What makes str8 men bi/curious in their advanced years?

[edgrant]

Is it a hormonal thing?
Or, what?

Never had a m2m experience, but in my old age I have an increasing urge to suck cock and swallow cum.

Thus far, I'm just at the "curious" stage; given the right circumstances, I'm sure I would suckcumb to my urges!

Agree totally!

Is it hormonal? Maybe. That would explain a desire that wasn't there years ago. Is it the greater acceptance of homosexuality, and the availability of bi/gay porn to fuel our fantasies? That could be true too.

The curiosity to share my desires with another man just gets stronger and stronger. As mentioned by a lot of men here, if the "right" circumstances presented themselves, I would discover, what I feel is a very pleasurable and incredibly erotic act, of sucking a cock, and swallowing another man's cum.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Agree with all of you

Maybe it's not wanting to get to the end thinking, "I wish I'd done that". But I want to suck cock. And maybe get fucked by one. But I'd want my wife there, joining in.

 

[Stephan1515]

Agree totally!

Is it hormonal? Maybe. That would explain a desire that wasn't there years ago. Is it the greater acceptance of homosexuality, and the availability of bi/gay porn to fuel our fantasies? That could be true too.

The curiosity to share my desires with another man just gets stronger and stronger. As mentioned by a lot of men here, if the "right" circumstances presented themselves, I would discover, what I feel is a very pleasurable and incredibly erotic act, of sucking a cock, and swallowing another man's cum.

Always had those desires but it wasn't till the last few years that circumstances permitted acting on them. I believe those desires are there from a young age and don't have much to do with aging. It's just that the ability to act on them increases with age and maturity.

 

[Goldenfire]

I'm glad I live in an age where I can act on my desires

 

[namron711]

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Is it a hormonal thing?
Or, what?

Never had a m2m experience, but in my old age I have an increasing urge to suck cock and swallow cum.

Thus far, I'm just at the "curious" stage; given the right circumstances, I'm sure I would suckcumb to my urges!

Who knows better how to eat pussy than a woman?!?!?!
Who know better how to suck a cock than a man?!?!?!
Maybe your SO is not a great cocksucker...
Maybe you think you could do it better...
Don't we all wish that we could suck our own cocks?!?!?!
If it feels good when someone else does it to us,
maybe we want to make someone else feel just as good...
In this case, we are left satisfying people of our own gender.

 

[bwb58]

Is it a hormonal thing?
Or, what?

Never had a m2m experience, but in my old age I have an increasing urge to suck cock and swallow cum.

Thus far, I'm just at the "curious" stage; given the right circumstances, I'm sure I would suckcumb to my urges!

Find a transexual, it is the best of both worlds.

 

[itsallgood2000]

I wish I could at least understand 'why' we turn our attention towards cock as we age. I can probably assume that some of it has to do with our dwindling sex life at home. But that doesn't completely explain it either. If we, and I mean older men, are sex starved, why don't we look for another woman to have our fun with. Is it somewhere in our minds, that if we suck a cock or have sex with another man, it is not cheating on our wives. I am sure that there is no simple answer to the simple question of 'why?" It is a very complex issue. What intrigues me in addition to the 'why', is the amount of men that are here and expressing their desire to suck a cock, or in some other way engage in bi-sexual conduct. As I age (65 and counting) it has become one of my biggest fantasies to suck a cock.

If I were to travel that road with male as opposed to a female, it would be because it is less complicated. You have to create a relationship with a female, for males it's just satisfying each others needs at the time. Blow and go kind of says it all, but this sword has two edges as someone stated, horny men are much less discriminating then average women. With the std's running rampant causal sex is dangerous physically and mentally provided you can feel guilt with m/m sex after all it is sex and still a betrayal if you made the commitment, MHO

 

[Trimjob69]

If I were to travel that road with male as opposed to a female, it would be because it is less complicated. You have to create a relationship with a female, for males it's just satisfying each others needs at the time. Blow and go kind of says it all, but this sword has two edges as someone stated, horny men are much less discriminating then average women. With the std's running rampant causal sex is dangerous physically and mentally provided you can feel guilt with m/m sex after all it is sex and still a betrayal if you made the commitment, MHO

Yeah. What he said.

 

[badonkadoku]

I don't know - but I'm going through the same thing. If I wasn't happily married to a vanilla sex wife (and kids), I'd be experimenting.

So for now, I'm just into sneaking anal play for masturbation. I'm slowly trying to get her into anal play on me.

Interesting, I would think that vanilla sex would inspire the desire to experiment. That's part of my deal, anyway!

 

[Trimjob69]

If it feels good do it

 

[badonkadoku]

With me anyway, I think it's a combination of

a. a long-term and currently sexually unexciting marriage,
b. the taboo of it makes it seem all the more exciting,
c. memories of playing with other boys as a youngster,
d. the ability to discuss it openly with others of a like mind here, and
e. readily available visuals of bi-sex on the internet.

Definitely all of the above, + (f) the loss of flexibility that allowed me to come close to self-sucking when much younger!

 

[IdahoRandy]

Yes, this is a good thread. I have had the desire to suck a cock also and I'm 60 now.

 

[wishywashy]

Sexual Pleasure

As I read all of these statements with my cock being rock hard right this moment and stroking it once in while with the pre-cum starting to flow I would be on my knees sucking another cock for your pleasure.

 

[IntmtStrngr]

...

