Bisexguy70
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I agree with you on this. Masturbating RN just thinking of this very thing
Why do older men become bi-curious?
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Oldsucker
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Ah. I forgot the nipples
aliencardigan
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I've always known I've had bisexual tendencies. At this age, with my wife's decision to retire from sex, my bisexual side has come out in full force. There are lots of men in the same situation however being able to meet discreetly is the biggest challenge.
frosty3610
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Fooled around in HS and the urge has returned
I am surprised that more men do not take advantage of their bi side. It seems that a lot of older women have given up on sex. I can not see that it makes a lot of difference if that warm mouth working on your cock is a man or a woman. I am fortunate that my wife does not mind if I bring a guy home as long as I don't complain if she brings a guy home.
Lucky man!
Getting back to the original question. I think one possibilty for why older guys tend to be more open to their bisexuality now, is that there is a lot less stigma attached these days. My first sexual encounter with another male was back in the 60’s. There was a HUGE bias against those activities back then. Being open about it, or even accepting the concept, was nearly unthinkable in those days. Still some stigma attached by many people now, but a lot more acceptance as well. Thank goodness for the change…
I think you are right. I think I always had the desire to suck a cock but was afraid to do so and the stigma was part of it. At my age now, I am not going to worry about what someone else thinks.
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Well put I couldn't say it any better I feel exactly the same way you do
Illgiveitatry1
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Oh my god that sounds like a perfect setup I would love to have that agreement with my life. You're so lucky.
Luv2ReadKinkyStories
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Yeah, I think it is... definitely happened to me...
FeelingLikeMyself
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Going to be 45 in December and I seem to be one of the younger people here. So, it wasn't just discovering that I was bi, it was admitting it to myself and finally exploring and developing my feminine side, a journey that had been on hold for 20 years.
Roswellcurious
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That sums it up nicely for me!
We were into this lifestyle even before my prostate surgery so we have just continued.
ILikeIt
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I had homosexual relations when I was young. Once I started dating girls it stopped. It reemerged in my late forties. The remergence was stimiluated by my wife. She told me she had a fantasy of watching me having gay sex. We role played this gay sex scenario ever since. I bought her a strapon which she has become proficient using. My desire to suck or be fuck by a real cock has only grown. I crave it now more than ever but have never taken the plunge (except for with my wife and her strapon dildo).
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Lucky you with a wife that may let you find a man to join you. Let us know if you ever fulfil that fantasy.
CuriousinPennsylvania
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You nailed it.
Myself I see five aspects of life diverging, regarding why so many men are bi-curious.
With age you have more sexual experiences and know what you like (1). Typically this is experienced through hetrosexual marriage over many years, but as the wife loses interest in sex, and the man maintains the same libido, there is a supply and demand differential (2). Couple that with older people who tend to have less regard for what people think (3), along with a general curiosity for new types of sex (4), and from all those four things combined, long held beliefs are broken down.
For years men have been with women, yet the co-interest in sex is lost, and there is an outright rejection in the latter years. But other men understand the need for sex and rejection.
But men don’t talk about male-male attraction until the anonymity of the internet allowed the secret to be widespread (5).
With age you have more sexual experiences and know what you like (1). Typically this is experienced through hetrosexual marriage over many years, but as the wife loses interest in sex, and the man maintains the same libido, there is a supply and demand differential (2). Couple that with older people who tend to have less regard for what people think (3), along with a general curiosity for new types of sex (4), and from all those four things combined, long held beliefs are broken down.
For years men have been with women, yet the co-interest in sex is lost, and there is an outright rejection in the latter years. But other men understand the need for sex and rejection.
But men don’t talk about male-male attraction until the anonymity of the internet allowed the secret to be widespread (5).
To put it another way: men have been lied too.
We were told, fall in love, provide, be a great husband, father and in the end you will have a very happy life. Yet, after having done all that, we get to be past the midway point where our hard work should start to pay off and our devotion is betrayed by a wife that no longer wants sex.
It begs the question: what else have we been lied to about?
Sex with another man would be just as pleasurable, maybe more so, but without the rejection?
How could that not lead to curiosity by many older men?
We were told, fall in love, provide, be a great husband, father and in the end you will have a very happy life. Yet, after having done all that, we get to be past the midway point where our hard work should start to pay off and our devotion is betrayed by a wife that no longer wants sex.
It begs the question: what else have we been lied to about?
Sex with another man would be just as pleasurable, maybe more so, but without the rejection?
How could that not lead to curiosity by many older men?
SPARTAN047
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At least someone said it.
The only difference is no pregnancy, which is a huge plus, and no chance that you're taking care of a baby that's not yours.
I have cheating fantasies myself, both having it done to me and doing it to others, which is what a lot of monogamous people dream of. It doesn't mean I'll do it, but I can't prove that. I'd never do it in a proper relationship, just a role play with others I'm only fucking and not wasting my time on.
I discovered in my 20s being a fem bottom was a way of balancing my alpha daily life. Submitting to a dominate male for his pleasure serves as an outlet for frustrations of always taking charge.
Now days almost all tops I meet are married and older. Their wives are not there for them sexually. I am there for them to use to satisfy their sexual needs and frustrations. There is very little that I won’t do to get the results they are looking for. My meetings are usually intense and passionate. They leave satisfied and a smile on their face. Most come back when they need a sexual outlet.
Well put. Very valid points
Our wives shut the door on sex slowly. We are still in need
A girlfriend? That’s just dangerous. Women get attached
Feeling emerge.. another married guy? It’s a win win
He wants just what you want. It’s quick and easy.. and very satisfying.
A deep dark secret but there you have it
That is one point I didn’t make. My tops know there is full discretion and no drama. He gets what he needs and can go on his way. When he needs sex he knows all he has to do is send me a note. I will be there for him to be his slut.
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