you all feel I have over stepped my bounds…

No need, k........the image of you using a fem bottom, like me, is hot! Use me.....please!

 

[jakie69]

I’m usually soft, limp and floppy like a good clit, my pleasure coming from being filled, it doesn’t reflect on my top and I cum very quickly and easily and leak a lot of precum. Even being touched doesn’t tend to get me hard until after I’ve been fucked. Occasionally I will get semi erect during very rough, aggressive sex with a lot of verbal domination, humiliation or dirty talk. There have been some rare occasions when I stay hard but not often. Soft and happy is my go to state. I have seen bottoms who stay hard during sex, I was at a bathhouse recently and a young guy was taking anyone and everyone in the public area, he was really getting pounded but his cock was absolutely solid. I stayed and watched until another guy wanted to use me

 

[Indianabone]

This question came up in another thread. I am always soft while my girlfriend fucks me and someone said that this is normal. Is it normal? For you bottoms, do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked? Bonus question, do you cum from being fucked?

I get extremely hard especially if the cock is larger. And as it pumps in and out of my bottom, I stay hard unless he stops for a bit but as soon as he picks up again, I’m hard as steel….and I fucking love it!!

 

[Uncut1969]

Would love to find out

 

[OpenRoad_71]

I stay super-limp the whole time when I have sex as Alison, its tiny but it gets very wet. Someone who fucked me said its a very subbie thing, which made me quite proud! I am lucky enough to have cum a few times when being fucked, and my juice flows out, rather than spurting.

 

[DirtyGranpa66]

This question came up in another thread. I am always soft while my girlfriend fucks me and someone said that this is normal. Is it normal? For you bottoms, do you get hard or stay soft while being fucked? Bonus question, do you cum from being fucked?

Always hard