What's your real number of partners?

[kelli_qcd]

Volunteer for #2

mmmm now that could be an offer thats "HARD" to refuse...

 

[IcariusInHiding]

Four, sort of.

 

[LovelLady4Ever]

13 and 2 new ones in the last month, I have sex with 5 men right now counting hubby and only 2 know about hubby and each other.

 

[removed042013]

number!

just 2 for me

 

[crazy4cock]

Well if it's intercourse i think 8 but if we are counting BJ's will that number just doubled, what can i say..C4C

 

[kelli_qcd]

13 and 2 new ones in the last month, I have sex with 5 men right now counting hubby and only 2 know about hubby and each other.

mmm you sound almost EXACTLY like my wife...
thats just about her numbers including those that don't know about each other ....

 

[scylla14]

.....

 

[boredpisces]

4, and they were all one-night-stands that happened in the same 18month period (over 4 years ago). I was trashed beyond participation when I lost my virginity. One of them was married (I found out later) and the last 2 tried to start a FWB sitch, but I freaked out and said no. The whole phase was me trying to convince myself I didn't need a relationship to enjoy my body. As a pisces woman, I should've known better. I'll admit it if I go into a drunk confessional, but generally say 2 to make up for my lack of viable experience. I'm ashamed, not of the number, but of the circumstances.

 

[LetForeverBe]

6 total with full on sex, 3 additional women who I've done everything but full on sex with. One was 33 when I was 20.

 

[readinggp]

13 and 2 new ones in the last month, I have sex with 5 men right now counting hubby and only 2 know about hubby and each other.

Damn.. want to adopt a husband?

 

[ann_lee]

My real number is 2 but I tell most people 3 because of a fling in high school when everyone assumed we had sex. I never corrected anyone about it, so I just kind of went with it. But yep, only 2 guys.

And now my real number is 3 It was probably just a one time thing...

 

[Porkwarrior]

Is what still the same down there? Surely you're not asking what I think you're asking...

Haa haa. Sorry that made me laugh, but damn that gave me a giggle.


What is it with people's fascination with "the number". I confess I am curious, but only as a baseline with experience. I don't see a point in "bragging", or lying, or deliberately withholding yourself pleasure just so you can keep to an arbitrary number of digits. Then again I couldn't care less about how many hot dogs somebody can shove into their pie hole in a minute either.

If somebody asks me I usually tell the truth, "I am not really sure, definitely not enough though!". If it is somebody that I share intimate info with and they keep pressing I try to get as close to the truth as I can remember, somewhere over 100, maybe 150, maybe even 200. I never really counted after high school.

I do know that twelve nights with a lovely, long term fuckbuddy is worth two dozen one night forgettable flings.


I am curious about people that go their entire lives with only a few partners, especially ones that have found Lit and realized how wide & diverse human sexuality is. I don't think I could pick just one woman to have ever had sex with and be happy, or even content and think I have even scratched the surface of my being. But that's just me, do people that will forever be into the single digits think they have gotten everything out of sex they desire?

 

[Nick0311]

Miscounted before.

16

 

[thesweetsweetness]

I am curious about people that go their entire lives with only a few partners, especially ones that have found Lit and realized how wide & diverse human sexuality is. I don't think I could pick just one woman to have ever had sex with and be happy, or even content and think I have even scratched the surface of my being. But that's just me, do people that will forever be into the single digits think they have gotten everything out of sex they desire?

I was thinking about how to reply to this for a while. Tying to find the right words. I'm not sure I will be successful at saying what I'm thinking, but here goes anyway.

I think it boils down to different strokes for different folks. Some people wish to explore their sexuality with one certain partner and others with many partners. Just because someone has a low number, doesn't mean they are deprived or missing out. At the same time someone with a high number isn't necessarily more fulfilled.

Just as we all have different fetishes and kinks, we all have different ideas of what is important to us as far as whom we share ourselves with.

 

[widow132]

I worked as an escort for 7 years before marrying a man with a taste for group sex and swapping, so ... I can't give a number but well over a hundred (maybe hundreds) men and lots of women.

 

[Nick0311]

I was thinking about how to reply to this for a while. Tying to find the right words. I'm not sure I will be successful at saying what I'm thinking, but here goes anyway.

I think it boils down to different strokes for different folks. Some people wish to explore their sexuality with one certain partner and others with many partners. Just because someone has a low number, doesn't mean they are deprived or missing out. At the same time someone with a high number isn't necessarily more fulfilled.

Just as we all have different fetishes and kinks, we all have different ideas of what is important to us as far as whom we share ourselves with.

The best and most adventurous sex I ever had was with a girl who only had one partner before me.

 

[suckonsimon]

The best and most adventurous sex I ever had was with a girl who only had one partner before me.

A great encounter, Nick. Might she say that of what you gave her too? Genuine question ...

Si

 

[thesweetsweetness]

The best and most adventurous sex I ever had was with a girl who only had one partner before me.

We need details, Nick!

 

[Ramrod325]

I had a ex ask me this years ago and I told her 5, when she went to work the next day I wrote all the names on paper. I was in the 80's and that was 6 years ago. I'm knocking close to 100 and hopefully it'll climb

 

[Pervertedhub]

I worked as an escort for 7 years before marrying a man with a taste for group sex and swapping, so ... I can't give a number but well over a hundred (maybe hundreds) men and lots of women.

He was a lucky man to have found a lady like you.

 

[throwshow]

0

Don't judge me too hard...

 

[SwitchMami]

0

Don't judge me too hard...

Don't be ashamed of being a virgin. I have a friend who's 33 and he's still a virgin. You'll find someone worthy.

NY real number is 13 men, 1 woman. I freely admit to the woman, but generally claim 9, but I fess up to my partner when we talk about becoming intimate. One ma whore friend writes and rates his conquests down. At last count, (that I know of) he's had 327 female partners. Wow, just wow. Lol

 

[MatthewVett]

One. Eins. Uno. Lit wouldn't let me submit just one, so here you go, enjoy the culture.

 

[suckonsimon]

One. Eins. Uno. Lit wouldn't let me submit just one, so here you go, enjoy the culture.

I like it Matthew. You and me both.

There's a surprising 'both and' here for me: I delight in hearing about people's multiple sexcapades, I'm comfortable fantazing about that [which is just as well seeing its been happening since I was a little boy], and yet ... I also feel really, really glad that my real-life experience is as you put it, "One Eins Uno."

Si

 

[mac_crazy]

My ex-gf and I sat down together a couple years ago and made our "lists"... we were both around 50-60, and we both thought of a few more in the following days. I was kind of amazed by my number, especially considering I've been in numerous relationships that lasted 6-18 months or so. But the list don't lie!

Oh, and for my list, those were just women. I've been with lots of guys too, never bothered to count, and many of them were just one night (day?) stands, a quick blow job or something. If I had to guess, I'd say over 100 guys, but really have no idea.

I consider myself very fortunate.


(On a related note, my last girlfriend (different from above) asked me the number. She said hers was 6... when I said "over 60", I can't say she was very excited about that. LOL. And I didn't even mention all the guys. In the future, I'll probably "massage" that figure down a bit)