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Any input on how to start this conversation?I think you just be honest and start the conversation.
Here's my view on this, if you have to hide it to save your marriage why the hell do you have it on your computer in the first place? Secondly, she must have suspected something or why
Most guys keep their porn on their devices or in the cloud. Mine was in a file within a file. Usually hidden but not too hard to findHere's my view on this, if you have to hide it to save your marriage why the hell do you have it on your computer in the first place? Secondly, she must have suspected something or why
Be honest. Simple as that.Any input on how to start this conversation?
I don't have a single porn thing on my computer. If I look at something when I'm done I delete it. BUT I DON"T HAVE TO. I have my computer and my wife has hers. I don't touch hers and she doesn't touch mine.Most guys keep their porn on their devices or in the cloud. Mine was in a file within a file. Usually hidden but not too hard to find
I am an open book to my wife I sometimes probably divulge too much. She is FAR more private about her life and things she does both on and off the computer. I believe I may go that route too since what's good for the goose is good for the gander.That's admirable. My wife gets combative whenever privacy comes up.
My wife enjoys anal sex but I haven't the courage to let her know I'd like to be on the receiving end. I bought a big dildo for her birthday and still havent hinted at its possible usesI would tell my wife that sometimes I am interested in gay porn but that the best way to get over this, is for us both to have more and better sex. Maybe I could finally convince her to let me do the anal trick that I am begging for so long.
Just tell her you'd like to try it and see what she says. If she says no buy one with a suction end and stick it to the wall and fuck yourself!!My wife enjoys anal sex but I haven't the courage to let her know I'd like to be on the receiving end. I bought a big dildo for her birthday and still havent hinted at its possible uses
So, she was really, really looking.Most guys keep their porn on their devices or in the cloud. Mine was in a file within a file. Usually hidden but not too hard to find
it'll be OK -- own itYeah, no point not owning it. It will be a much easier conversation if you are being honest.
Megan Nailed it. honesty is the best medication … if she asks question answer them truthfully.. lay it all out. most of all do 'not' play the victim in this and don't go weak. she will be gauging you as well. There is so much I have to say, because I've been in a similar position. I will tell you this. If there is one thing going through her mind. Are you the "Man" she married.i’d say you wanted to be found out so you could have this conversation and not have to hide any more. My hubby left plenty of not really hidden hints about his full desires.
You lied once by hiding it from her. That’s a violation of the trust between you. Likely take time to repair. Lying more now will make it much, much worse.
And we’re not all spooked by gay porn. Some of it is very sexy. You say “much of it is gay porn” but not 100%? If it was 100% or even “vast majority” you’d be having the “are you gay? Are you leaving me? Are you fucking men and exposed me to something?” Those might still be her worries but you’ll never know or get past it without an honest conversation. Be ready for the “if I gave you permission to try gay sex would you want to?” question.
Good luck, be open and honest and tell us how it goes.
I would say it is curiosity and take her out, then fuck her hard. If, she brings it up during sex time then see what happens. Also, I told my wife some of my bi fantasies. She was cool with until she wasnt so watch out.I went away for the weekend and she found volumes of porn on my laptop (which we used to share). Much of it is gay porn and my first thought was to deny it's mine. Should I maintain this claim of ignorance or should I come clean?
I understand your situation very well. Some women believe that they own the genitals of their husbands. I also got rid of my anal toys in order to avoid marital crises. But at the end I began meeting men and found a solution for my desire for sex. I described the process in my story https://literotica.com/s/experiences-of-a-late-starter-ch-01My wife found my porn stash a few years ago. It was devastating and I came close to losing my wife. Shes already insecure because she cant have sex and has no drive. A lot of the porn was tranny, bisex and interracial. DVDs, magazines etc etc. i admitted im turned on by cocks. It kinda upsets me because it was the only outlet I had. She made me destroy it…Damn I miss it, I had a really hot collection. But it back fired, she thought the porn would lead to actual affairs. In reality, it kept me from having to meet or pursue sex outside our marriage. She considered still cheating. Yet she cant or had no desire for sex, she expects me to do the same. Men have a physical and psychological need for sexual release. Blue balls is a real thing. So now that I dont have a porn stash and cant view pirn on my phone, Ive pursued real life meets. Ive sucked a lot of cock since then in secret. I love my wife of course, its a huge st