So, what percentage of men like cocks?

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This is a question that has always interested me.

As I've described myself on this forum, I'm a bi guy, although I've never had sex with a man. I prefer women on every level, but also like cocks. A lot.

Of course guys that identify as gay or bi like them, but what about self-identified straight guys? I totally get not being romantically or emotionally attracted to men. I get the cultural and societal pressures of denying any interest in and avoiding same-sex encounters and not wanting anyone to think you're gay. I totally get greatly preferring pussies over cocks.

But on a purely physical, primal level--are that many guys really repulsed by cocks? For instance, if they were secretly presented the fantasy scenario of a totally safe, totally private session of trading blowjobs with a guy, and they were guaranteed nobody would ever find out--how many men would genuinely have no interest in that?

My five or six closest guy friends are straight, most of them with wives/girlfriends. I know they all prefer women, but I don't know that I'd rule out any of them having a same-sex encounter. One of my closest friends went on a cruise by himself a couple years ago, and he said he got propositioned by a guy. He turned the guy down, but he was smiling as he told me this, and it was more of a "sorry, just a little too risky and not my preference" rather than "Oh, no way would I ever consider that!"

And of course, even straight guys can make the joke "if I could suck my own dick, I'd never leave the house!"

Now, I know some of you guys here have a lot more real-world experience than me when it comes to hooking up with guys, including "straight" guys, so I'd be curious to hear other opinions.

Maybe I'm just projecting, but my guess is that as far as secretly finding gay sex at least somewhat appealing on a physical level, the percentage is probably something like 70-80% of all men. Of course, for many reasons the percentage who would actually act on that is much smaller.

What do others think?
 
This is a question that has always interested me.

As I've described myself on this forum, I'm a bi guy, although I've never had sex with a man. I prefer women on every level, but also like cocks. A lot.

Of course guys that identify as gay or bi like them, but what about self-identified straight guys? I totally get not being romantically or emotionally attracted to men. I get the cultural and societal pressures of denying any interest in and avoiding same-sex encounters and not wanting anyone to think you're gay. I totally get greatly preferring pussies over cocks.

But on a purely physical, primal level--are that many guys really repulsed by cocks? For instance, if they were secretly presented the fantasy scenario of a totally safe, totally private session of trading blowjobs with a guy, and they were guaranteed nobody would ever find out--how many men would genuinely have no interest in that?

My five or six closest guy friends are straight, most of them with wives/girlfriends. I know they all prefer women, but I don't know that I'd rule out any of them having a same-sex encounter. One of my closest friends went on a cruise by himself a couple years ago, and he said he got propositioned by a guy. He turned the guy down, but he was smiling as he told me this, and it was more of a "sorry, just a little too risky and not my preference" rather than "Oh, no way would I ever consider that!"

And of course, even straight guys can make the joke "if I could suck my own dick, I'd never leave the house!"

Now, I know some of you guys here have a lot more real-world experience than me when it comes to hooking up with guys, including "straight" guys, so I'd be curious to hear other opinions.

Maybe I'm just projecting, but my guess is that as far as secretly finding gay sex at least somewhat appealing on a physical level, the percentage is probably something like 70-80% of all men. Of course, for many reasons the percentage who would actually act on that is much smaller.

What do others think?

Married "straight" guy (as far as the masses know) but secretly LOVE to suck cock!!
 
Married straight, but would love to try stroking and sucking
 
As a man with a small penis I've come to find myself attracted to big hard cocks. I have fantasies of dropping to my knees to worship a big cock with my mouth and tongue and to get on my hands and knees and offer my ass to it. Seeing a big hard cock just makes me want to submit to it.
 
All right, I appreciate the responses, but I kind of figured that virtually 100% of the guys on this forum like cock. :)

My question is what do you think about the general population of guys who identify as straight? Are they really, genuinely turned off by cocks?
 
All right, I appreciate the responses, but I kind of figured that virtually 100% of the guys on this forum like cock. :)

My question is what do you think about the general population of guys who identify as straight? Are they really, genuinely turned off by cocks?

how would anyone know most straight guys aren't gonna admit it if they like cock
 
All I know is that the number has grown quite a bit in the last few decades, at least in the West.
 
As a female athlete, and one that roomed with a gay male, I was around a lot of guys that were closeted gay or bisexual. In some cases, I found out because they were comfortable around me because I also had bisexual experiences. And I did not look at bisexuality as abnormal. A lot of males, especially athletes, put up a big macho front to over come their own gay curiosity. From my experience in that world, 30% of guys were involved in some way with another male. Some exclusively gay. Some bisexual. Some just liked sucking cock and getting jacked off. I have a pretty good sense of other men that would like to be with another male and probably another 20% would if no one knew. So in my opinion, I say 50% of males are interested in to some degree in having sex with another man. I think it is about the same for women as well.
 
