JamieJ424
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My take
I’ll preface this by saying, I’m a dominant. And this is less about the feel than it is about the why, at least in my opinion.
So how can a strong woman give control over herself, her life, her sexuality, to me or any man? What kind of woman allows anyone to control her? How can she willingly give away her own hard won power to choose? Aren't we all taught to seize control, decide our own destiny, steer our own course whenever we can? So where does submission fit into that?
This will seem random so bear with me.
I hate to fly. I absolutely detest it. I squirm in my seat and fuss and complain the whole flight. During takeoff and landing, I white knuckle the arm rests. I would much rather drive for seven hours than fly for one. The idea of trusting the pilots is beyond me and I can't let go of my need for control. I just can't. It terrifies me.
The difference between me and a hypothetical submissive has nothing to do with being self possessed or fiesty or strong or anything else...it is exactly this: she CAN let go. She can sit down, buckle her belt and just...place her trust in another to see her safely through to the other side.
It's an act of strength and trust that's beautiful to behold and even more so to be a part of.
I’ll preface this by saying, I’m a dominant. And this is less about the feel than it is about the why, at least in my opinion.
So how can a strong woman give control over herself, her life, her sexuality, to me or any man? What kind of woman allows anyone to control her? How can she willingly give away her own hard won power to choose? Aren't we all taught to seize control, decide our own destiny, steer our own course whenever we can? So where does submission fit into that?
This will seem random so bear with me.
I hate to fly. I absolutely detest it. I squirm in my seat and fuss and complain the whole flight. During takeoff and landing, I white knuckle the arm rests. I would much rather drive for seven hours than fly for one. The idea of trusting the pilots is beyond me and I can't let go of my need for control. I just can't. It terrifies me.
The difference between me and a hypothetical submissive has nothing to do with being self possessed or fiesty or strong or anything else...it is exactly this: she CAN let go. She can sit down, buckle her belt and just...place her trust in another to see her safely through to the other side.
It's an act of strength and trust that's beautiful to behold and even more so to be a part of.
