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I'm glad things are on the "up" for youTotally feeling this, Rosie. It's felt like such a long, dreary month.
Luckily, my libido is returning, so I'm optimistic.
I hope your groove returns... and don't forget there are lots of Litsters to help you!
Yeah I'm hoping it's just a bit of winter blues for us all.Mine feels more of a libi-what?
Not feeling sexy much at all atm
Thank you for asking so nicelyJust to add.
I proud that you let me connect with you way back in July and let me become your friend.
Evening all.
The longest month in the history of the world is almost over! Woo hoo!
Hoping everyone is ok.
So I wanted to talk about something rubbish and completely inconvenient, especially when wandering the old Lit halls.
What do you all do when your get up and go actually gets up and goes? When the river of joy runs low? When the lead in your pencil turns to string? When the libido is a libino?
Mine has been on the decline for a few weeks. Probably a combination of rubbish physical and mental health, seasonal affected disorder, and just general "meh"
I'm working on all of those things but progress is slow and I'm kinda losing motivation.
Do you have any good tips for getting your groove back?
For my seasonal affective disorder (SAD), I have found bright light therapy to be helpful. The type of light box used does play a role in it's effectiveness. PM me if you want any more information on that.As you know I slumped hard this month and you were there for me and I am eternally grateful.
But since I've done stuff completely different - just some unique things I've never tried before just because they are there. I also made a new friend who shares a lot of my nerdiness.
And suddenly, sometime around 6am last Saturday morning my drive went back through the roof.
I've also been lucky enough to spend the last few days outside with the sun on my face increasing my serotonin and vitamin D.
& Then one of my trusted readers told me how much they liked my story today and I've been unbearably buoyant.
Bipolar life - high highs; low lows.
I'll be there to catch you whenever you need me.
That's all really good advice Ang. Thank you so much.For my seasonal affective disorder (SAD), I have found bright light therapy to be helpful. The type of light box used does play a role in it's effectiveness. PM me if you want any more information on that.
There are medications that can have a negative impact on libido and can even make it difficult to orgasm. If you're on any new medications or have had a dose increase in any meds that you have been on for a while, I'd recommend looking to see if they are known to have sexual side effects. If so, talk with your GP. They might be able to prescribe a different medication or adjust the dose of medication. They might also take a wait and see approach due to it being a somewhat crummy time of year. I've always felt that January and February are the worst months. It is rarely, if ever, the time of year at which I feel my best.
If I have those two issues under control and am still feeling like my libido is more of a libidon't, I look to how I am taking care of my body. When I am eating a healthier diet and getting some exercise, I tend to feel better physically and have a better attitude about myself and my body... and that can help me feel sexier.
I listen to what my body is telling me. This time of year I usually feel worse because of the lack of daylight, and generally cloudy/cold weather.Evening all.
The longest month in the history of the world is almost over! Woo hoo!
Hoping everyone is ok.
So I wanted to talk about something rubbish and completely inconvenient, especially when wandering the old Lit halls.
What do you all do when your get up and go actually gets up and goes? When the river of joy runs low? When the lead in your pencil turns to string? When the libido is a libino?
Mine has been on the decline for a few weeks. Probably a combination of rubbish physical and mental health, seasonal affected disorder, and just general "meh"
I'm working on all of those things but progress is slow and I'm kinda losing motivation.
Do you have any good tips for getting your groove back?
Yeah I guess I've been caught in a cycle of not being able to get outside much because of dizziness or other health issues so then I've been stuck at home too much which has made my social anxiety issues spike and caused me to withdraw from seeing friends.I listen to what my body is telling me. This time of year I usually feel worse because of the lack of daylight, and generally cloudy/cold weather.
So, I do my best to focus on eating healthy and getting what exercise I can. Both are good for me physically, and it both brings a feeling of accomplishment and, with the exercise, boosts my endorphins, plus helps me sleep better. That’s huge for me.
It's impressive, riding a bike with a broken leg... I like him!You know you've probably been single too long when your child invents a boyfriend for you!
Apparently he's called Tyler. Is tall with blonde hair. Is super thin so he can sneak in through my window. Has a motorbike and a broken leg
I don't know anyone called Tyler
Makes sneaking up to the bedroom window a challenge definitely but what's life without a little risk?It's impressive, riding a bike with a broken leg... I like him!
You're worth it, Rosie!Makes sneaking up to the bedroom window a challenge definitely but what's lift without a little risk?
Aw shucksYou're worth it, Rosie!
Hope you can make the best of it ... Happy Valentine's Day Sexy Lady!
Happy Valentines Day
Whether you're loved up, forever alone (like me) or somewhere in between I hope you all have a perfect day.
My plan was originally gonna be a date day for one where I was gonna enjoy all my favourite things but now my boy isn't away so I'm gonna try and change it up a little.
Why have I never heard of this before?