MrRetro
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It's been a while since I've really posted in here ... there's been a lot of stuff going on, most of which is super important, but not really of much interest to anyone outside my relationship with my BF.
But something that happened last week was that I had an epiphany. I realised that my marriage 'officially' ended nearly a year ago, but I'm still not actually living the life I wanted to have, and that really I've effectively just traded up my marriage, with all it's attendant pro's and cons, for the relationship I'm in now, with all it's attendant pro's and cons ... but that's been it. There's a lot of reasons for that, but they kind of boil down to not wanting to hurt him ... but I realised that I was still, on some level, not entirely happy, and that I couldn't stay like that in the interests of not hurting him. Being non-monogamous IS the life I want, and ultimately he can either be part of that life, or not.
So I'm going to again post an ad in the local dating site, but this time I'm actually going to date guys ... well, if any are interested.
So, now a bit of market research. I've written dating site ads in the past, so I know how these things go, but I'm interested if anyone has any advice, along the lines of 'it's really useful to know this' or 'saying something like this tends to put off people you might otherwise find interesting'. I'm going to try and draft something later on today ...
Being non monogamous is something you either really ‘get’, or really don’t.. Hopefully your BF will see the intense beauty in it and yearn to be a part of it..
As for the ad, just be honest..