The things I ponder...

[macster3951]

What makes a post interesting?
What compels a person to respond?

 

[SubzeroGirl]

Has anyone else looked at the title of the thread

“Women who like to watch men stroke”

And thought oh no,
F ace
A rms
S peech
T ime

It has to be late and I’m tired right? Or maybe everyone has had this run through their mind. Now I can’t unthink it.

 

[colorfulnayyy]

Why do people stay in relationships that don’t fulfill their needs?
Will I pass the NCLEX the first time?
When will I have toe curling sex with someone?
Will I get to live my fantasies in real life?

 

[pokerpadre]

Not that I'm aware of. Personally, all lies are lies. Now, having said that, do I tell them? Yes. As infrequently as possible and as most folks do, usually to spare folks' feelings.

Thank you for giving me a new idea to examine.

 

[Micio_Lambire]

What makes a post interesting?
What compels a person to respond?

Wording. The ideas/imagery presented. Boredom at times.

 

[macster3951]

Why do people stay in relationships that don’t fulfill their needs?
Will I pass the NCLEX the first time?
When will I have toe curling sex with someone?
Will I get to live my fantasies in real life?

DISCLAIMER: The thoughts expressed below should not be taken as professional advice, as I am not a professional at anything except pissing people off.

People stay in relationships because it is familiar and comfortable, change is difficult.
Good luck on your NCLEX!!!
The first time is not always satisfying or rewarding (unnecessary sexual reference).
Toe curling sex with someone, communication and KNOW KNOW KNOW KNOW your body and what feels AWESOME to you and not what is dictated in the media (aka PORN).
Live life like you want. If you aren't living out your fantasies, someone/something else is controlling your direction in life.

 

[macster3951]

Wording. The ideas/imagery presented. Boredom at times.

My wording, SUCKS.
Ideas/imagery, MARGINAL to FAIR.
Bored a good majority of the time.

Would you respond?

 

[Micio_Lambire]

My wording, SUCKS.
Ideas/imagery, MARGINAL to FAIR.
Bored a good majority of the time.

Would you respond?

I frequently do.

 

[macster3951]

I frequently do.

Indeed you do.

 

[Micio_Lambire]

I am currently pondering my own sense. For some reason I decided it was a good idea to eat 4 chorizo n egg tortillas. Then Mr. could only eat 3 of his 4 so I ate his last one and now I have indigestion

 

[ncheelsmilf]

Do the guys on here truly enjoy responding and talking with us here or are they just looking for a "quick fix"?

 

[TwoTaTango]

There has to be friendly banter or rambling, a connection of sorts ....It is never just a quick "Fix"

 

[colorfulnayyy]

Do the guys on here truly enjoy responding and talking with us here or are they just looking for a "quick fix"?

I definitely some times it’s a quick fix…but again that could be us internalizing the situation/connection.

 

[DarkRaven13]

If there is other intelligent life in the universe ... and how ... whether yes or now ... how either answer is kind of stunning.

 

[RickTango]

If there is other intelligent life in the universe ... and how ... whether yes or now ... how either answer is kind of stunning.

I just wonder what the sex would be like…….

Out of this world..
(Ok I’m entitled to have a Dad joke.)

 

[MsK2021]

I often ponder if it's appropriate to compliment the way someone thinks on this site

If I post a sexy photo, it may feel good when the first one or two persons give me a “very sexy” compliment. But it would begin to feel tiresome quickly after that. Too many repetitions and too predictable. Remember we are online reading the printed word that can be flat and lifeless without seeing your facial expressions and tone of voice . I'd suggest you tell her something beyond the superficial “very sexy” compliment .

 

[macster3951]

Pondering... are dirty thoughts like fine wine?

 

[Btq97]

Where do they get the holes from for nets

 

[SubzeroGirl]

Should I try flannel sheets this year or are they too hot?

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

Should I try flannel sheets this year or are they too hot?

Depends, we use flannel sheets and Anne adds a blanket or two and I usually just use the top sheet.

Lately I have been pondering why anyone watches the fake "reality" shows.

 

[SubzeroGirl]

Depends, we use flannel sheets and Anne adds a blanket or two and I usually just use the top sheet.

Lately I have been pondering why anyone watches the fake "reality" shows.

I’m with you on the reality shows. Even the Netflix shows like “selling Beverly Hills” or “Drink Master” are not about the drinks or houses. I can’t stand watching people and drama any longer. Murder mysteries are much better.

Maybe I’ll give them a try. We have down blankets so it could get a bit toasty. Also the dogs are heat sausages.

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

I’m with you on the reality shows. Even the Netflix shows like “selling Beverly Hills” or “Drink Master” are not about the drinks or houses. I can’t stand watching people and drama any longer. Murder mysteries are much better.

Maybe I’ll give them a try. We have down blankets so it could get a bit toasty. Also the dogs are heat sausages.

Personally I mainly watch YouTube, metal fabrication, woodworking and a few construction and homesteading channels.

Anne is really going to miss her second heat source this winter, we had to say goodbye to our Great Dane last spring.

 

[macster3951]

I’m with you on the reality shows. Even the Netflix shows like “selling Beverly Hills” or “Drink Master” are not about the drinks or houses. I can’t stand watching people and drama any longer. Murder mysteries are much better.

Maybe I’ll give them a try. We have down blankets so it could get a bit toasty. Also the dogs are heat sausages.

I know about the heat sausages, aka dogs. The funny part is one is HOT and the other MEDIUM.
May I suggest an alternative to flannel, a sheet blanket. Available on Vermont Country Store ( non-paid / affiliated spokesperson )

 

[macster3951]

Do the women who post here really enjoy the dirty comments or just the attention?
The sad / unhappy part of me thinks, you're faking it.
The optimistic / positive part of me thinks, "OMG!!!!! YEEEESSSSSS!!!! don't stop, don't stop, harder, HARDER!!!!" (sounds better in my head and doesn't translate well into words, but I think you get the point)

Side note: I have noticed, not scientific, the dirtier the comment it has a 95% chance of getting a written response.

 

[DarkRaven13]

Do the women who post here really enjoy the dirty comments or just the attention?
The sad / unhappy part of me thinks, you're faking it.
The optimistic / positive part of me thinks, "OMG!!!!! YEEEESSSSSS!!!! don't stop, don't stop, harder, HARDER!!!!" (sounds better in my head and doesn't translate well into words, but I think you get the point)

Side note: I have noticed, not scientific, the dirtier the comment it has a 95% chance of getting a written response.

Red response - I think this goes hand in hand perhaps? (The enjoy the comments and the attention I mean.) I suspect that the anonymity that Lit provides allows people (men and women) a little more freedom to say and express things they normally wouldn't irl.

Green response - I think it depends on the forum thread you're talking about. In the Playground for instance, you might be more correct. But if you were in the Politics forum I suspect a more controversial post would generate lots.

Interesting pondering at any rate.

I myself am pondering .... its interesting that I chose too look on Lit during my lunch break instead of actually eating lunch! Hmmm....