Your penis size

[Sgts19]

Smaller than I want. Maybe 5" rather thick at the base 5.5 or 6

 

[jehoram]

Mine is remorselessly average. Flaccid, about 4", Hard just shy of 6" and 4" circumference. No remarks (or complaints) from my lady friends.

 

[stretchmywifemmf]

5” - 5.5” and not too thick but hey it is what it is lol

 

[HampshireBoy]

(copied from my post in another thread)

I have a VERY large dick - and it's not all it's cracked up to be. Some may express doubts, but I have no reason to lie about it to a bunch of strangers on the internet.

it's 8 1/8" long - properly measured. Which means, ruler laid on top (not side! ...which adds length), and is lightly pressed against pubic bone. And my girth is a consistent 6 1/4" - the whole length. Even on a porn set - where only guys with big dicks need apply - my penis would be considered very large. According to calcSD website, based on world-wide averages, in a room of 1000 randomly selected men only 1 guy would have a penis with greater overall volume. Put another way, a woman would have to be with 250 guys to have only a 25% chance of encountering a dick as big or bigger.

Forget what you see in porn. The truth is, my outlier size/girth has done way more to hinder pleasure for my partners than it has to enhance it.. For my wonderful wife, giving me oral - which something she has always loved doing with other guys - is painful, her jaw clicks and is sore and loose the next day; anal sex is nearly impossible (without tons of pre-stretching w/ toys which just isn't practical and precludes spontaneity) and now that we are older, even vaginal sex has become painful. ..We literally use about 2-3 tablespoons of lube each time we have sex. And, thanks to my length, the tip of my dick hits her cervix WAYYY before my pubic bone gets anywhere near her vulva, or her butt cheeks if doing doggie - very frustrating for both of us. Why, oh why do men want an 8 (or 9, or 10, etc..) inch dick when the average vagina is 4-5" deep? Ask yourselves, men - wouldn't it be more pleasurable for both of you if your WHOLE dick would fit inside your partner?

My wife, when pressed, admits that when she fantasizes about other men (a normal thing to do - just as it is when I fantasize about other women) they always have much smaller cocks where giving oral is easy, and being penetrated is never painful. This is actually described in greater detail in my "Sharing My Wife Michelle" story. In it, my wife's new partner for the night has a much smaller dick and, because of it, is able to please her in ways I can't.

My wife and I still manage to have wonderful sex. ..But it's in spite of my huge cock, not because of it.

So if you're anywhere near average - be thankful for it. ..Your sex is probably better because of it.

Thanks for your honesty, I remember watching a TV programme interviewing guys with very large cocks, over 12 inches long IIRC. A couple of them actually stated that they wish they were smaller, partly because of painful sex for partners and partly because they hated being seen as a novelty and object for women rather than as a partner for a relationship.


I'm nearly an inch shorter than you and have experienced partners struggling to give me oral, I also had one partner where I used to apparently hit her cervix in certain positions - she certainly complained about pain and feeling me "hitting the back". How true that was I don't know but it did feel like I hit something.

 

[DirtyDieselTech]

My 7 1/2 inches in length is perfect for my wife, according to her. I do wish I was a bit thicker tho

 

[Luv2bnaked4u]

Thanks for your honesty, I remember watching a TV programme interviewing guys with very large cocks, over 12 inches long IIRC. A couple of them actually stated that they wish they were smaller, partly because of painful sex for partners and partly because they hated being seen as a novelty and object for women rather than as a partner for a relationship.


I'm nearly an inch shorter than you and have experienced partners struggling to give me oral, I also had one partner where I used to apparently hit her cervix in certain positions - she certainly complained about pain and feeling me "hitting the back". How true that was I don't know but it did feel like I hit something.

A large penis (lengthwise) can bruise the cervix

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

A large penis (lengthwise) can bruise the cervix

Gotta be gentle with it Use positions where it does not go in so far. You don’t just jam it in.

 

[LMWM321]

Thanks for your honesty, I remember watching a TV programme interviewing guys with very large cocks, over 12 inches long IIRC. A couple of them actually stated that they wish they were smaller, partly because of painful sex for partners and partly because they hated being seen as a novelty and object for women rather than as a partner for a relationship.


I'm nearly an inch shorter than you and have experienced partners struggling to give me oral, I also had one partner where I used to apparently hit her cervix in certain positions - she certainly complained about pain and feeling me "hitting the back". How true that was I don't know but it did feel like I hit something.

My girth is the bigger problem when it comes to oral. just getting the head in hurts her jaw. Yes, it's also too long to entirely fit, but that wouldn't stop it from feeling awesome. ..It's the girth that's the issue.

And my partner is quite motivated to do it. ...She's alway loved giving head to her previous partners, and is frustrated she can't adequately fulfill her desire to do it with me. We love each other deeply and are crazy attracted to each other.

As for the length, during PIV it's frustrating because we can't just casually pump away without one of us pushing so deep that I hit her cervix, which breaks her focus and enjoyment. ..it's like a constant balancing act that takes some of the fun away

Anyway, be happy with what you got guys... lf you really want to relate to my situation and disabuse yourself of doubts about your size, just buy a dildo that has 8" of insertable length and 6 1/4" of girth (yes, you can actually find them w/ very precise size specs) and offer it to your wife.

..My hunch is she'll try it once and say, "Meh... That's actually not so great. It kinda hurts. ....Let's stick with your average cock."