The first time I asked to do it to my wife, she said the same thing - "Ick! That seems gross." I pointed out that it's just skin and can be made clean with soap and water like any other part of the body. And I said the appeal is that it's "kissing you in the most intimate place possible. And I'll be enjoying you in a way no other man ever has before - I'll be the first and only to do it!" That went over well enough for her to let me do it the first few times. ..Now, she she's well over the "ick" factor and really loves the feeling. She'll even let me kiss her on the mouth after I've done it - which is something she wouldn't do the first 10 times or so. No, she doesn't orgasm from it, but it's a great foreplay activity.I tried it a couple of times with my wife while we were in 69 and she kept moving away from me. I think she thought licking an asshole was gross even if she wasn't the one doing it.
Good luck! I hope your wife has a change of heart on the matter.
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