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LukkyKnight said:I think there's a division based on how you think about "sex. "
For some, it's an event. Talk about going to the game, talk about going to the office, talk about fishing, talk about sex, talk about going to Maui, talk about buying a new car...
For others, it's an extension, or perhaps more correctly an integral aspect of a particularly close relationship. When somebody in this category feels the urge to "talk about sex" it's important to talk about with the person in question.
Does making love start when the eyes meet or when the clothes come off?
hongluobo said:
But really do women really talk about all the intimate details of love making? how this or that man nibbled on my clitoris the other night? on how rough or gentle he was in his administrations?
A very interesting thread
Kitte said:SEX!
I mean do you talk with your guy friends intimately about sex? Or do you just do the old "Yeah I banged her" I know most of my women friends and I tell each other EVERYTHING!!!
So guys dish....do you dish to each other?
Originally posted by Dougy I think that many of the guys are missing the point here and taking it to be just a question of whether they give out intimate details about sexual partners.
Yah *nods* I kind of thought that's what they do in locker roomsStar of Penumbra said:too many men are without because they're so caught up in physical strength, trying to impress each other, and waving thier dicks about
Dougy said:Perhaps it just boils down to the fact that men are just interested in finding pussy, while women are looking for pleasure.
SlowHand89 said:It also drives me nuts when people imply that one must 'share' in order to grow.
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If you need to talk things over with someone because you don't know what to think, fine. But if you can make up your own mind and don't feel the need to tell everyone about everything then, well, that sounds like personal strength to me.
It's the Stong, Silent Type not the Insecure, Emotionally Challenged Type.
So, No. I don't kiss and tell. And if one of my friends brings it up I'd be like "Dude, I could care less if you like it when she sucks on your left ball. Why should I care?" Now, if it's someone I might want to be with, then I'll listen. Otherwise, not for me.
Yeah. I talk with my best friend about sex all the time. Usually it's intertwined with general relationship stuff, though. And unfortunately for me, it's often very one-sided (he's had 13 partners to my one). So he ends up teaching me things an awful lot of the time. I've also found out a lot, perhaps more than I wanted to know, from my father (again, most of that coming in discussions about relationships in general).Kitte said:SEX!
I mean do you talk with your guy friends intimately about sex? Or do you just do the old "Yeah I banged her" I know most of my women friends and I tell each other EVERYTHING!!!
So guys dish....do you dish to each other?
Dougy said:
This is exactly what I don't get. One does have to share to grow, and talking things over with someone should not be a means to 'know what to think'. Your views do not spontaneously generate, they come from your interactions with the world around you. By not being willing to talk about things on which you have made up your mind you are closing yourself off from so much of the world, and that is not personal strength. Personal strength is being able to look at information, process it as impartially as possible, and see if it changes your views.
The fact is I will listen to anything, because I want to know what people think, but I don't have to agree. And I do not agree with you on this one.
weed said:But I do think the occasional sharing with someone you can be open with is enriching...and maybe even educational. (Especially for me if I'm listening)
When women talk about sex, I think it is more about what they like and what they do. The partner is implicated by association, but I don't think he/she is the focus of the conversation.