To the original question--,
I think it's just the fact that we have gotten to a place in our life where we say, "fuck it" literally and figuratively.
I wanna bust a nut and I'm not giving a damn if it's a woman or a man.

 

[BenDoverMD]

To the original question--,
I think it's just the fact that we have gotten to a place in our life where we say, "fuck it" literally and figuratively.
I wanna bust a nut and I'm not giving a damn if it's a woman or a man.

That's a self-centered view, certainly we all need to bust that nut. But for me, I also have a desire to bust someone else's nut. I'd like to make a guy cum and think, hey I did that.

 

[HomerSimpson123]

With me anyway, I think it's a combination of

a. a long-term and currently sexually unexciting marriage,
b. the taboo of it makes it seem all the more exciting,
c. memories of playing with other boys as a youngster,
d. the ability to discuss it openly with others of a like mind here, and
e. readily available visuals of bi-sex on the internet.

These are true of me, except (c) would be "regrets over opportunities passed over".

 

[Mrdarkblueeyes]

I'm glad I found this thread, because of I've been wondering the thing. My predilections run more toward very passable shemales, but I feel it fits the topic. I keep wondering if it's just my expression of a “mid-life crisis." I've found myself considering other fantasies, too, things I never considered when I was younger and the Internet didn't exist.

 

[itsallgood2000]

The internet, if your pattern fo;;ows mine, you go on Lite and read something that gets your motor going. Then its off to the video's next your thinking these people are out and about in your world. Not really the way it works, you see the video where the alleged strangers meet and then are banging it out. I was out and looked around my surrounding for potential sexual companionship and did not see anyone I would go for even I knew something about them. Guess it's the old be careful what you wish for you may get it.

 

[Shavedallover]

In my case, it was just being curious. My first bud was a member at the nudist retreat we belonged to. When the moment came, I dropped to my knees, he didn't say stop. I've never looked back. In fact, it might be said that it's become more fulfilling for me now, more fun.

 

[Ritonav]

Growing Interest

I've alwas got horny from images of sex. But after 60 I find I'm looking a lot more at men masturbating and cumming. In part I'm interested in how older men are performing sexually - how quickly they become erect, how hard they cum, how much cum they shoot and how far.

 

[IWillDoIt]

Always had those desires but it wasn't till the last few years that circumstances permitted acting on them. I believe those desires are there from a young age and don't have much to do with aging. It's just that the ability to act on them increases with age and maturity.

Yes I think that
1) there's always some bi potential in every pubescent to post-pubescent guy throughout his life, and definitely bi-curiousity.
2) Peer pressure is very strong in the early twenties and that means conformity, so many don't act on any of these thoughts or fantasies once they date women, because it's not traditionally been "acceptable".
3) As people approach middle age (and older) though, they naturally tend to care less about "fitting in" with the herd--peer pressure-- all the time. Men get more confident. As a man ages, "the herd' and what it thinks are less important.

All of these contribute to the answer to the thread's question.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I just don't want to die wondering. About anything.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I've reached middle age and there's the beginnings of regrets for things I haven't tried yet. I've done quite a bit with my life but there's a sense of look back at missed opportunities for new things. I'd also add that I'm much less hung up on societal mores and labels. We all have flaws, oddities, and unique things about us. I'm much less inclined to worry about the flaws or opinions of others and it's somewhat liberating.

I am twenty-five years old. I don't know why older guys want their cocks sucking. I'm just grateful they do. My last few Boyfriends were much older married men who answer my sexual needs by fucking my mouth in the safe confines of a furtive relationship that their wives know nothing of, and never find out about. I've been the fortunate recipient of their generous indulgence, as well as regular mouthfuls of their spunk.

 

[Sasha69]

Well, I suppose ...

..., That Humans are social creatures. Unfortunately, in our society, people are "pigeon hole" based on they're sex, politics religion AND age. Although, I think, we are doing incrementaly better, which for us spaceship building angry monkeys is pretty darn go. Also, on the subject of the aforementioned angry monkey, "curious" is in our nature. If it's curiosity about a homo-sexual experience, I would surmise that the 'curious' caveat should, cum first, if you will. My take on the "advanced years" is this.
A person that is significantly older than you have two distinct advantages. They have collected a vast amount data points in they're experience compared to you. They are in a position to say, I have time now for the roads less traveled. They get that "time" by navigating they're environemnt safely, and sanely. And because, even if they have no close blood relations, they still "seek" a "tribe" to be part of. We as a species just cannot resist that need for, at a minimum, someone to share donuts and coffee with, and conversation. And finally, you have to be careful aound some of these "mature" people. They just might charm you down to your underwear and before you know it, it's game over! I have had it done to me. ANd I really have to thank that guy. Truly, there is no substitute for "experience" . Having a throw down with a hottie "silver haired" devil? Oh Hell Yeah !

 

[curiousdreamer51]

Natural Exploration

Based on my experience as a child growing up in the 50's - we experimented in an innocent way and thought and knew nothing of what was "right" or "wrong". Those labels were given to us later and we were molded, sometimes out if fear but mostly, we went with the flow and what we thought was expected. Now, in my 60's the treat of a label doesn't bother me and I can be as curious and as happy as I choose. I think most people have "curious" thoughts. For some people the fear gets in the way and they never explore. Fear of what others will think. I am not completely over the fear but my boundaries have certainly expanded!

Just my two cents worth.