As a female athlete, and one that roomed with a gay male, I was around a lot of guys that were closeted gay or bisexual. In some cases, I found out because they were comfortable around me because I also had bisexual experiences. And I did not look at bisexuality as abnormal. A lot of males, especially athletes, put up a big macho front to over come their own gay curiosity. From my experience in that world, 30% of guys were involved in some way with another male. Some exclusively gay. Some bisexual. Some just liked sucking cock and getting jacked off. I have a pretty good sense of other men that would like to be with another male and probably another 20% would if no one knew. So in my opinion, I say 50% of males are interested in to some degree in having sex with another man. I think it is about the same for women as well.

Very interesting. Thanks, anniebaby.

I have a female coworker who I recently overheard telling another coworker how she was at the gym and was propositioned by another woman. She said she declined because she was happily married, but I could tell she was kind of flattered and not at all repulsed by the offer.
 
My guess..

The fragility of the male ego prevents most from admitting anything approaching bi-curiosity. I am guessing between 30 to 50%; the higher the age, the higher the likelihood.
 
All right, I appreciate the responses, but I kind of figured that virtually 100% of the guys on this forum like cock. :)

My question is what do you think about the general population of guys who identify as straight? Are they really, genuinely turned off by cocks?

so every guy plays with his own cock all the time , and loves it on some level, so it's a small leap to see appreciation and sexual beauty in another hard cock.

..I think all guys appreciate, perhaps subconsciously, a big hard virile cock and for some penis envy is a result and motivation. So on some level every guy likes cock.
 
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It's all just labels, really... I mean, I'm not attracted to men at all; I don't want to kiss one, I'm not romantically motivated, I don't really relish meeting them or look forward to the emotional side of my liaisons.

Am I straight? Or am I bi, because I love to dress as a woman, and do the things women do? Yes, it's about the cock for me when I'm dressed as a girl. But I'm still overwhelmingly hot for women.
 
I don't know for sure, but I definitely think it's much higher than many straight guys would admit. I think because there's still a lot of societal pressures against being a gay or even bi man, a lot will never admit it. But I do think over 50% would try it if they could be 100% sure no one would every find out.

I know I thought of myself as exclusively straight until I was in my late 30s or early 40s. Since then I've gone from being a little curious and turned on by some same sex porn to considering myself bi - though I have yet to experience sex with another guy. I still love women and love pussy, but I really hope to have a sexual encounter with a man - hopefully soon.
 
I don't know for sure, but I definitely think it's much higher than many straight guys would admit. I think because there's still a lot of societal pressures against being a gay or even bi man, a lot will never admit it. But I do think over 50% would try it if they could be 100% sure no one would every find out.

I know I thought of myself as exclusively straight until I was in my late 30s or early 40s. Since then I've gone from being a little curious and turned on by some same sex porn to considering myself bi - though I have yet to experience sex with another guy. I still love women and love pussy, but I really hope to have a sexual encounter with a man - hopefully soon.

The percentage seems to go up as guys get older... judging form responses here and other threads.
 
100% of me wants cock. It appears though, given it's impossible to find him, that 100% of men don't wish to donate the cock :)
 
All right, I appreciate the responses, but I kind of figured that virtually 100% of the guys on this forum like cock. :)

My question is what do you think about the general population of guys who identify as straight? Are they really, genuinely turned off by cocks?

I'd say most straight guys, and I'd put it somewhere around 70-80%, under the circumstances you mentioned where they were assured nobody might find out, would gladly receive oral from another guy. Now giving oral, I'd say maybe half or less.

I know numbers here would be higher, but I think societies values have changed and more men are open to getting a good blow job, even if from another guy, in the right situation. It's more socially acceptable.
 
There is a thread about older guys becoming curious, I know myself never thought about it before until my marriage ended 10 years ago. I am 72 and had my first experience a few months back and it was wonderful . I love both giving and receiving .
 
100% of me wants cock. It appears though, given it's impossible to find him, that 100% of men don't wish to donate the cock :)

Aren't you on fabguys? Very very easy to find cocks to suck.
 
Honestly love cock. It’s amazing whether down my throat or in my sissy pussy. I crave it, I lust for it. I need it and want it. My clitty gets hard just from the thoughts. My PMs are full of tantalizing fantasies that I wish I could actually complete
 
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